Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star’s veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia – after announcing she’s been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years

Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years

As a compassionate observer of Martine’s journey, I am deeply moved by her courage and resilience in facing the challenges that life has thrown at her. Her struggles with chronic fatigue syndrome, ME, perimenopause, and fibromyalgia are not just health issues but tests of her spirit and determination.


Martine McCutcheon‘s marriage to Jack McManus almost ended in turmoil when her wedding veil ignited, causing her to believe she might need to pay off the mob.

On a surprising turn of events, the actress from EastEnders, aged 48, stunned fans on Thursday by disclosing that Jack had ended their relationship after 18 years.

Audience members were taken aback when they heard the surprising news, which followed her heartfelt birthday tribute to Jack on August 4, where she also mentioned that he had recently lost his father.

The couple married in 2012 in Italy’s picturesque Lake Como, five years after they started dating.

Previously speaking with Hello! magazine, Martine shared an incident where her Pronovias wedding dress unintentionally ignited.

Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years

Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years

She said: ‘I wish we’d have practised talking in the microphone because my husband set my veil on fire when he put the microphone down on the table, then I had to reach over the candelabra to reach the microphone and get it.

In the video, it appears as if someone is physically touching or helping to extinguish a flame on my veil. It makes me wish that we had recited our vows instead.

During an appearance on The Chris and Rosie Ramsay Show, Martine stated that if she desired fireworks at the event, it would require a contribution to the Italian mafia.

She said: ‘We were like, ‘We’d love fireworks’ and [the wedding planners] were like, ‘Yeah, you need to make a donation to the lake’. It’s a donation, like to the mafia. 

She clarified that there were numerous undisclosed fees we had to cover. It was as if they said, “To dock your boat here on this section of the lake, you need to contribute.” The amounts weren’t small change; they were substantial, amounting to thousands of dollars.

In a statement, Martine shared: ‘After careful deliberation, Jack believes that it is in our best interest to part ways following 18 years as a couple. I respect his choice.’

I express heartfelt gratitude as I affirm that our cherished 9-year-old son, Rafferty, is a profound blessing in our lives. His wellbeing and joy remain our utmost concern, a priority that will always guide us moving forward.

We continue to treasure and eagerly anticipate raising our wonderful son as parents for the remainder of our lifetimes.

Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years
Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years
Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years

Over the course of time, this decision has been developing, and we’re currently figuring out our path as a family. We kindly request that we be given some space during this period… Particularly for our youngest member.

As an ardent admirer, I can unequivocally affirm that my affection for Rafferty remains unwavering and steadfast. It’s only natural that I yearn to ensure his safety and provide him with a sense of security, making sure he knows he is cherished and supported in every way possible.

‘Many thanks in advance for your respect and support, at this difficult time…

I’ll keep on sending Jack a abundance of love, luck, and joy for your upcoming journey. As always, Rafferty and I will be cheering you on!

‘Thank you all, for the love and support, now and always…Martine.xx.’

Currently, Martine is enjoying her vacation in Marbella alongside Rafferty. She’s been posting numerous photos of herself in swimsuits, along with some heartwarming mother-and-son moments.

Prior to my surprising revelation, I took to social media to share a moment with Rafferty by the poolside, accompanied by a selfie, and wrote: “Marbella’s charm has worked its enchantment yet again. A much-needed respite! #grateful”

She also shared a swimsuit snap and revealed she ‘felt so lucky’ to be abroad. 

Moments before she broke the news of her split, she shared a poignant post about heartbreak. 

I trust you understand this: Your heart alone is more than sufficient. You possess the intelligence, wit, and intrigue needed to shine brightly.

‘Your smile is radiant on its own, and it’s more than enough. The same goes for your inner light – it shines brightly. Even those who may find it hard to appreciate or acknowledge that light, they are just as valid. They matter too.’

If you simply wish to spend hours in silence, your mere presence brings comfort. You aren’t required to speak up to drown out the silence, nor are you obligated to share anything if you choose not to.

‘Just stay true to yourself, offer who you are – not who you think the world wants you to be. 

