Influencer reveals her ‘excessive’ $2,000-a-month skincare routine that takes her TWO HOURS each day destroyed her relationship

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Julia Medeiros, an influencer from Miami, shared that her partner broke up with her because of the amount of time she spends on her skincare routine.

The 24-year-old woman, known for her striking looks and often compared to the Kardashians, revealed to Daily Mail that she used to dedicate two hours each day to her skincare routine.

She says her focus on appearance became so intense that her partner ended the relationship after she wouldn’t reduce the amount of time she spent applying makeup and skincare.

‘It didn’t happen in one big argument; it was more something that built up over time,’ she recalls. 

He began criticizing the amount of time I spent in the bathroom, claiming it was excessive and that I prioritized it over other things.

We eventually started talking openly, and he asked me to remove it, but I refused. That’s when I realized we had different perspectives and couldn’t agree.

She felt his reaction was an overreaction, but for her, it was a normal part of her self-care. She didn’t believe she needed to change her behavior.

‘I’ve always invested quite a lot in skincare. 

Depending on my current needs, I can easily spend over $2,000 each month on things like products, treatments, and upkeep. It’s a priority for me, so I budget for it.

Julia believes the time she spends on skincare is largely due to how carefully and thoroughly she performs each step.

She goes beyond simple skincare like moisturizing and exfoliating. Her routine includes double cleansing, using toners, and applying serums tailored to her skin’s daily needs.

I usually focus on hydration and vitamin C, and sometimes use retinol at night. I also incorporate facial massages, masks, and occasionally LED treatments.

I don’t rush my skincare routine. I apply products slowly, allowing them to fully absorb into my skin. I also like to incorporate massage and tools like ice rollers or gua sha for extra benefits.

That’s what takes up most of my time. Some days, I also do things like hair and skincare routines.

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It transforms into a complete self-care experience, not just a skincare routine. That’s why it often takes more than two hours to complete, she explains.

Julia often felt that her focus on self-improvement hindered her relationships, but this was the first time a partner actually ended things because of it.

She’s always made taking care of her skin a priority and considers it a daily necessity, but she recognizes that her dedication to it can sometimes affect her relationships.

Julia remembers taking a very long time in the bathroom after each part of her daily routine, and this started to bother her former partner.

Oh, I could just lose myself there, you know? I’d take my time with everything, meticulously going through each detail, savoring every moment. It meant the world to me, honestly. But honestly, the person I was with? They just didn’t get it. It really started to bother them, like I was doing something wrong. It was so frustrating!

The influencer explained that the problem didn’t appear suddenly, but developed gradually and eventually became a major issue in the relationship.

Despite realizing it caused problems, she couldn’t stop the behavior, and it made things even worse with her partner.

I wouldn’t change who I was, and I didn’t slow down for anyone. Ultimately, that created tension in the relationship,” she said.

After her relationship ended, Julia admitted she started to think about how much time she dedicated to her skincare routine daily.

She says she now tries to manage her time better while still maintaining her usual routine. 

‘Back then it could easily go over two hours if I was doing everything properly,’ she reveals. 

I’ve gotten better at streamlining my skincare routine. I still care about taking care of my skin, but I aim for a more manageable approach that easily fits into my daily life.

I kept going, but I realized I needed to set boundaries to prevent things from negatively impacting other parts of my life.

Julia believes this situation illustrates a frequent problem in relationships: when one partner challenges the other’s personal habits.

She explains that it can be difficult when people don’t understand what’s important to you, and that this lack of understanding can create issues.

‘If I have to choose between giving up myself or a relationship, I know what my choice is.’

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2026-04-18 14:23