Britney Spears fires back at ‘angry’ Kevin Federline’s cocaine breastfeeding claims: ‘He hates me!’

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Britney Spears publicly criticized her former husband, Kevin Federline, following his claim that she used cocaine while nursing their sons.

Let’s talk about what’s been going on with Britney and Kevin. Honestly, it’s heartbreaking to see, but Britney recently shared some really vulnerable thoughts on social media. She addressed Kevin’s behavior, expressing that she feels he’s holding onto a lot of anger and, in her words, even ‘hates’ her. It’s a tough situation, and she wanted to publicly acknowledge the pain she’s experiencing.

Britney Spears claims her ex-husband is aggressively criticizing her in interviews while promoting his new memoir.

She wondered why he was so upset, explaining, “He really seems to dislike me, and his words are incredibly harsh.”

Britney Spears explained that true love doesn’t involve putting someone down or embarrassing them.

The pop star also appeared to criticize her family, especially her mother, Lynne Spears, 70, accusing them of benefiting from her struggles. She added that her mother only contacted her once in six years and didn’t include her in her son’s birthday celebration.

She started her statement by saying that being loved without conditions, especially with her trusting nature, felt like a constant cycle of being blamed and hurt, all while others benefited from her suffering.

The Grammy winner continued, expressing a heartfelt plea: ‘Please, let me see that God exists, and that I am worthy of unconditional love. I’m tired of feeling like I need to be perfect – it’s something I’m really trying to understand.’

She argued that Federline’s recent comments and book are attempts to profit financially, now that he no longer receives child support because their sons are grown.

I strongly disagree with how he’s been publicly attacking me in interviews. He directly claimed I haven’t financially supported my children for five years, and that I’m now trying to get paid – that’s the general public’s perception. People are also pointing out that we’ve both moved on and our children are adults, so things are different now. It’s concerning how angry he seems, and it’s frightening how convincing he is.

She was shocked by the brief pauses he took before starting to cry, exclaiming, “Are you kidding me?”

Spears believes her ex-husband’s book will likely outsell her own memoir, *The Woman in Me*, which came out in 2023.

She admitted his book would likely outsell hers. She also pointed out that true love means supporting someone, not putting them down.

Honestly, what really shocked me was how intensely upset he became. People just don’t understand the extent of it – it’s far more serious than anyone realizes. It’s clear my son truly resents me, and the things he’s saying… they’re incredibly hurtful and come from a place of deep-seated anger.

Britney then criticized her mother, Lynne, quoting her saying, “You’re angry, we just love you so much and wish you were here.” Britney responded with disbelief, asking why her mother only called once in six years and didn’t invite her to her son’s birthday party in Louisiana, which took place at her own home for two weeks.

She explained that her family behaves towards her similarly to how her father, Jamie Spears, 73, did during her 13-year conservatorship, making her feel alone and cut off from others.

It’s a really painful pattern I’ve noticed – people I get close to seem to subtly recreate the dynamic I had with my father. They share little ‘insider’ moments, then, almost without realizing it, they start to distance themselves, leaving me feeling completely alone. It’s like they secretly need to push me away, and it’s incredibly isolating.

Britney Spears recently told her fans she’s been focusing on healing and has purchased a small glass greenhouse to grow lavender and rosemary.

She added she will not be ‘growing weed.’ 

I’m really diving into dealing with this difficult situation, and honestly, I feel incredibly relieved and grateful it’s finally here. There’s a lot of healing work ahead, and I think simply connecting with people and talking things through will be a good start.

The celebrity is turning a year older on December 2nd, and surprisingly, she’s chosen to celebrate without her family. She’s expressed a desire to have a dinner with two well-known figures instead.

This year, I don’t want to travel for my birthday. Instead, I’d love to spend time with Michelle Pfeiffer and Paris Jackson – maybe grab coffee, lunch, or dinner. It’s important to have role models and maintain faith in people, and I think these two are incredibly inspiring and beautiful.

I was so excited to hear her say she’s planning to get into acting! And even more amazing, she hinted she’s thinking about launching her own radio podcast – I can’t wait to listen if she does!

She finished her message by thanking those who were offering her support, saying she knew they understood how much she was hurting.

This follows a startling accusation by Federline that the pop star used cocaine while nursing their children, which he claims ultimately caused their breakup.

In his new memoir, titled ‘You Thought You Knew,’ the dancer accused his ex-wife of something she strongly denied, following previous allegations made in Kevin Federline’s book on Tuesday night.

Federline says the situation happened at a party celebrating his 2006 album, ‘Playing With Fire.’ He explains that she had told him beforehand she would stay home with their sons, Sean Preston (now 19) and Jayden (now 18).