‘Because I promise you’re heart is enough You’re enough. You have nothing to prove.’ 

One day prior to revealing their separation, Martine shared an image of a stunning silver necklace with the caption: ‘Thanks, Raffy! Us two have always been something special!’

Towards the close of last July, I found myself sharing a thoughtful message on my Instagram account that subtly hinted at the importance of releasing control and granting others room to breathe. As I pondered over the events of an especially taxing week, these themes seemed particularly relevant.

suggestion for paraphrasing the given text:

Pay attention to your personal growth and aspirations, allowing room for others as well. Keep in mind that it is not your responsibility to always be available whenever they might need you.

In addition to her cryptic message, Martine expressed: “This week has been quite intense for several reasons, and today is all about relaxation, recharging, reflecting on everything I need to address, making healthy decisions regarding different aspects of my life to maintain balance, happiness, growth, safety, and stability.”

Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years
Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years
Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years

Have you found yourself in a situation similar to what’s described in the post, within a friendship or relationship? If so, did you find it challenging or was there a sense of ease and resolution knowing that your actions were appropriate for that particular instance? How did you go about implementing this decision?

1. “Were you able to uncover the reality of your former connection? Are you actively making this decision at present? Has anything provided the motivation for you to establish order and correctness?”

I value your insights greatly! It truly means a lot to me that thoughtful and knowledgeable individuals follow my journey here, as I constantly find myself learning from your unique experiences too.

The sudden separation between Martine and Jack occurred merely weeks following an emotional birthday tribute that Martine posted for Jack, during which she mentioned that Jack was mourning the passing of his father.

Expressing joy, Martine enthusiastically posted pictures of Jack with their son, expressing hope that one day her spouse would realize the depth of Jack’s love for him and understand the impactful role model Jack has become for their boy.

Martine wrote: “Dearest Jack, Happy 40th Birthday! I know this birthday feels strange and bittersweet, as you’ve lost your dear father, Mick, who was not only your dad but also your closest friend… It’s heartbreaking to see you grieve so deeply for someone you loved so much.”

Expressing her condolences following the death of his brother LJ at 31 in 2022, Martine said: ‘I know how you feel when losing someone close, as I too have experienced it – And I believe, given time, you’ll appreciate more than ever the impact he had on your life. He will remain with you forever, for no one can take that away…’

‘It’s been a tough time for a long time but Mick has passed on to you, the resilience, strength and grace that you will need to not just survive but thrive in your life. I have no doubt you will show him that you took it all on board.’

As a devoted follower, I believe it’s not just words we impart on our children about living life, but our actions speak volumes, especially during the highs and lows. I’m confident that Rafferty serves as your source of strength and comfort, and he is thrilled to embark on this journey with you, creating unforgettable memories together!

Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years
Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years
Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years

In my devotion to you, dear one, I’ve shared that we should take things one step at a time. You are well aware of the depth of my unwavering affection for you, and I can only express my heartfelt desire to alleviate our troubles.

In conclusion, contemplating Jack’s journey as a singer-songwriter, she couldn’t help but express her admiration: ‘At just 40 years old, you’ve already realized so many dreams! Above all, now you have the love to bestow upon your most significant accomplishment and treasure in life – our son.’

I wish for you to sense the warmth of love encompassing you today, and understand that amidst everything, an extraordinary and fulfilling new phase awaits you! Take a moment to breathe deeply, now let’s embark on some enjoyable times together!

In 2022, Martine and Jack reaffirmed their commitment to each other. A couple of months afterward, they openly acknowledged that their relationship isn’t flawless, yet they do share confidences during difficult times.

She confided in The Sun about her relationship, stating, “Jack and I have always maintained openness, admitting that our relationship isn’t flawless in any way.”

As a lifestyle enthusiast, I must confess that life hasn’t always been smooth sailing for me and my close ones. We’ve faced our fair share of hurdles, yet, looking back, I believe those trials have only strengthened the bond we share. In essence, I can proudly say that through it all, we’ve become each other’s most trusted confidants – truly, the best of friends.

