How ‘hurtful’ Justin Bieber comparisons encouraged Selena Gomez to open up about pregnancy struggles – as insiders reveal Benny Blanco has been her ‘rock’

How 'hurtful' Justin Bieber comparisons encouraged Selena Gomez to open up about pregnancy struggles - as insiders reveal Benny Blanco has been her 'rock'

As I delve into this heartwarming tale of Selena Gomez and her journey towards motherhood, I find myself profoundly moved by the resilience and strength she exhibits. Her life, like a beautiful melody, is filled with ups and downs, yet she continues to play on, creating a symphony that resonates with millions worldwide.


In response to hurtful comments following news that Justin Bieber might become a father, Selena Gomez shared about her struggle to conceive.

In a candid conversation with Vanity Fair, the previous Disney star, now aged 32, disclosed that potential health complications might pose risks to her life and her unborn child’s if she were to become pregnant, speaking openly about her personal medical situation.

Selena Gomez, currently in a relationship with record producer Benny Blanco (aged 36), has grown weary of the continuous rumors about her being pregnant and the persistent storyline that she was upset and displeased following Justin Bieber’s (aged 30) announcement of his first child with wife Hailey (aged 27).

In an effort to dispel misunderstandings and halt comparisons, she apparently decided to speak up publicly for the first time.

‘An insider revealed to DailyMail.com on an exclusive basis that Selena had grown weary of people persistently making comparisons between her experiences and those of Justin with Hailey, particularly since they shared the news of their upcoming child, which seemed excessive.’

How 'hurtful' Justin Bieber comparisons encouraged Selena Gomez to open up about pregnancy struggles - as insiders reveal Benny Blanco has been her 'rock'

How 'hurtful' Justin Bieber comparisons encouraged Selena Gomez to open up about pregnancy struggles - as insiders reveal Benny Blanco has been her 'rock'

Out of the blue, Selena felt immense pressure to start a family and tie the knot, specifically with Benny. Yet, whenever Selena indulged in an additional cheeseburger, gossips would arise about her being expecting.

A few days prior to Justin and Hailey announcing their pregnancy news in May, Selena decided to restrict her Instagram comments to only those who are on her follow list.

The pair shared a sequence of monochrome photos on Instagram, depicting affectionate moments like kisses and holding Hailey’s expanding belly, following swiftly after they reaffirmed their commitment in a Hawaiian ceremony.

Shortly thereafter, comments emerged suggesting that Selena was on the verge of tears or close to losing control upon hearing the news.

Another person added on X: ‘Congrats Selena Gomez for being the main character in Justin and Hailey’s marriage and pregnancy announcement.’ 

Others have made nasty comments about her appearance, joking that she is ’65 weeks pregnant.’ 

According to the source, Selena disabled the comments section due to frequent remarks suggesting she should become a mother. However, it’s painful for her as she cannot conceive a child.

‘Speaking to Vanity Fair was her way of just clearing the air.’

How 'hurtful' Justin Bieber comparisons encouraged Selena Gomez to open up about pregnancy struggles - as insiders reveal Benny Blanco has been her 'rock'
How 'hurtful' Justin Bieber comparisons encouraged Selena Gomez to open up about pregnancy struggles - as insiders reveal Benny Blanco has been her 'rock'

For approximately eight years, starting in 2010, Selena and Justin had an on-again, off-again relationship. Unfortunately, their fans, who affectionately called them ‘Jelena,’ found it difficult to come to terms with the separation when they broke up for good, which occurred six months prior to his marriage to Hailey.

Another source mentioned that Benny serves as Selena’s strong support, and it is rumored that these two, who might already be engaged, have contemplated having kids. However, they plan to tie the knot first before starting their family.

“They mentioned that Benny has been incredibly important to Selena. He’s not just a pillar of support, but someone who listens without judgment and strives to help her find solutions for any issues or worries she encounters.

‘Somehow, Selena is certain that Benny will not only marry her but also become a wonderful father. This assurance stems from how diligent he is in caring for her.’

In an open conversation with Vanity Fair, Selena shared that she needed to cope and mourn when informed that she wouldn’t be able to give birth.

She shared with the media outlet that she’s never expressed this before, but due to several health complications, she is unable to give birth herself. These medical issues pose a significant risk not only to her life but also to the baby’s wellbeing. This was something she had to mourn for some time.

She mentioned that she’s currently in a significantly improved situation, and she’s contemplating the option of either surrogacy or adoption.

She went on to say, “It’s not exactly how I had imagined it, but I assumed it would follow a common path. However, I find myself in a far superior position now regarding that matter.

I’m grateful that there are kind individuals ready to undertake surrogacy or adoption, offering significant opportunities for me in my life.

How 'hurtful' Justin Bieber comparisons encouraged Selena Gomez to open up about pregnancy struggles - as insiders reveal Benny Blanco has been her 'rock'
How 'hurtful' Justin Bieber comparisons encouraged Selena Gomez to open up about pregnancy struggles - as insiders reveal Benny Blanco has been her 'rock'

Reading about alternative family paths for those eager to become mothers filled me with genuine gratitude, as it reminds me that I’m not alone in this desire. Indeed, I identify with this group.

She finished: ‘I’m excited for what that journey will look like, but it’ll look a little different. At the end of the day, I don’t care. It’ll be mine. It’ll be my baby.’

Over time, the actress who stars in “The Only Murders in the Building” has been candid about her health issues. In 2013, she disclosed her lupus diagnosis, followed by a revelation in 2015 that she had undergone chemotherapy to manage this long-term autoimmune disease.

Back in 2017, she revealed to her followers through Instagram that she had received a kidney transplant. She also posted a picture showing her alongside her dear friend Francia Raísa, who generously donated the organ for this procedure.

Apart from dealing with various challenges, she experienced a psychological collapse in 2018, which led to her being identified as having bipolar disorder.

Since their relationship began in June 2023, Benny has consistently supported Selena. Earlier this year, the producer expressed that Selena serves as a source of inspiration for him.

He expressed his pride by saying, “I’m so proud of you!”, in response to the photo she shared from the Rare Beauty Mental Health Summit in May.

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2024-09-10 00:19

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