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‘Rattled’ new mum lashes out after her husband leaves her at home with their newborn while he enjoys a boys’ trip at the snow

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Steph Claire Smith responded to a comment implying that her husband, Josh Miller, was being negligent.

Following the fitness influencer’s disclosure via Instagram Stories about Josh embarking on a “guys’ ski vacation,” leaving Stephanie behind at home with their kids, Harvey (age 4) and Billie (two months), criticism ensued.

A supporter privately messaged Steph to criticize Josh, pointing out that while Josh was having fun, all the responsibilities were falling on Steph’s shoulders regarding their shared parenting duties.

In the message sent to Steph via Instagram, a fan expressed confusion, asking, ‘Yet why does your husband need time with friends? I mean, isn’t it also important for you? Seems like no personal time or getaway for you.’ (Thursday post share)

It seems unthinkable for me that my spouse would embark on a snow adventure with friends, leaving me alone with our newborn.

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‘Like WTFFF? He’s always with me or one of the babies. 

Additionally, let me note that you carry an exceptional load atop everything else. Frankly, it seems off-kilter. It’s hard for me to conceive of this scenario.”

“Besides all that, you handle a lot more than most. Honestly, it doesn’t seem fair. I find it tough to imagine.

Steph firmly rejected the idea that Josh was neglecting his family by providing a thorough explanation.

‘This DM rattled me and I want to talk about it,’ she began.

Our situation, regrettably, stands apart from most others. While I work, Josh stays at home taking care of our family, which is not the norm for many.

Instead, she mentioned that although their circumstances weren’t typical, they had provided valuable insights into the dynamics of relationships for her.

Through this interaction, I’ve learned quite a bit. In truth, we’ve both gained valuable insights. We’ve come to understand each other’s viewpoints and places within our bond more deeply.

Steph additionally noted that, similar to mothers, a father’s life undergoes just as significant transformations as children enter the picture.

‘Dads’ lives change too when they become parents,’ she said.

Indeed, while they don’t experience physical changes related to pregnancy and childbirth as humans do, often they have the advantage of returning more swiftly to their normal routines or careers.

‘But it doesn’t mean they don’t deserve time with friends or time to themselves.’

Steph wasn’t quite finished yet; she mentioned that Josh’s role as a stay-at-home father held immense value within the family, which was difficult to quantify.

In our partnership, we consistently keep in touch with each other and motivate one another to ensure that our emotional tanks are always full.

‘I’ve always encouraged him to book in some time out of the house and to connect with friends.

Similarly, it applies to me as well. During my non-work hours, I yearn for quality time with my children, yet this doesn’t negate the fact that I also require personal or social time, to help me rejuvenate.

She added: ‘Josh consistently prioritizes us and goes out of his way to help me and our family. I apologize, but he truly needs his time off.’

She rounded out her response, suggesting that the follower think before they post.  

The next time you’re inclined to express your thoughts to someone, take a moment to reflect: “Is it possible that I’m attributing my own emotions and dissatisfactions to their individual decisions?

Still working on her explanation to the follower, she offered another tale, labeling the message as ‘inconsistent’.

Additionally, the statement “you’re the one who works on top of it all” seemed a bit paradoxical since typically, the working parent who happens to be male often feels too burdened by guilt towards their partner managing at home or simply prefers to spend their free time with their children instead of socializing.

Regardless of whether you identify as a man or woman, or if you spend your days at home or in the workplace, everyone deserves some quality time spent socializing with friends.

‘Unless of course you’re never home and never doing anything to help with the load at home.

‘Then yes, get your butt home and prioritise giving the stay-at-home partner a break.’ 

She then shared a third post that praised both stay-at-home and working parents.

Additionally, there are fathers such as Josh who perform dual roles and consistently prioritize others ahead of themselves. You also deserve personal time for yourself.

Or:

Besides dads like Josh who juggle multiple responsibilities and often put themselves last, it’s important to remember that you too need some ‘me-time’.

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2025-07-24 09:19

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