It’s comforting to know that during challenging times when life isn’t perfect, you have someone to share your thoughts and feelings openly without fear, knowing that it’s a secure environment where you can be completely authentic, and trust that they will support you.

Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years
Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years

Back in December 2016, while appearing on the talk show Loose Women, Martine confessed that her friends played a crucial role in preserving her marriage to Jack.

She mentioned that on several occasions, her friends have effectively intervened to preserve her relationship with Jack. There have indeed been challenging moments in their decade-long bond, as one would expect with any partnership – after all, it’s been tough for eight years out of the ten, but he remains a blessing nonetheless.

However, even amidst hardships and difficulties, it’s been my friends who, when I felt utterly hopeless, helped me regain clarity of thought.

They’ve been saying things like, “Take a deep breath, you truly care for him, the two of you seem destined, keep going.” In today’s world, it seems that many quickly give up – everything feels so discardable these days.

For nearly four eventful years, I embodied the role of Barmaid Tiff in EastEnders, right up until my character was tragically struck by a vehicle on New Year’s Eve in 1998.

After her successful stint in soap operas, Martine later accomplished a top-charting single in 1999 titled “My Perfect Moment,” and she also received a Laurence Olivier Award for her exceptional portrayal of Eliza Doolittle on the West End stage in My Fair Lady.

In 2002, she won many over with her portrayal of the modest love interest opposite Hugh Grant’s character, the Prime Minister, in the film Love Actually.

More recently, Martine made headlines by being unmasked as Swan on the popular reality TV series The Masked Singer.

Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years
Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years

Previously, Martine has openly discussed her battles with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (ME), a condition she was diagnosed with in the year 2011.

Previously, the actress disclosed that she ended up in the hospital on Jack’s birthday in 2023 because she became so dizzy and weak she couldn’t stay upright.

She explained how grateful she was and explained how debilitating the condition can be. 

Although Echo Beach seemed content and laid-back to her audience, she confided to her followers that she had actually experienced a relapse of Chronic Fatigue Syndrome.

Myalgic encephalomyelitis, also called chronic fatigue syndrome or ME/CFS, is a long-term condition with a wide range of symptoms. 

The primary sign often encountered is severe fatigue, accompanied by difficulties in sleep (frequent awakenings throughout the night) and challenges in recalling information and maintaining focus.

2023 saw Martine openly discussing her personal struggle with perimenopause, confessing that it had been causing intense anxiety for her, leaving her feeling as though her sanity had slipped away.

She penned: ‘Peri menopause symptoms… Such Fun!

Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years
Martine McCutcheon wedding disaster: Star's veil caught on fire and she feared giving money to the mafia - after announcing she's been dumped by husband Jack after 18 years

It seems I’ve been dealing with hot flashes, insomnia, mental fog, and fatigue, among other things. You know, the list just keeps growing. To tell you the truth, having experienced ME/CFS and fibromyalgia since my twenties, these symptoms have become somewhat manageable… (knock on wood!)

As a lifestyle expert, I must admit that while many conversations revolve around physical symptoms during perimenopause, one aspect that often goes unspoken is the intense anxiety it can trigger in some women. It’s crucial to acknowledge and address this emotional aspect of perimenopause as well, for holistic health and wellness.

As a devoted enthusiast, I can’t help but express my feelings about this peculiar, senseless worry that’s been gnawing at me. It’s as if my very sanity has been snatched away, leaving me utterly bewildered and disoriented!

I’ve noticed that there isn’t much discussion about this particular aspect of life out in the open, at least from my perspective. I felt compelled to bring it up because I know some of you might be experiencing similar feelings and may feel isolated or anxious – rest assured, you are not alone! Sharing our experiences can help us all understand each other better and find comfort in knowing that we’re not the only ones going through these challenges.

Martine elaborated that her anxiety had grown to such an extent that she began shying away from ordinary activities.

She stated, ‘It brings me joy to share that I’ve moved past a period where I lacked the confidence to drive (That’s completely unlike me!), and I’m now comfortably regaining my usual state.’

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