Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck’s year of broken dreams and the $68M divorce nightmare still looming over exes

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's year of broken dreams and the $68M divorce nightmare still looming over exes

It seems like I’ve stumbled upon a tale that’s been unfolding for quite some time now – the rollercoaster ride of Bennifer! As someone who has spent a lifetime observing human behavior, it’s fascinating to see these two iconic figures navigate their complex relationship through the years.

In December last year, Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck were the center of attention when they threw an extravagant, celebrity-filled Christmas bash.

The power couple celebrated the holidays in their $68 million dollar mansion with A-list pals including Margot Robbie and Michael B. Jordan.

However, only a year after it seemed like a fairy tale, their marriage has fallen apart. In August, Lopez, aged 55, filed for divorce from the director of Gone Baby Gone, who is also 52 years old. This filing occurred on the two-year anniversary of their wedding.

The grand mansion in Beverly Hills, which was once their home for their combined family – Affleck’s children with ex-wife Jennifer Garner and Lopez’s twins from her marriage to Marc Anthony – remains unsold, following several months since it was put up for sale.

It seems that the actress from Hustlers has chosen to celebrate Christmas at their old shared residence, as she is currently said to still be living in the place they once called home.

More recently, Lopez has been posting pictures on social media taken within their festively decorated home, whereas Affleck just bought a new bachelor residence in Brentwood, located near Garner and their children, during the process of their separation.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's year of broken dreams and the $68M divorce nightmare still looming over exes

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's year of broken dreams and the $68M divorce nightmare still looming over exes

According to reports from last September, Lopez was apparently in the process of purchasing a $55 million house in Beverly Hills. However, her latest Instagram updates seem to indicate that she continues to reside in the home she shared with Affleck during their marriage.

Previously in December, she showcased ample décolletage in a sparkling black halter dress as she struck poses beside her grand Christmas tree within her residence.

She strutted her stuff through the vast home and even posed in her kitchen.

‘MY FAVORITE PART about going out is coming home for the midnight snack,’ she wrote in the caption.

The grand estate of Affleck and Lopez, famously named Crestview Manor, boasts a primary residence with twelve bedrooms and twenty-four bathrooms, in addition to a spacious guest penthouse covering 5,000 square feet. There’s also a guardhouse with two bedrooms, a house for the caretaker, and a garage that can accommodate twelve vehicles.

As a devoted devotee, I’m thrilled to share that the facilities here offer an array of amenities tailored to diverse interests:

In May, the pair put up their Beverly Hills mansion, which they had bought for $60 million just a year prior, with a price tag of $68 million.

After failing to sell it off market, they publicly listed the sprawling property in June.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's year of broken dreams and the $68M divorce nightmare still looming over exes
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's year of broken dreams and the $68M divorce nightmare still looming over exes
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's year of broken dreams and the $68M divorce nightmare still looming over exes
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's year of broken dreams and the $68M divorce nightmare still looming over exes

Back in 2023, a source shared with PEOPLE that there seemed to be some disagreement between Affleck and Lopez about their joint property purchase.

‘The $68 million mansion was Ben’s idea and a major compromise for her,’ a source told the outlet.

The source mentioned that she consented to it primarily due to its expansive design, providing enough room for both families, complete with a gym, pickleball court, office area, and even two separate entrances. Moreover, the layout was particularly suited for hosting Ben’s children, Violet (18), Finn (15), and Samuel (12), as well as JLo’s 16-year-old twins, Max and Emme.

Based on the report’s information, the sleek, contemporary design of the mansion seemed to contrast with Jennifer Lopez’s personal style.

‘She loves the romantic, Spanish, European vibe,’ they said.

However, once they settled in, Affleck wasn’t particularly excited about the place either.

According to the report, Affleck found the constant traffic hassles from his home uncomfortable and a waste of time since his family resides in Brentwood and he has never been fond of that particular location.

Instead of being at their former residence, Lopez is expected to be elsewhere, whereas Affleck is likely to celebrate Christmas with his children and ex, Jennifer Garner, following their recent shared Thanksgiving celebration.

Affleck and Garner, who were husband and wife from 2005 until 2018 (a span of 13 years), have continued to be friendly parenting partners after their separation.

On Thanksgiving they volunteered and served meals to the homeless with their three kids.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's year of broken dreams and the $68M divorce nightmare still looming over exes
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's year of broken dreams and the $68M divorce nightmare still looming over exes
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's year of broken dreams and the $68M divorce nightmare still looming over exes

According to a source, Page Six reports that Affleck was delighted to celebrate the holidays with his family because he feels comfortable and authentic in the company of Jennifer Garner and their children.

It emerged this week that, even after their divorce, they have no intention of cutting all connections with each other.

