Like Lilly Jay, I was publicly cuckolded by my husband and fought back. That’s why I know exactly what will happen now to Wicked Ariana Grande and her ginger nut new love Ethan Slater

Like Lilly Jay, I was publicly cuckolded by my husband and fought back. That's why I know exactly what will happen now to Wicked Ariana Grande and her ginger nut new love Ethan Slater

As a woman who has been through the heartache of infidelity and public betrayal, I can empathize deeply with Lilly Jay’s situation. It is indeed a painful reality that some people, even celebrities like Ariana Grande, can wield their power to exploit vulnerable individuals, leaving behind a trail of shattered lives.

It is Wicked. Really, really Wicked.

It’s common knowledge that some men struggle with self-control, and once their wives have delivered a child – effectively making them no longer the baby of the family – they tend to leave for other pastures.

But for a woman to aid a man in doing this to another woman is, well, as I say, Wicked.

In summary, Ariana Grande, a renowned pop singer known for her lofty voice and towering ponytail, encountered an actor named Ethan Slater, who is 32 years old, on the set of their upcoming musical film adaptation of The Wizard of Oz, appropriately titled “The Wizard of Oz.” Notably, Ethan portrays a munchkin in this production. Given his stature, it’s not surprising he took on this role.

They were getting increasingly intimate with each other while they were still married to other individuals – Ariana Grande with Dalton Gomez, an estate agent, and Michael Slater with Lilly Jay, a renowned clinical psychologist focusing on women’s mental health issues. Last year, both Slater and Grande filed for divorce, doing so only days apart, and then announced their relationship three days later.

Slater’s wife, after six years together, has expressed her struggle with being so publicly humiliated by his infidelity. Seeing him promote the musical on global red carpets is, according to her, an agonizing reminder of the public disintegration of our marriage. He maintains they were already separated when he met the Hollywood star. To make matters worse, Jay and Slater have a young son, who was barely a year old at that time, and his mother nearly died giving birth to him.

Like Lilly Jay, I was publicly cuckolded by my husband and fought back. That's why I know exactly what will happen now to Wicked Ariana Grande and her ginger nut new love Ethan Slater

Like Lilly Jay, I was publicly cuckolded by my husband and fought back. That's why I know exactly what will happen now to Wicked Ariana Grande and her ginger nut new love Ethan Slater

This week, an essay written by Jay was published in The Cut – it’s far more sophisticated and thoughtful than just cuddling on a rug. In her essay, she expressed that during her pregnancy, she had never felt happier or more conscious of how fragile happiness can be. She battled preeclampsia but eventually, our family was complete. Her story is one of worrying unnecessarily.

Yeah. Take your eye off the ball and the man will soon score a spectacular own goal.

I kind of love Jay because she hasn’t taken this lying down.

In interviews, she labeled the popstar as someone who isn’t stereotypically feminine and casually mentioned that her family is simply incidental harm.

It’s truly awful to be publicly humiliated, something I’ve unfortunately experienced myself. My husband, who I was married to for three years, had multiple affairs – some even before our wedding. The discovery came when I accidentally opened my laptop and found his email queue carelessly left open. There, among other emails, were hundreds of messages, the most recent one planning a rendezvous in New York – a trip that was funded by me.

I located the camera I had provided for his travels in India (he complained it was overly heavy and the strap would cause him discomfort), only to discover unerased photos of him with a blonde woman in various affectionate poses, one of which included them on a balcony. She wore friendship bracelets on her slender wrist. Evidently, she was no ally to women everywhere!

I provided my spouse with a lovely home and a boost for his career, but despite my humor, generosity, warmth, neat appearance, and expensive wardrobe, he still chose to be unfaithful.

Lilly Jay bestowed upon her husband an even more precious present: a child. However, Lilly, please understand that his abandonment isn’t your doing. It’s about his shortcomings and the exploitative nature of Grande, given her status as a prominent figure. In such situations, it would be risky for a lower-ranked cast member to make advances towards a star, which could lead to dismissal. As for his intentions, one must question them, especially considering the sudden rise in this ‘ginger’ nobody’s newfound stardom.

Like Lilly Jay, I was publicly cuckolded by my husband and fought back. That's why I know exactly what will happen now to Wicked Ariana Grande and her ginger nut new love Ethan Slater

In a different phraseology, my spouse appeared self-satisfied about his abilities. Despite pleading for my forgiveness, he didn’t express remorse when discussing his infidelity during an interview with The Guardian; instead, it seemed to enhance his ‘rebellious’ writer reputation.

Indeed, affection can wane, but from the perspective of a wronged spouse, it’s baffling how one could utter such words. Just as Emma Thompson poignantly expressed to her unfaithful partner in Love, Actually, “You’ve turned the life I cherish into a farce.

Upon the public announcement of our marital separation, some men might cast a critical eye over me, thinking, “Perhaps she has some issues.” Conversely, women would approach me in various settings such as the street or store, expressing sympathy with, “It’s clear you made the right decision.

The advantage of a marital breakup being exposed in public? It allows for a tasteful payback, similar to Jay’s actions. I disclosed the emails between my husband and Daphne, whom I nicknamed most unflatteringly. Oh, and I revealed her genuine name as well: it’s Daphne. And the name of the next one (I foolishly took him back), Kavita, an intern at a literary festival he met.

Of course, both women told me they had no idea we were still a couple, as my husband had lied.

Women should be more careful about the harm they cause – they could have simply looked us up to see that we are still together – and keep in mind, if he’s capable of being unfaithful to me, he might do the same to you.

Like Lilly Jay, I was publicly cuckolded by my husband and fought back. That's why I know exactly what will happen now to Wicked Ariana Grande and her ginger nut new love Ethan Slater

Could it be possible that Ariana and the redhead will sustain their relationship? He stands to gain financially, but only if they decide to wed. Despite her confidence in attracting men (as evidenced in Let Me Love You: ‘Now I’m out here single, unsure of what lies ahead… I’ll just relax and wait, I know they’ll come from the right and left’), it seems unlikely that she will hold their young admirers, who are all idealistic dreamers, for an extended period.

For a considerable amount of time, I kept track of Daphne on social media. When I informed my now-former spouse about her recent birth, his response was, ‘Really? I haven’t thought of her in years, didn’t realize she had a Facebook account.’ Infatuations, often rooted in physical attraction, seldom flourish.

One day, Lilly Jay may deeply sorrow over his decision to let you go, ultimately leading him to a life devoid of love and admiration, a life where no woman would wish to associate with him.

I speak from experience.

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2024-12-20 20:03

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