Pregnant Paloma Faith reveals she has cried during an orgasm ‘quite a lot’ during candid chat about her sex life

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Paloma Faith has revealed she has cried durign an orgasm ‘quite a lot’.

The 44-year-old singer, who is expecting her third child, openly discussed her sex life with her friend Alan Carr on her podcast, Mad, Sad & Bad.

Paloma wanted to explain female anatomy and sexuality to Alan, and shared with him a personal experience of intense pleasure that had moved her to tears.

She explained that she often cries during orgasm, believing it releases pent-up sadness or emotional tension she’d been holding onto.

‘And the sadness came out of your vagina?’ Alan asked. 

Paloma laughed and responded, ‘I believe women are capable of experiencing two different kinds of orgasms, but that’s a topic for another time. It’s a really intense, almost otherworldly feeling. Are you envious?’

Alan chuckled, saying, ‘You’re getting two for the price of one! Lucky ladies, and you even get five extra years to enjoy it!’

‘Well we’re not always lucky because sometimes we get none!’ Paloma said.

‘That was a sweeping generalisation. All women are so lucky!’ Alan said. 

Paloma is pregnant and expecting a baby with her boyfriend, Stevie Thomas, who manages The JamHouse venue.

They’ve been together for more than a year, after she ended a difficult long-term relationship with Leyman Lahcine.

Paloma married a French artist in 2017, and they have two young daughters together. They separated in 2022 after nine years of marriage, which was a very difficult time for Paloma and led to a breakdown.

She and Stevie became a public couple in March after appearing affectionate with each other at the afterparty for the Sony Music BRIT Awards.

As a lifestyle expert, I’m hearing wonderful things about Paloma and Stevie’s relationship! Apparently, they’re truly in love, and what’s even more special is that Paloma feels like this is the healthiest connection she’s ever had. It’s so lovely to see a couple thriving and feeling genuinely good together.

‘He’s 6ft6 and she loves how he towers over her.

Sources described the couple as having a passionate and thrilling connection, but also emphasized his emotional intelligence and ability to communicate well. They seem deeply connected and committed to a lasting relationship.

Paloma revealed she was dating someone new after Vogue Williams playfully challenged her about calling Spencer Matthews ‘wealthy’.

The funny conversation took place on the singer’s podcast, ‘Mad, Sad and Bad,’ where she playfully asked the model, who is 40 years old, what drew her to the wealthy and handsome man.

Vogue later shared that her husband, Spencer, 37, had told her Paloma was criticizing him for being upper class.

Paloma explained that she’s now dating someone wealthy, joking that it feels like she’s ‘sleeping with the enemy’ given her previous views.

The singer, known for openly discussing her childhood in working-class Hackney, London, then apologized to her audience for her romantic choices.

She joked: ‘I’m thinking of it more like a social experiment.’ 

I’m so thrilled for Paloma! She’s always been adamant about never getting married, but she’s shared that this new person in her life has completely changed her mind. It’s amazing to see her open to the idea now – it seems like a really special connection!

She recently shared details about her relationship, saying it’s become serious after almost a year of dating.

In a March episode of Jamie Laing and Sophie Habboo’s podcast, Newly Weds, Paloma mentioned something unusual: ‘This is a strange thing.’

I never married my children’s father, and I’ve always been opposed to marriage. That’s because, historically, marriage has been about controlling women, and I was raised by a feminist mother who instilled that perspective in me.

‘Weirdly, I don’t know what’s changed in me, but this guy gives me a bit like “Oh well”‘.

She recalled when she first met him, she’d firmly told him, “I’m never getting married, so please don’t even ask.”

Over time, I’ve become more open-minded and willing to consider different perspectives. I can feel myself becoming more flexible and understanding.

If my mom finds out about this, she’ll probably ask what’s wrong and if I’m having a mid-life crisis.

‘I do think having kids with someone is stronger than marriage from experience.’

Paloma was firm that she would only marry someone with a similar financial status, and she wanted to be certain her money and possessions were secure.

She said she wouldn’t want to marry someone unless she truly believed the relationship could last a lifetime, was fair, and felt balanced – something she didn’t have in her previous relationship.

‘I felt I had too much to lose to him if it didn’t work out. Just like financially.

I would have sacrificed my children’s future inheritance to protect my own assets and theirs. If I had gone through with it, I definitely would have gotten a prenuptial agreement.

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2026-01-02 18:54