A source told Page Six that they hope to stay ‘connected’ after their split is made official.

According to the source, they plan on maintaining their relationship, even though it’s no longer a romantic one.

Despite their shared responsibilities from ongoing professional commitments – with Lopez being currently engaged in the promotion of her recently released movie “Unstoppable,” produced by Ben – they still have common work obligations.

After several months of rumors surrounding their relationship, Lopez initiated a divorce proceeding from Ben, who is an A-list performer in both singing and acting.

The date she filed was significant because it coincided with the second year anniversary of their wedding held at Affleck’s estate in Savannah, Georgia, which took place on August 20, 2022.

Back in July 2022, the couple got married without having a prenuptial agreement, according to sources.

This marks Jennifer’s fourth failed marriage and Ben’s second.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's year of broken dreams and the $68M divorce nightmare still looming over exes
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's year of broken dreams and the $68M divorce nightmare still looming over exes

Friends close to Jennifer are now advising her to delve deep within herself, following her decision to file for divorce from Ben.

As a devoted admirer, I can share that I’ve been hearing whispers from reliable sources that those in Jennifer Lopez’s inner circle are finding her whirlwind romance situation a bit wearying.

Following four unsuccessful marriages, her companions believe it’s time for her to examine herself deeply, prioritize her own needs, and ultimately discover her true identity and aspirations for her future, the source added.

DailyMail.com was informed by the source that it’s not just the My Love Don’t Cost a Thing actor who can manipulate minds.

The source described Affleck’s high-minded strategy as follows: “Jennifer expressed feeling exhausted from the embarrassment inflicted by Ben. She chose to wait until their two-year anniversary to make her statement, as she wanted it to have a more profound impact.

‘But it did not sting him. He’s been done for a long time and deep down she knows this. He let her have this so that she wouldn’t look like the villain.’

Affleck’s demeanor was cited as a reason for the split between the stars.

According to a source, if others knew the hardships she has faced, they would show more compassion towards her. Ben is generally kind-hearted, yet he can sometimes be moody and negative. If people understood her situation better, they wouldn’t criticize her as harshly.

The source commented, ‘He constantly smokes cigarettes, swears frequently, and appears to be quite agitated most of the time. He’s an exceptional filmmaker and performer, but he doesn’t bring much humor to the table. However, he’s a fantastic dad.’

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's year of broken dreams and the $68M divorce nightmare still looming over exes

According to Page Six, Ben Affleck seems to be content without diving into a new romantic relationship at the moment.

As a die-hard fan, I can’t help but share my thoughts on Ben’s current situation. Despite the fact that his divorce from Jennifer hasn’t officially gone through yet, it’s clear that romance isn’t exactly top of mind for him at this point in time.

A few days following Jennifer’s 55th birthday in July, Ben finalized the purchase of a brand-new luxury home worth approximately $20.5 million in the Pacific Palisades.

According to a recent report from Us Weekly, the celebrity’s acquisition of the property is said to symbolize the end of their romantic involvement.

However, finding a new LA home was apparently like a painful blow to Jennifer’s heart.

Discussion about possible scenarios started towards the end of April, prompted by the debut of Jennifer’s documentary titled “The Greatest Love Story Never Told” on Amazon Prime Video in February.

The movie revealed the private aspects of her relationship with Ben, such as the fact that he saved his love letters from the singer during his marriage to Garner.

As a devoted admirer, I can attest that the actor hailing from Boston is known for his privacy. It was whispered among some circles that my affection for the limelight might have caused friction in our relationship with him.

Initially, a source informed Page Six that Jennifer was feeling deeply embarrassed due to the separation and was extremely angry with Ben.

They shared that he has embarrassed her due to the fact that she had publicly declared him as the love of her life. It’s worth noting that they got married twice just two years ago. This particular incident seems rather unusual given their age and experience.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's year of broken dreams and the $68M divorce nightmare still looming over exes
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's year of broken dreams and the $68M divorce nightmare still looming over exes

In 2021, the well-known pair, affectionately referred to as Bennifer by fans, made news once more when they reignited their relationship. This was approximately 17 years after they initially ended their engagement and delayed their planned wedding in September 2003.

Back in April 2021, there were rumors circulating about the renowned musician and acclaimed film director renewing their friendship following Jennifer’s split from her ex-MLB player boyfriend, Alex Rodriguez.

Last July, the pair publicly declared their romantic bond on Instagram, and they walked the red carpet together for the first time at the 2021 Venice Film Festival. Later on, July 16, 2022, they tied the knot at the Little White Chapel in Las Vegas.

On August 20, 2022, exactly two years after Jennifer filed for divorce, the couple renewed their vows at Ben’s property situated outside Savannah, Georgia.

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