Mr Loverman review: You will ache for everyone in this bittersweet tale of forbidden love

Mr Loverman review: You will ache for everyone in this bittersweet tale of forbidden love

As an obsessed fan who’s lived through the heart-wrenching highs and lows of countless dramas, I can confidently say that Mr Loverman is a masterpiece that leaves no stone unturned in its exploration of love, friendship, and the human condition. Lennie James delivers an exceptional performance that transcends age and time, making us laugh, cry, and root for his character, Barry, every step of the way.


Mr Loverman (BBC1)

In simpler terms, addressing Mr. Loverman, the title seems quite elegant and witty to me. However, Barrington’s wife, Carmel, strongly believes that he’s involved in improper relationships with other women, whom she perceives as loose or promiscuous.

Apart from having numerous flaws, Barrington (Lennie James) is often seen with a pocket full of liquor, usually carrying a flask of rum. Additionally, he has a talent for being disingenuous, ready to make promises to anyone just to maintain a peaceful existence.

But a philanderer he is not. ‘Hand on heart,’ he tells Carmel truthfully, ‘I have not slept with any other woman but you.’ 

Because Barrington isn’t Mr Loverman . . . he’s Mr Love-A-Man. 

In simpler terms, Morris (Ariyon Bakare) has been Barry’s closest friend for a lifetime, and they share an intimate bond that goes beyond friendship – they are each other’s spiritual counterparts. At 74 years old, Barry is nearing the point where he wants to stop hiding his true self, but he’s held back by fear of his wife, her friends, and even his daughter Maxine.

Mr Loverman review: You will ache for everyone in this bittersweet tale of forbidden love

Mr Loverman review: You will ache for everyone in this bittersweet tale of forbidden love

Lennie James gives an outstanding performance, sporting white-dyed hair and a lively stride, as if he’s a man resolute on concealing his years. His acting is equally impressive during flashbacks, portraying the young Barry and Morris, who secretly hide their sexuality after fleeing the harsh and homophobic environment of Antigua, the Caribbean island they originated from.

In last week’s opening, I found myself captivated by the authentic portrayal of a man recovering from an all-night spree. At first, he was jovial, then fatigued, and eventually unsteady, culminating in a heated argument with Carmel (Sharon D. Clarke) that ended with a tense, simmering anger following her slap.

Inspired by Bernardine Evaristo’s Booker prize-winning novel, Mr Loverman presents a witty comedy with undertones of bitterness and sorrow. The characters are portrayed so authentically that the conflicting emotions could potentially unravel the narrative, but Barry skillfully weaves these moods intentionally.

Mr Loverman review: You will ache for everyone in this bittersweet tale of forbidden love

In tough times, he finds humor to lighten the situation. When asked for more than he can offer, he offers drinks instead. (Paraphrased)

At a café in south London, Morris covertly pressed Barrington to openly declare their shared homosexuality to the world. However, Barrington, smiling, declined and humorously coined a new term for himself: ‘I’m not a homosexual. I’m what you might call a Barrysexual.’

After Morris leaves angrily and shuts the door forcefully, Barry comforts the other clients by saying, ‘It seems like he had a strong desire to shut that door, right?’

Initially, it appeared strange when Director Hong Khauo decided to divide the adaptation into half-an-hour episodes. However, as we delve deeper into the narrative, it becomes clearer that this structure effectively showcases how Barry’s dual existence has impacted those dear to him.

One 30-minute installment delved into Morris’s solitary existence, unveiling a heartrending moment where his wife, Odette (Suzette Llewellyn), unearthed the truth about the two men. Due to his circumstances, Morris has forfeited everything – marriage, home, children. However, Barry isn’t ready to relinquish as much. Yet, it becomes progressively evident that he’s lost it all inadvertently.

In my latest musings, I found myself reminiscing about a previous encounter with the enchanting city of Antigua. This time around, Carmel journeyed there alone, carrying a heart laden with a belief that perhaps Barry’s affection for her wasn’t as profound as it seemed. She harbored this thought because, in her mind, she didn’t quite measure up to the allure of other women.

Mr. Loverman’s creation resonates deeply with each character, leaving us yearning for their fates. Yet, no matter how wide Barry may grin, it seems that a joyful conclusion is no longer possible.

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2024-10-22 01:50

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