Selena Gomez says she ‘can’t carry my own children,’ but remains optimistic about starting a family

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As a longtime admirer of Selena Gomez’s talent and resilience, I can’t help but feel a profound sense of respect for her as she shares her plans to start a family through surrogacy or adoption. The journey that Selena has been on, from her struggles with mental health issues, bipolar disorder, and lupus, to her triumphs as an actress, singer, and businesswoman, is nothing short of inspiring.

Selena Gomez shares her intention to have a child before turning 35, mentioning that she might opt for surrogacy or adoption as potential paths towards motherhood.

The 32-year-old entertainer, entrepreneur, and beauty brand executive shared something new in an interview with Vanity Fair for their October cover story: “I’ve never been able to carry my own children due to several health issues.” These complications pose risks not only to me but also to the baby, a reality I had to cope with for some time.

She mentioned that creating a family wasn’t exactly as she had imagined. She believed it would follow the usual path for most people. However, she’s now in a more positive state about it. She’s grateful there are selfless individuals who offer surrogacy or adoption, which open up exciting opportunities for her.

Previously, Gomez spent five years without a partner. During this time, she focused on her family and started considering the possibility of establishing a family herself.

Back in 2022, when discussing pregnancy with Rolling Stone, I shared that due to my bipolar medications, it’s not easy for me to carry a child. Yet, I firmly believe that when and how I become a mother is all part of my destiny. No matter the path, I am determined to make it happen.

In my perspective, during her twenties, a captivating artist sought solace and understanding at no less than four healthcare facilities, focusing on her mental wellness. Fast-forwarding to 2019, she was officially diagnosed with bipolar disorder following a harrowing experience with psychosis.

According to Gomez, it wasn’t until my early twenties that things began to feel quite bleak for me. I found myself struggling to manage my emotions, whether they were extremely positive or negative. There seems to be something within me, possibly related to my bipolar disorder, which keeps me grounded – although in a rather somber manner,” she told Rolling Stone.

Apart from her ongoing fight with bipolar disorder, Gomez has faced the challenge of lupus – a chronic autoimmune disease that eventually required a kidney transplant in 2017. Despite a lifetime filled with various health issues, the winner of the 2024 Cannes Film Festival’s leading actress role expresses gratitude and excitement for what lies ahead.

Gomez expressed his eagerness about the upcoming journey and acknowledged that it might take a unique shape. However, he emphasized that he’s flexible with the changes, as long as it belongs to him – it will be his project.

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2024-09-10 04:01