MAFS UK fans slam ‘immature’ Adam as he stuns the couples with shocking admission about wife Polly – after leaving her in tears during toe-curling Commitment Ceremony

MAFS UK fans slam 'immature' Adam as he stuns the couples with shocking admission about wife Polly - after leaving her in tears during toe-curling Commitment Ceremony

As a seasoned observer of human relationships and someone who’s been through my fair share of heartaches, I can’t help but feel deeply for Polly in this situation. It’s heartbreaking to see her pouring out her feelings only to be met with half-hearted responses from Adam.


Fans of Married At First Sight UK promptly expressed their anger towards groom Adam Nightingale when he unexpectedly revealed some startling information to the other couples.

During the initial Commitment Ceremony on a Thursday, Adam together with his spouse Polly Sellman faced questioning from the experts. Adam openly shared that despite their union, he felt a sense of emptiness or incompleteness persisting between them.

At the Dinner Party, Adam openly confessed that Polly wasn’t his typical preference, yet he caused surprise by boldly declaring: “She seems to have feelings for me, but I’m struggling to reciprocate. I find her very appealing, but she doesn’t fit my usual mold. We click incredibly well, but I feel sorry for her because of this.

With trembling emotions, I confess: It’s a struggle, as I realize I’m not typically his type, yet the connection we share goes beyond that. Everything else is there – the chemistry, the vibe, and it leaves me yearning. It’s confounding, really; why can’t he see what he’s saying if it mirrors what he’s doing?

As Adam tried to defend himself, Paul Brunson pointed out that even though Adam had repeatedly claimed Polly wasn’t his type, they still went ahead and got married and consummated their relationship.

MAFS UK fans slam 'immature' Adam as he stuns the couples with shocking admission about wife Polly - after leaving her in tears during toe-curling Commitment Ceremony

MAFS UK fans slam 'immature' Adam as he stuns the couples with shocking admission about wife Polly - after leaving her in tears during toe-curling Commitment Ceremony

It was shocking for everyone else when it became clear that Adam and Polly had a romantic involvement, causing audible surprise from numerous pairs within the group.

Adam attempted to explain himself by saying, “If I was being kind to her so as not to mislead her or cause her pain, and that’s what felt right in the moment.

As a die-hard fan, I couldn’t help but jump into the fray when Adam made his comments and shared his secrets with the other couples. However, it seemed like fellow viewers had a different take on things. They were swift in expressing their opinions, making it clear that they didn’t quite see eye to eye with Adam.

In X’s posts, it was mentioned that Adam doesn’t have a romantic connection with Polly, which can happen at times. Unfortunately, his immaturity prevents him from expressing this more clearly to avoid hurting or offending Polly.

‘If you can’t say a bad word about her then she is pretty much perfect for you. Adam you’re a sap;’

‘The audible gasp from the room when they heard Adam and Polly did beat ah f**k;’

The response from the group when Paul disclosed that Polly and Adam had been intimate was extraordinary. Now, they understand just how much of an inconsiderate person Adam truly is.

In reality, it seems Adam does feel attracted to Polly, as they have had intimate relations. However, his self-perception may lead him to believe that he is worthy of someone superior to her.

MAFS UK fans slam 'immature' Adam as he stuns the couples with shocking admission about wife Polly - after leaving her in tears during toe-curling Commitment Ceremony
MAFS UK fans slam 'immature' Adam as he stuns the couples with shocking admission about wife Polly - after leaving her in tears during toe-curling Commitment Ceremony
MAFS UK fans slam 'immature' Adam as he stuns the couples with shocking admission about wife Polly - after leaving her in tears during toe-curling Commitment Ceremony
MAFS UK fans slam 'immature' Adam as he stuns the couples with shocking admission about wife Polly - after leaving her in tears during toe-curling Commitment Ceremony
MAFS UK fans slam 'immature' Adam as he stuns the couples with shocking admission about wife Polly - after leaving her in tears during toe-curling Commitment Ceremony
MAFS UK fans slam 'immature' Adam as he stuns the couples with shocking admission about wife Polly - after leaving her in tears during toe-curling Commitment Ceremony

Adam consistently overlooks that he has been intimate with Polly, yet insists he’s not drawn to her. His actions suggest a lack of self-control or restraint.

