Why Ben Affleck feels he can’t ‘get away’ from Jennifer Lopez after she breaks silence on their divorce

Why Ben Affleck feels he can't 'get away' from Jennifer Lopez after she breaks silence on their divorce

As a die-hard fan of all things Hollywood drama, I can’t help but feel a deep sense of empathy for Ben Affleck, who seems to be stuck in a never-ending loop of Jennifer Lopez talk. Their love story has been a rollercoaster ride that spans two decades, and it feels like we’ve all been on this wild journey with them.


Despite parting ways with Jennifer Lopez half a year ago, Ben Affleck finds it challenging to escape the ongoing chatter surrounding their marriage and separation.

In the heart of summer’s heat last August, I found myself standing at a crossroads, witnessing the quiet end of a two-year union between them. For months prior, whispers and rumors had been circling about this beloved couple, hinting at stormy seas after they tried to navigate their relationship for a second time.

This week, at the age of 55, Lopez decided to speak openly about the end of their relationship, using words like ‘sad’ and ‘terrifying’ during a daring photoshoot for Interview magazine.

Affleck, aged 52, apparently didn’t realize she would be sharing her thoughts on the matter at that moment, but, considering her past of chronicling their relationship, she recognizes she might discuss their separation for a prolonged period.

A source revealed to DailyMail.com on an exclusive basis that Ben is aware she’ll continue discussing the breakup extensively, as she’s created multiple albums and documentaries centered around their two romantic experiences.

Why Ben Affleck feels he can't 'get away' from Jennifer Lopez after she breaks silence on their divorce

‘He would love for her not to talk about it, but he feels she will always speak out.

‘He wasn’t warned in advance about her discussing their relationship, but he expected the conversation at some point. After all, it’s an aspect of his life that won’t disappear.’

According to the source, Affleck is accepting of whatever approach Jennifer takes regarding the situation, and he understands that she has a tendency to discuss her private matters openly.

‘Everyone copes differently with loss and separation, and that’s how Jen chose to handle things, while Ben needs to understand this. He often prefers to keep private matters, including significant aspects of their relationship, confidential.’

20th August saw Rihanna, known for her song “On the Floor,” file for divorce from Affleck, marking an end to their relationship which had been fraught with difficulties according to months of media reports, nearly two decades after their initial separation.

This week, Lopez openly discussed her challenging split with Nikki Glasser, sharing insights about how her life seemed to unexpectedly unravel.

She conveyed that it’s disconcerting, strange, and frightening to her,” she shared with the comedian during her interview with Interview magazine. “It’s heartbreaking. It’s agonizing.

However, when you find yourself immersed in those emotions and think, “I can weather these storms,” it’s a realization that you possess the power to experience joy and happiness independently. A romantic relationship does not shape your identity.

Why Ben Affleck feels he can't 'get away' from Jennifer Lopez after she breaks silence on their divorce
Why Ben Affleck feels he can't 'get away' from Jennifer Lopez after she breaks silence on their divorce

When asked about any regrets, she responded by saying: “No moment at all. However, it came incredibly close to ending things for me permanently.

Lopez stated that she isn’t currently seeking anyone and hinted that her former partner, Affleck, may not have fully accepted her imperfections.

She explained, ‘A person who genuinely cares for you assists in mending your inner self. That’s what I’ve discovered about love – it provides a sense of security. You make me feel secure, and when I stumble or fail to meet expectations, you forgive me and guide me towards improvement because we each have our own boundaries.’

The performer showed off without a top, wearing a leopard-print bikini bottom and coordinating gloves, to celebrate the 55th anniversary of that particular magazine.

In the days following an interview, Affleck appeared serious rather than amused, as he was spotted in Los Angeles, examining potential locations for his upcoming production.

In the early 2000s, Lopez and Affleck became well-known as an engaged couple, but they eventually split up. However, they rekindled their relationship in July 2022 and got married. Later on, they had a second wedding ceremony just one month after their initial nuptials.

At first, their two-year love affair received a lot of media attention, making it challenging for them to cope with the constant examination of their bond.

In her music documentary titled “The Greatest Love Story Never Told,” she shared that Ben and she had split just three days prior to our planned wedding, and under the weight of it all, we struggled to cope. People might assume we were handling things alright, but we just brushed it aside.

Why Ben Affleck feels he can't 'get away' from Jennifer Lopez after she breaks silence on their divorce

In my journey towards reconciling with my spouse, I, a two-time Oscar winner, openly acknowledged that I hold little to no desire to regularly feature on her social media platforms.

Concerns about their relationship started arising back in May, as it became noticeable that they hadn’t been seen together for a period of 47 days in any photographs.

Lopez attended the Met Gala and her film premiere for Atlas alone.

The buzz grew intense as Affleck relocated from their $60 million Californian residence to a temporary accommodation worth $100,000 per month, which is in close proximity to his former wife, Jennifer Garner.

In a brief span of time, the house was discreetly put up for sale at an asking price of $65 million, while they started unloading artwork that adorned the mansion.

For the first time since they announced their separation, they came together again recently at the Beverly Hills Hotel. Their reunion was attended by their children a month ago.

Affleck and Garner co-parent Violet (age 18), Finn (age 15), and Samuel (age 12), whereas Lopez is a parent to Emme (age 16) and Max (age 16) from her previous marriage with Marc Anthony.

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2024-10-11 07:34

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