Why Sydney Sweeney can’t stop dating MUCH older men – sexologist reveals surprising psychology behind it

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Okay, so I’m totally obsessed with Sydney Sweeney, and honestly, everyone’s always talking about who she’s dating. But it’s not just who, it’s the age gaps! It’s like, a pattern, you know? I spend way too much time thinking about it, but it’s just so interesting to me!

Actress Alexa Demie, 28, is now reportedly dating music executive Scooter Braun, 44. This comes after a long-term relationship and engagement with businessman Jonathan Davino, 42, whom she started dating when she was just 20 years old.

Together, they co-founded her production company Fifty-Fifty Films before splitting in 2025.

Following a recent confirmation of her relationship with a kiss, relationship expert Sofie Roos – a licensed sexologist with 18 years of experience – shared her thoughts on why younger women might be attracted to much older partners. She explained it’s not always about power or status, as some might assume.

There are often multiple reasons, and age isn’t usually the main factor,” Roos explained to The Daily Mail.

From what I’ve seen working with clients, a lot of people are drawn to older partners because they offer a sense of security, stability, and emotional intelligence. It’s often about finding someone who’s a bit more established and knows themselves, and that’s something you tend to find more consistently with people who have more dating experience.

As a lifestyle expert, I often work with clients navigating relationships, and I’ve found something really interesting. If you tend to worry about whether people will be there for you – if you have what’s called an ‘insecure attachment style’ – a partner who’s a bit more established and dependable can actually be incredibly comforting. It’s like having a solid anchor when things feel uncertain.

According to a sexual health expert at Passionerad, people often feel more secure with partners who are older and more mature, as they tend to be seen as dependable and caring.

But, she stressed, that doesn’t mean it stems from trauma. 

Often, it comes down to growing up a little faster or understanding that your friends might have different goals and priorities than you do.

Sweeney has often discussed the difficulties she faced growing up, including her parents’ divorce and financial hardship. When she was sixteen, her family struggled so much they all had to share a single hotel room.

According to Roos, experiences like those can subtly influence who we’re drawn to later in life.

She explained that people who grew up with a lot of responsibility – perhaps having to support a parent or look after siblings – often desire a relationship where they don’t feel like they need to be in charge or constantly take care of others.

‘An older partner can symbolize someone who takes control, which can feel comforting.’

As a lifestyle expert, I’ve noticed a fascinating pattern. Often, those of us who grew up having to take on adult responsibilities – essentially, being parentified as children – tend to repeat that dynamic in our relationships. We unconsciously seek out partners who need caretaking, because honestly, it feels safe. It’s a familiar role, even if it wasn’t a healthy one, and our brains often gravitate towards what feels known.

Roos also pointed out that this behavior isn’t necessarily a problem, as long as both people in the relationship understand why it’s happening.

‘It’s about making choices consciously, not repeating old emotional patterns,’ she stressed.

The expert challenged the frequent assumption that young women in relationships with older men are either overly reliant on their partners or seeking to gain control through the relationship.

A common mistake people make is thinking these relationships are always about one person controlling the other, explained Roos. Take Sydney Sweeney, for example – with a fortune estimated at $40 million, she’s financially independent and doesn’t rely on anyone for support.

She explained that successful relationships with age differences are usually based on things like respect, good communication, and shared feelings – not one person relying on the other.

It’s often assumed that the younger person in a relationship is seeking attention or power, but that’s not always the case.

‘Sometimes, they’re the one with higher status – just as in Sydney’s case,’ Roos pointed out.

So how can you tell if an age-gap relationship is healthy?

According to Roos, a healthy relationship feels stable and equal. Both people talk honestly, have a say in decisions, and value each other’s individuality, personal limits, and goals.

Roos warned that age becoming ‘a tool for control’ can be a major red flag. 

She explained that problems arise when the more experienced partner consistently dominates conversations, dismisses the ideas of their junior counterpart, or when the relationship relies too heavily on one person needing the other.

Okay, so over the weekend things got a little heated between me and Davino. We ran into each other, and honestly, what started as a catch-up quickly turned into a pretty loud disagreement. Let’s just say it wasn’t the most peaceful reunion!

At one point, TMZ reported that she shouted: ‘I don’t believe you. Please leave – leave me alone.’

Although it might have seemed that way, Andreea Tanase, a relationship coach who works with successful women, asked people not to jump to conclusions and label her reaction as immature.

Tanase explained that because younger partners are often stereotyped as immature, people are likely interpreting her emotional response based on that assumption. We all approach the situation with our own ideas about how each person should behave in a relationship, and that colors our judgment.

She explained that we often only see what we expect to see, a tendency called confirmation bias. It’s important to remember we don’t know the full story behind someone’s reaction, or how the other person involved was behaving. Every relationship faces challenges, and age differences add another layer of complexity.

As someone who follows relationship trends closely, I often see the misconception that when there’s a significant age difference, the relationship must be about exploitation or simply a transaction. It’s a really common assumption, and honestly, it’s often inaccurate. I recently spoke with Mary Bersina from Hily, and she confirmed this is something they see a lot – people jumping to that conclusion without knowing the full story.

Bersina argued that truly meaningful relationships aren’t simply about what each person gets out of them. She believes people often fail to recognize that partners actively choose to be together, and that both individuals see potential for personal growth within the relationship, which is what allows it to last and deepen.

Sweeney split from Davino in March after seven years together. 

Billionaire Hamish Braun, with an estimated fortune of $500 million, finalized his divorce from Yael Cohen in 2021 after seven years of marriage.

They share three children. 

According to a source at The Daily Mail, Sydney Sweeney and Jonathan Davino remain in contact due to ongoing business dealings.

Even though they recently had a difficult split, the former couple continues to work together at their production company, Fifty-Fifty Films. This company produced Sweeney’s new movie, Christy, which tells the life story of professional boxer Christy Martin.

Beyond work matters, another source mentioned Sweeney is annoyed with Davino, as he seems to know exactly how to irritate her.

According to a source, both parties are upset about the breakup. Sweeney is also frustrated that photos of them together were published by the paparazzi.

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2025-11-07 19:05