Tulisa Contostavlos shares rare insight into her failed relationship with N-Dubz bandmate Fazer – as friends try desperately to find her a partner and end three years of celibacy

Tulisa Contostavlos shares rare insight into her failed relationship with N-Dubz bandmate Fazer - as friends try desperately to find her a partner and end three years of celibacy

As I delve into the intricate tapestry of Tulisa’s life, it becomes evident that she has faced a series of challenges that would leave most people reeling. Yet, through it all, she remains resilient and unbroken, much like a phoenix rising from the ashes.

As a diehard fan, I can’t help but share the intimate details that Tulisa Contostavlos recently unveiled about her past romance with former boyfriend and fellow N-Dubz member, Fazer. After her exhilarating experience on I’m A Celeb, she’s opened up about their relationship in a way only true fans like me could appreciate.

36-year-old vocalist, who identified as demisexual (someone who only experiences sexual attraction after forming an emotional bond), gained popularity while collaborating with a rapper and her relative Dappy in the jungle. Their romantic relationship lasted from 2010 to 2012.

On the We Need To Talk podcast, according to The Mirror, Tulisa referred to Fazer (whose real name is Richard Rawson) as her “comfort zone” and likened him to a “security blanket.

He was the one who truly cared for me; he was the unique individual who merited such affection, as what we share is genuine and remains so until today.

‘We have a bond stronger than romance; we’re more like close-knit family. Regardless of our current romantic status, he remains an integral part of my life – my chosen family, my soul family. As I grow and evolve, it is only my soul family who I desire to share my life with, especially in matters of intimacy. He stands out as the one person whose past meaning has endured.’

When asked about why they parted, Tulisa explained that they were not a good match for each other, even though there was a great deal of affection shared between them.

Tulisa Contostavlos shares rare insight into her failed relationship with N-Dubz bandmate Fazer - as friends try desperately to find her a partner and end three years of celibacy

Tulisa Contostavlos shares rare insight into her failed relationship with N-Dubz bandmate Fazer - as friends try desperately to find her a partner and end three years of celibacy
Tulisa Contostavlos shares rare insight into her failed relationship with N-Dubz bandmate Fazer - as friends try desperately to find her a partner and end three years of celibacy

As an ardent admirer, I find myself deeply engrossed in the story of these two individuals who share a bond tighter than blood relatives, stronger than friendship, and yet harbor feelings more profound. They seem to orbit around each other, their paths intertwined inescapably. It’s as if destiny had conspired for them to journey through this experience together, learning, growing, and evolving along the way.

Since then, Fazer has found a permanent home with his partner Ashley Havelin, and together they have four kids: Ava who is 11 years old, twins Zariah and Zaviar who are 22 months, and their youngest son, Zander, who is seven months.

In the meantime, it’s been disclosed that Tulisa’s friends are eagerly hoping she will find a companion, aiming to conclude her three-year abstinence period, a topic she discussed during her time in the jungle.

After considering her disclosure, Tulisa shared with The Guardian: ‘The things I’ve been through have pushed me deeply into my comfort zone. I interact mainly with people I’m already acquainted with. For the past decade, I’ve essentially dated the same individuals over and over again. A stranger entering the picture doesn’t stand a chance.’

‘I ponder over whether I would choose to maintain this person as a friend throughout my lifetime. If I don’t feel that way, then I wouldn’t desire them to be my romantic partner.’

I believe it won’t make me a lonely person for the remainder of my life. Whatever is intended for me, I won’t miss out on it.

However, it seemed that Michelle McKenna, her closest friend, expressed skepticism about the ex-X Factor judge’s claimed demisexuality and prolonged abstinence spanning over three years.

Previously speaking to TopMob, Michelle expressed that Tulisa’s friend Daniel Johnson should be out of Tulisa’s life soon, and she hopes to meet a kind and genuine man instead.

Tulisa Contostavlos shares rare insight into her failed relationship with N-Dubz bandmate Fazer - as friends try desperately to find her a partner and end three years of celibacy
Tulisa Contostavlos shares rare insight into her failed relationship with N-Dubz bandmate Fazer - as friends try desperately to find her a partner and end three years of celibacy
Tulisa Contostavlos shares rare insight into her failed relationship with N-Dubz bandmate Fazer - as friends try desperately to find her a partner and end three years of celibacy

‘She’s been on her own for a while and it’s definitely time she finds someone now.’

In 2010, Tulisa had a relationship with Justin Edwards. Later, he released a video of their intimate moments online, which caused significant problems for her. Specifically, when she served as a judge on X-Factor, she felt violated and humiliated whenever she was on the show due to the leaked tape. This negatively impacted her performance and eventually led to complications with her role on the show.

Afterwards, she found herself involved in a controversy often referred to as a ‘homewrecker’ scandal. The accusations claimed that she began dating the former Bristol City footballer Danny Simpson while he was still in a relationship with his then-girlfriend. Both her and Simpson, aged 37, were successful in their defamation lawsuits.

In the year 2017, her last known romantic involvement was with David King, who is a music producer and a relative of the famous singer Cher. It appears they became romantically involved during their collaboration in the recording studio.

Michelle’s remarks were made several days prior to the significant argument that occurred between them at the Australian hotel where they were residing, following Tulisa being the third contestant eliminated from I’m A Celebrity.

Displeased by how Michelle managed her Instagram account during her time in the jungle, Tulisa addressed this unprofessional behavior with her friend. As a result, she decided to cut her stay in Australia short by five days, forfeiting her obligations with ITV and failing to appear on the aftershow.

Tulisa Contostavlos shares rare insight into her failed relationship with N-Dubz bandmate Fazer - as friends try desperately to find her a partner and end three years of celibacy
Tulisa Contostavlos shares rare insight into her failed relationship with N-Dubz bandmate Fazer - as friends try desperately to find her a partner and end three years of celibacy
Tulisa Contostavlos shares rare insight into her failed relationship with N-Dubz bandmate Fazer - as friends try desperately to find her a partner and end three years of celibacy
Tulisa Contostavlos shares rare insight into her failed relationship with N-Dubz bandmate Fazer - as friends try desperately to find her a partner and end three years of celibacy

Michelle and her companion, Daniel, traveled to Australia to welcome Tulisa upon crossing the well-known I’m A Celebrity bridge. The threesome planned to stay together in Gold Coast for the next five days leading up to the finale, but they unexpectedly returned home early, shrouded in a veil of secrecy.

Tulisa and the urban dance artist, Michelle, have been inseparable since Tulisa relocated to Manchester about two years ago in search of a higher standard of living. They visit each other’s homes nearly every day.

The star bought a new-build mansion in Congleton, Cheshire, to be nearer to her best friends.

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2024-12-20 02:24

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