Want to date an A-Lister? Here’s what it really takes to bag a celebrity after Nicole Kidman’s strict dating requirements were revealed following her split from Keith Urban

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Have you ever wondered what it really takes to date an A-lister? 

It often seems like life with a global superstar is full of glamour – red carpets, fancy trips, and VIP access to everything.

Despite the apparent sparkle and excitement, the lives of those in the public eye are often filled with grueling work, relentless scrutiny, and enormous stress.

For anyone hoping to keep up, it takes far more than charm and good looks.

The Daily Mail has compiled a list of what celebrities like Jessica Simpson, Kim Kardashian, and Lucy Hale look for in a partner, offering insights into how you might attract their attention.

Reports surfaced this week that Nicole Kidman, recently separated from her husband Keith Urban, might be open to dating again.

Those hoping to date the 58-year-old Australian actress might be disappointed – she doesn’t seem likely to join dating apps like Hinge or Tinder anytime soon.

According to Woman’s Day, the actress, who has been married twice before, is approaching dating with a very specific set of rules – essentially, a dating ‘manifesto’.

According to a source, Nicole is ready to start dating again and won’t waste time on people who aren’t serious.

They commented that she’s finally figured out what she wants and isn’t settling for anything less than she deserves.

According to the source, Nicole is very specific about who she’d date, and she’s made it clear she doesn’t want to date any actors.

Despite this, they also mentioned the singer is open to dating someone else in the music business, as she likes being connected to, but separate from, her ex-husband Keith’s world.

It was also suggested that the trait that Nicole is looking for most in a man is ‘kindness’.

Kids are welcome, especially if they’re around the same age as Nicole’s daughters, Sunday Rose, 17, and Faith Margaret, 15.

She’s looking for a financially stable, emotionally mature man who is responsible and doesn’t have any substance abuse issues. While she’s open to him having children, she’d prefer they be around the same age as, or older than, her own daughters.

The source also claimed that ‘virility’ was a very important trait for Nicole’s new man to possess.

No matter what Nicole is looking for in a partner, any potential boyfriend will still need to be approved by her close and protective group of friends.

‘Nicole’s leaving the bulk of the vetting to her circle of friends,’ the source said.

She only agrees to meet someone for coffee if a friend she completely trusts has recommended them to her.

Last year, singer Jessica revealed was ready to date following her split from ex Eric Johnson.

However, she said at the time she has one non-negotiable: they’ve got to be a good kisser.

In an interview with Jenna Bush Hager on Today, the actress admitted she’s a little nervous about returning to work.

She described her ideal partner to Bush Hager as someone truly unique and special.

‘I don’t have, like, a look or anything like that.

‘I just like for somebody to be individually who they are and exude confidence without the ego.’

Honestly, I really connect with what she said. It feels like the opportunity I’m looking for is within reach, and I don’t need constant reassurance or someone to hold my hand while I go after it. I’m capable of pursuing my goals independently.

It would be great to be able to share the freedom and independence I currently enjoy with someone else.

Jessica announced her split from Eric, with whom she shares three kids with, early last year.

The two had been married since 2014 and together since 2010. 

Before marrying Eric, a former NFL player, Jessica was married to singer Nick Lachey from 2002 until their divorce in 2006.

Lucy Hale, known for her role in Pretty Little Liars, seems to be dating Phillip Lopez, though neither has confirmed the relationship. She’s previously shared what she absolutely needs in a partner.

In a 2023 podcast interview with Rachel Bilson, she explained that after her last breakup, she developed a very clear idea of what she wanted in a partner. Some might consider her requirements strict, but she believes everyone deserves to have standards and find someone who meets them.

I’ve been single for a while now, mostly because I’ve been waiting for someone who meets certain qualities, and it’s required a lot of patience.

I’m open to dating all kinds of people, but honestly, I’m more focused on maintaining the self-respect and confidence I’ve built over time – something I lacked earlier in my life.

I’ve really focused on personal growth, so it’s incredibly important to me that someone is self-aware – knows what they’re good at and what they need to work on. If someone isn’t self-aware, I’m just not interested. It’s a dealbreaker.

He absolutely has to be funny. Seriously, if he can make me laugh, I’m completely won over. It’s the quickest way to get my attention and approval.

‘I haven’t really had rules with dating. I’ve dated all the way up to 52 — [from] 27 to 52.

I’m 33, and I expect to likely end up with someone my age or older. That’s because they’re more likely to share my core values and what’s important to me in a relationship.

‘He was a young 52. I loved it. No bulls–t, almost.’

She shared that one of the things she finds most exciting is when people show genuine curiosity and ask questions.

Have you ever noticed when you’re talking to someone that they seem to only be asking questions so they can talk, or they don’t ask you anything at all?

You know, from where I stand as someone who observes people and relationships, it really comes down to awareness. Seriously, someone who can truly read a room, who’s tuned into how others are feeling – that’s incredibly attractive. Honestly, if someone possesses that level of emotional intelligence, they’ve pretty much got my attention immediately! It’s a rare quality, though, and that’s what makes it so special.