‘So having sex with someone you’re not attracted to is not giving mixed signals, Adam;’

It’s quite puzzling; Adam hasn’t shown any signs of sexual attraction towards Polly, but he has been intimate with her. This certainly seems like sending her conflicting messages.

But despite the clear divides in their relationship, both Polly and Adam opted to plough on with the experiment, choosing Stay. 

During their tumultuous honeymoon, opinions about Polly and Adam’s relationship were already split, as some viewers accused Adam of manipulating Polly.

Once again, the reality show is back on E4 for an all-new season! With three highly successful seasons under its belt, two BAFTA nominations, and even a new addition to the family, the upcoming fourth installment promises more love and drama than ever before.

In the most recent installment of the E4 series, we found career advisor Polly, aged 28 and based in Kent, enjoying her honeymoon with Adam, a 33-year-old barber from Nottingham, as the main characters.

On their wedding night, the couple completed their marriage, but when Adam failed to show any physical affection during their honeymoon, she began feeling insecure.

MAFS UK fans slam 'immature' Adam as he stuns the couples with shocking admission about wife Polly - after leaving her in tears during toe-curling Commitment Ceremony

Adam confided in her that he moves slowly in romantic relationships, yet eventually acknowledged that she didn’t quite fit his preferred type.

During our honeymoon, Polly asked, “We began it on our wedding night, but nothing has occurred since then for a whole week.

‘It would obviously just be nice for me to hear from you, like your head is kind of at the moment.’

Adam said: “It’s not something on your side. The problem is coming from me. I realize it’s not good, but it’s not about you, it’s about me. I believe there’s a chance for things to improve.

I find myself genuinely appreciating you, and as I get to know you better, I can’t help but recognize your incredible qualities and your kind-hearted nature.

In a near-tearful response, Polly expressed gratitude: “That was incredibly heartwarming. It’s been quite some time since I last received such sincere praise like this from someone special.

‘The fact that you are after such a short space of time, it’s huge.’

Viewers found themselves with differing opinions regarding their future, with some believing them to be an ill-suited pair, while others felt he was merely leading Polly on.

On Married at First Sight, I can’t help but feel strongly about #Polly being too fantastic for #Adam. Here’s an idea: If you’re uncertain, don’t send mixed signals and sleep with someone! It appears that Adam prefers a slender brunette, which has served him well in the past. Let’s give Polly a shot – she’s stunning and seems wonderful.

It appears that Polly might be taking whatever bits and pieces Adam offers her out of past hurt experiences, a fact that Adam seems aware of. #MAFSUK #mafs

MAFS UK fans slam 'immature' Adam as he stuns the couples with shocking admission about wife Polly - after leaving her in tears during toe-curling Commitment Ceremony

Polly, don’t accept the crumbs Adam is giving you. Raise your expectations, sweetheart! He’s barely meeting your needs and you’re considering surrendering again. You deserve more than someone who doesn’t value you. #MAFS #MarriedAtFirstSight #MAFSUK #MarriedAtFirstSightUK

In simpler terms, ‘Polly is granting Adam excessive control. He found you attractive enough to be intimate with. Let him know that you’re busy and don’t need to cater to his demands. #MAFSUK #MAFS #MarriedAtFirstSight #MarriedAtFirstSightuk.’

Polly, let’s maintain our dignity by avoiding frequent questions about Adam’s feelings towards you. It might be better for your pride and his comfort.

‘Polly leave Adam now. You are wasting your time, he doesn’t deserve you #mafsuk #mafs.’,

Originally, ‘Adam was planning to criticize Adam for simply seeking intimacy since he dislikes Polly, but she too was aware of this fact and pursued him nonetheless.’ In a more conversational style: ‘Adam was ready to scold Adam for trying to get close to Polly when he doesn’t like her, but Polly herself knew this and still made her move.’ #mafs #MAFSUK #mafshysteria

On MAFS, Adam seems rather arrogant considering how kind and undeserving of disrespect Polly is. There are so many warning signs suggesting he may have a swollen sense of self-importance.

Married At First Sight UK continues on Monday at 9pm on E4. 

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