In a statement to Us Weekly, Federline explained that as they approached the venue entrance, Britney’s father, Jamie Spears, was waiting there.

I was surprised to see him, but glad he came to support me. He glanced over, shook his head, and pointed to my dressing room. His face showed he wasn’t pleased, a mix of disapproval and worry, like he was thinking: “She’s here, and this isn’t going to be good.”

The Daily Mail has contacted both Britney Spears and Jamie Spears’ representatives for comment on the recent details from Federline’s memoir, but has not received a response from either party.

Federline remembered his security guard letting him in to find Spears sitting at a coffee table with her brother, Bryan, her agent Jason Trawick, and another actress who he said was on the verge of becoming famous thanks to a major new role.

I couldn’t believe my eyes when I first saw it – Britney and a younger woman, someone who clearly looked up to her, were doing cocaine right there on the table. It was shocking, to say the least. I just stood there, frozen, witnessing something I never expected to see.

They both had on really wild wigs. Britney’s was a bright, electric blue, and the whole thing felt incredibly strange. They weren’t even attempting to disguise themselves.

Federline was shocked to learn his then-wife was using drugs while breastfeeding their young sons, Preston, who was 13 months old, and Jayden, just one month old.

Federline went on to allege that he had quietly confronted Spears later that evening.

He claimed he told her not to go home and breastfeed the children in that state, asking her to call her mother or someone for help and get formula, as it wasn’t a good situation.

He says Spears reacted by throwing a drink at him in front of other people, then leaving the party.

Kevin Federline said that Britney Spears’ reaction to him discussing their breast-feeding arrangement was the last thing he could handle, and it ultimately led to the end of their relationship.

He immediately had his lawyer, Mark Vincent Kaplan, send Britney Spears a letter asking her to stop breastfeeding their children. Shortly after, Spears hired her own lawyer, Laura Wasser, who then filed for divorce after only two years of marriage.

This new part of Britney Spears’ upcoming memoir follows a recent outburst where she criticized her ex-husband, Kevin Federline, claiming he manipulated her, and also sharply criticized their sons in a public post.

The singer publicly criticized her ex-husband and their two sons after he made a startling accusation that she once frightened them by holding a knife when they woke up.

The singer behind the hit song ‘Toxic’ shared a heartfelt message on Instagram Wednesday, saying she’s reached her limit with her ex-husband’s manipulative behavior, which she described as deeply painful and draining.

Spears shared that she’s been deeply hurt by the strained relationship with her sons, explaining that she’s consistently expressed her desire to rebuild a close connection with them.

As a lifestyle expert, I’ve learned that family connection is everything, and it breaks my heart to share that I’ve only spent 45 minutes with one of my sons in the last five years. It’s a truly devastating situation, and highlights how life can sometimes pull us apart from those we love.

The Daily Mail reached out to Britney Spears’s team for a response to Kevin Federline’s earlier statements, but her representative criticized Federline for allegedly making money from her fame.

The representative stated that with the publicity surrounding Kevin’s new book, he and others are once again benefiting from her story, which is especially disheartening now that Kevin’s child support obligations have ended.

Britney Spears is currently prioritizing her two children and making sure they are doing okay, despite all the attention on her new book.

According to a source speaking with the Daily Mail, Britney Spears isn’t worried about her sister Jamie Lynn’s upcoming memoir, which comes out on October 21st. Spears already shared her life story in her 2023 book, *The Woman In Me*, and doesn’t plan to publicly respond to the memoir in order to preserve a relationship with her children.

Britney Spears and dancer Kevin Federline married in 2004 after a very quick romance, and they later had two children together.

However, the marriage didn’t last, and Federline filed for divorce in 2006. They were both officially divorced the next year. Following a mental health crisis, Federline was granted full custody of their children.

Honestly, it just breaks my heart to hear that Britney’s been having trouble with her boys. I mean, I’ve been following her for years, and they’re her whole world! It was awful learning that they actually moved all the way to Hawaii with Jamie in August of last year. It just feels so wrong that they’re so far away from her, and I really hope they can work things out soon. I’m constantly worried about them all.

According to a source at the Daily Mail, the children unexpectedly visited their mother for Christmas. Recently, she’s been developing a stronger relationship with her son, Jayden.

In a statement about his upcoming book, releasing on October 21st, Federline shared that his memoir will offer very personal and honest details about his well-known marriage.

The former backup dancer shared that he accomplished his lifelong goals, overcame painful heartbreak and faced constant criticism, all while being the supportive father his children needed during a very difficult time in their lives.

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2025-10-17 03:05