I often see this quality in women, and I think it’s because we tend to be more empathetic and in touch with our feelings. Personally, I’m drawn to men who are emotionally open – not necessarily those who cry, but someone comfortable exploring their full range of emotions and being authentic.

In 2021, Kim Kardashian, the founder of SKIMS, shared what she wants in a future partner following her divorce from Kanye West.

In the final episode of Keeping Up With The Kardashians, filmed before she filed for divorce, Kim shared what she was looking for in a partner: someone who liked to exercise and watch TV with her.

During a heartfelt conversation with her mother, Kris Jenner, Kim revealed she’d accomplished all her goals, but felt saddened by not having a partner to celebrate those successes with.

She told her mother that while she already has everything she could ever want, she’s now looking for simpler, more meaningful experiences.

Kim, who is currently dating Formula 1 driver Lewis Hamilton, says she was happy focusing on raising her four children. However, turning 40 led her to rethink what’s important to her, and her feelings began to change.

I’m incredibly proud of everything I’ve accomplished – I’ve far exceeded my own goals. However, I don’t have anyone to share these successes with, which feels isolating.

Yes, I love my kids, of course. But is that all there is? Can I really expect my children to be enough to make me completely happy and fulfilled?

I didn’t feel lonely at all, and I was happy with that. I was content just being with my kids. My husband’s job meant we moved around a lot, and I was fine with following him and adapting to new places.

Kim confessed that she and Kanye had a better relationship when they weren’t living together, and she wasn’t happy about that.

Turning forty made me realize I don’t want a partner who lives far away. I used to think things were going well when we were apart, but now I see that’s not what I want for my future.

I’m looking for someone who enjoys watching the same shows as me and would be interested in working out together.

In 2020, Gary Lineker’s brother, Wayne, faced online criticism for sharing a strange set of requirements for his ideal partner. These included wanting someone who would quit their job, didn’t want children, could cook, and enjoyed R&B music.

The club owner shared a list on Instagram using the hashtag ‘banter,’ but it quickly caused a backlash online. Followers were upset by the requirements Wayne had set, including wanting partners who enjoyed the gym, had a fit physique, and were not his age, as he felt that would be awkward.

One X user commented that Wayne Lineker is behaving in a particularly unsettling way lately.

Wayne, a father of four, has been married once and has dated several women. He’s been single since ending his relationship with his former fiancée, Danielle Sandhu, in 2018. Danielle was 31 years younger than him.

Okay, so everyone’s losing their minds over this video of Wayne at his Ibiza club, and honestly, I don’t get the hate! He was just having fun picking out who he’d take on a date, and yeah, maybe the girls he didn’t choose ended up taking a little dip – a playful push into the pool, if you ask me! People are making it sound awful, but it was all lighthearted and he was just being Wayne. Honestly, the negativity is ridiculous – he’s living his best life and everyone else is just jealous!

After receiving some criticism about his standards, Wayne clarified that his post was meant as a joke.

Wayne announced on Instagram the day before that his family thinks he needs a girlfriend for his well-being, and he was sharing what he’s looking for in one.

Let me tell you, I’ve always seen them as someone incredibly grounded – genuinely strong, kind, and full of love. But honestly, what really matters is…

I’m looking for someone who appreciates older men, specifically me. Ideally, you’d be experienced and over 30 – maybe 28 or 29 is okay – but not around my age, as that would be awkward.

This lifestyle requires a love of travel, including luxurious accommodations and flights. You’ll either need to be financially independent or have a job that allows you to work remotely from anywhere in the world – perhaps even a beach!

This role requires spending the summer months in Ibiza and the winter in Dubai. You’ll also need to return to the UK for two weeks over Christmas and New Year to spend time with family, and there will be opportunities for holidays in the Maldives.

The club owner said he’d prefer a partner who didn’t have kids, since his own children are already adults. He did mention, though, that a dog would be welcome – as long as it had a passport for travel.

He added that being able to cook is important to him, as he really enjoys it – he particularly likes the convenience of Waitrose ready meals. He also said there’s no need to worry about verification, as he can take care of it.

Looking for someone who enjoys house and R&B music. Not a fan of rock or pop. A love for Netflix, particularly ‘Money Heist,’ and true crime documentaries is a must. Let’s skip the romantic comedies – save those for friends!

You should have the self-assurance to confidently approach nightclub owners, accept a table, and enjoy complimentary drinks they offer.

Wayne stated that he expected any girlfriend to be able to drive, as he wanted them to share his Bentley and potentially a future Lamborghini SUV with her.

He also rejected any women who posted about teeth whitening, used OnlyFans or dating apps, or seemed uninteresting or lacked basic geography knowledge.

He said he’s really into fitness, eating well, and getting in shape – something he expects to achieve soon. He also wants acceptance and love for his children and grandchildren, and made it clear he doesn’t plan on having any more kids, though he jokingly left the door slightly open to the possibility.

I need you to be comfortable with my personal assistant handling all flight bookings – both yours and mine – and making online purchases on your behalf. I also expect you to be okay with me adding your friends, just as I’ll add mine, and with me responding to messages from everyone, not just men.

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2026-03-14 16:51