The marriage of Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco has sparked discussions about finances, influence, and the dynamics that arise when there’s a significant wealth imbalance between partners. It’s raised questions about money, power, and what happens when one person earns considerably more than the other.
The estimated value of Rare Beauty founder Selena Gomez’s business is $1.3 billion. In comparison, her husband’s net worth is approximately $50 million.
Even though both numbers are quite large, specialists explain that such a significant difference in wealth can create specific and unusual problems.
Financial advisor Bobbi Rebell points out that even though both individuals are financially secure adults, getting married naturally connects their financial choices.
She cautions that even individuals with vast wealth can run into problems if one spouse or partner makes significant financial decisions without the other’s agreement, explaining that ‘greater wealth can also lead to bigger risks if poor decisions are made.‘
When there’s a significant difference in wealth between partners, both prenuptial agreements and careful financial planning are especially important, explains Rebell.
Okay, but honestly, even though Selena is now, like, super successful financially, I refuse to believe she’ll just boss everyone around! People are acting like she’s going to take over *everything*, but let’s not forget Blanco! He’s 37 and has built an amazing career *all on his own*! I mean, the man has produced hits for Rihanna, Katy Perry, and even Britney Spears! He’s not just going to let anyone, even Selena, dictate everything. He’s a powerhouse in his own right, and I’m so glad people are finally acknowledging that!
Additionally, he’s founded two record labels and built an impressive real estate portfolio.
Relationship expert Sandra Myers believes that a significant gap in wealth doesn’t necessarily ruin a couple’s chances – provided there’s a strong foundation of respect and open communication right from the beginning.
She highlights her clients – some who went from being billionaires to millionaires – and explains that successful marriages often involve keeping finances separate and prioritizing trust.
Without open communication about finances, Myers cautions that money can easily become a source of conflict in a relationship, creating bitterness if one partner uses their financial resources to control the other. It’s important to maintain equality and avoid using wealth to exert dominance.
She emphasized that money can be both helpful and harmful, then explained that the difference in how much money Gomez and Blanco have doesn’t really affect their everyday lives.
Relationship expert Dr. Wendy Walsh views Gomez and Blanco as part of a cultural shift.
She argues that men like Blanco, and Travis Kelce-whose wealth is considerably less than Taylor Swift’s estimated $1.6 billion-demonstrate that successful men are now less focused on making more money than their partners.
Instead, their value lies in being supportive and protective, not providers.
She noted that both men openly express their love and support for their wives, acting as their biggest fans. She added that they serve as excellent examples of the evolving role of men, a shift that’s becoming increasingly prevalent.
According to Thomas Westenholz, a therapist specializing in emotionally focused couples therapy, a lack of balance can slowly create feelings of bitterness between partners who don’t communicate honestly about finances and their intimate lives. He emphasized that not talking openly is a key factor.
According to him, Benny’s successful career and investments mean he doesn’t need to rely on Selena financially. This independence is important because it balances the dynamic, ensuring his self-esteem isn’t linked to her wealth, he explained.
Walsh also agreed that Blanco’s success in his own right helps balance the dynamic.
Having fame, the ability to direct your own work, and the power to impact others can make up for a lower salary, as a person’s sense of who they are and what they’re worth isn’t always tied to money. Ultimately, things like recognition and artistic freedom can be more important than financial gain.
Although people who aren’t involved might assume having a lot of money prevents disagreements about finances, experts point out that this isn’t necessarily true.
Even very wealthy couples can disagree about what’s important. For example, one partner might think a $250,000 car is an unnecessary expense, while the other views it as a sign of achievement. They can also have different ideas about how to use their money – whether to invest it, donate to charity, or spend it on luxury items.
As someone who’s followed relationship advice for years, I’ve learned that experts generally agree it’s not about *how much* each partner earns. It’s not that financial differences are dealbreakers, but that open communication and treating each other with mutual respect are what *really* count. The actual numbers? They’re secondary. It’s all about connection, not the balance in your bank accounts.
According to Myers, when trust is present, ‘both parties will feel respected and heard – no matter if they have a prenup or not.’
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