JoJo Siwa insists her relationship with Chris Hughes does not make her straight after her previous same-sex romances as she asserts ‘my past doesn’t get to be discredited because I’m in love with a man’

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JoJo Siwa has clarified that she is not straight, explaining that dating boyfriend Chris Hughes doesn’t change the fact that she has also been in relationships with women.

JoJo Siwa, 22, who previously shared she was pansexual and had dated women, recently began a relationship with Chris from Love Island, 32. They met while both were on Celebrity Big Brother in April, and Siwa now identifies as queer.

As a lifestyle expert, I’ve been following JoJo’s story, and it’s been quite a journey. While she and her partner are incredibly happy together now, she’s opened up about receiving a lot of negative reactions from within the LGBTQ+ community because her relationship is with a man. It’s been a tough experience for her, dealing with that kind of negativity, but she seems to be navigating it with grace.

In a recent radio interview, the dancer openly discussed her sexual identity and responded to claims that she’s now straight simply because she’s currently in a relationship with a man.

During an interview on Sirius XM’s Smith Sisters Live, she revealed that people close to her are unaware of the intense negativity she’s faced from within her own community.

Look, being with a man doesn’t define my sexuality, okay? And honestly, even *if* I suddenly said I was straight, that wouldn’t change anything. I’d still be a supporter of the LGBTQ+ community, always. My personal relationship doesn’t erase my commitment to being an ally.

Let’s talk about authenticity. I’ve been reflecting on my own journey, and I want to be clear: I identify as someone who is attracted to men, and I’m happily in love. But that doesn’t erase my past experiences or invalidate who I was before. My history is still *mine*, and it’s important to acknowledge all parts of it. It’s about owning your truth, both past and present, and not letting anyone diminish it.

I first fell in love with a woman who was also my best friend, and we had a wonderful relationship. Since then, I’ve been with other women, a non-binary person, and now I’m in a relationship with a man.

She described her love for him as unlike anything she’d ever known, saying he made her feel truly special. She believes they were meant to be together and that falling in love with him is the greatest thing in her life.

The singer also shared that Chris has consistently supported her and her identity, remembering how he quickly defended her on *Celebrity Big Brother* when Mickey Rourke made homophobic remarks towards her.

JoJo recounted that from the start of their relationship, he told her she could be herself, that he loved her unconditionally, and didn’t want her to change.

I remember on the second episode of Big Brother, he was the only one who immediately supported me.

This really reveals his character – a straight, white man willing to support a young, queer person in the house. It demonstrates the kind of person he is.

It was a really sweet moment. We don’t really talk about it, it’s just part of how we are with each other. He’s very protective of me.

JoJo recently shared how much negative reaction she received for dating Chris, especially considering her past relationships with women. She also revealed it’s been very difficult because even some of her own family members disapprove.

In a recent interview on the Reign with Josh Smith podcast, she explained that it’s been difficult because she feels distanced from some of her own family members.

We see ourselves as the broader LGBTQIA+ family, not just the ‘LG community,’ and we’re proud to represent the beautiful diversity of that family. A core belief within our community is that love is love.

That works both ways – just because I’m currently in a straight relationship doesn’t invalidate my past experiences or attractions.

I notice women holding hands or embracing in public, and I feel their gaze. Sometimes I catch them laughing, pointing, or looking at me with disapproval.

You know, as someone who’s been in the public eye for a while, it’s interesting how people react. I’ve definitely noticed a shift – sometimes it’s quick photos and they’re gone, other times… well, let’s just say not everyone is thrilled to see me. It’s something you get used to, honestly – you become aware of being *seen*, constantly.

The other day, someone from the LGBTQ+ community stood outside my studio and gave me the middle finger for about two minutes before walking away.

It’s really opened my eyes to how damaging hate and bullying can be, both from people outside the community and even from within it.

‘I think people need to watch it because I can take it, but other people can’t and that’s tough.’

JoJo claims she’s not bothered by the negative reactions, but she did share her worry that the criticism she’s receiving could affect other young people.

She explained that the way older people in the community were behaving towards her didn’t bother her at all. She emphasized she was happy, loved, and felt very secure and content with her life.

I’m concerned about how my words are perceived by those who are younger than I am.

If someone at 22 were to say they were attracted to girls, but then a boy they liked came along, the issue arises when they feel unable to explore those feelings because of external pressure. They might think they can’t change their mind or fall in love, simply because someone else – in this case, JoJo – was told they couldn’t. That restriction, and the feeling of being unable to follow their own feelings, is the core problem.

Even though bullying doesn’t bother me personally, it impacts those who witness it. I believe everyone should be more careful with their words – this applies to all situations, not just when discussing sexuality, my relationship, or me. It’s a general principle of respectful communication.

JoJo shared how happy she is with Chris, explaining that their relationship feels unlike anything she’s felt before.

She expressed her happiness, saying she’s never felt so eager for what the future holds. More than anything, she wants the loving relationship she has to continue flourishing.

‘I’ve never protected a love that I have so much. I’ve never cared about another person so much.

I never dreamed of a big wedding. I always thought I’d just quickly sign a document or elope to Vegas because I didn’t want the fuss. But now, I’ve changed my mind! I really want a ring, I want my dad to give me away, I want that first dance, and I want to feel excited and happy – and I am!

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2025-09-21 20:19