Boy George tells Chappell Roan to ‘own your fame and cheer up’ as he issues a warning about ‘being ignored and branded a has-been’

As someone who’s observed artists navigating fame for years, I’ve been following the conversation around Chappell Roan‘s approach to fan interactions. Honestly, I think Boy George has a point – and it’s a message many rising stars need to hear. He’s suggesting she really embrace her success and not be afraid to enjoy the positive side of being famous. It’s a reminder that owning your spotlight can be incredibly empowering, and sometimes, a little positivity goes a long way!

Boy George, the 64-year-old singer from Culture Club, reacted to a video that recently went viral. The video shows 28-year-old Maisie Chappell confronting fans who reportedly followed her while she was in Paris.

A bystander’s video captures Chappell expressing that she feels dehumanized and ignored.

She explained she was simply trying to enjoy dinner and had repeatedly asked the fans to give her some space. Chappell then turned his attention to a particular fan who kept requesting an autograph.

The musician explained that someone keeps bothering them, despite repeated requests to leave. This person is also trying to hide their face, likely because they feel embarrassed.

Boy George told Chappell to enjoy the spotlight while it lasts, explaining that fame doesn’t last forever and is simply part of being a pop star.

The singer of “Karama Chameleon” recently shared on X (formerly Twitter) that after years in the spotlight, he’s learned a tough lesson: becoming a public figure doesn’t shield you from criticism or consequences. He explained that no matter how much you try to stand out, you’re still subject to the same scrutiny as anyone else.

I saw @ChappellRoan being filmed by the paparazzi in Paris, and it made me laugh because I’ve confronted them myself a lot. The key is to embrace being famous.

It can be frustrating, definitely, but being dismissed or told you’re past your prime is worse. We should focus on the present, and honestly, Chappell looks fantastic. Just try to stay positive!

You have so much potential – stop wasting it! It’s easier to agree to things than to politely decline, but setting limits is important. While boundaries might seem dull, approaching situations with kindness can make all the difference.

Following the post, some users on X quickly came to Chappell’s defense, with one person commenting, ‘Why are people so quick to tell women to simply ignore unwanted attention?’

In 2024, the singer of “Good Luck Babe!” criticized fans for repeatedly bothering and following her, and stated she wasn’t concerned if people considered that attitude selfish.

She talked about handling public attention in an episode of The Comment Section podcast, explaining that she had deliberately slowed down her pursuit of fame at that time.

She explained to Drew Afualo that she’s been experiencing disturbing behavior from fans, including being stalked and having her family’s personal information shared. She described it as ‘really strange and scary.’

Chappell shared that she vowed to quit making music if fans behaved in a way that felt like stalking or threatened the safety of her family.

Chappell reaffirmed her position on Instagram, stating in a detailed post, ‘I’m willing to face any repercussions for asking to be treated with respect.’

The singer explained that this kind of reaction isn’t unusual, and questioned why it’s so upsetting when a woman shares her concerns and sets limits.

I’ve been working on my project relentlessly for the last decade, and now I need to establish some limits and take better care of myself.

I don’t believe I’m obligated to give my energy, time, or attention to strangers, especially if I don’t trust them or feel uncomfortable around them, simply because they’re showing me praise.

Miley Cyrus is among those who have spoken out in support of Chappell. In 2024, Cyrus shared that she contacted the up-and-coming artist to offer encouragement, saying she hopes people will be kinder to her.

Starting out in this industry with phones and Instagram must be incredibly challenging. I didn’t grow up with those things, and I don’t really use them now either.

Last month, Chappell shared details about the large team – 28 people – who support her well-being. This group includes friends, as well as professionals like an acupuncturist, life coach, therapist, and a massage therapist specializing in craniosacral therapy.

‘I have a whole team of women behind me that help me be kinder to myself,’ Roan told Nylon.

Let’s be real, navigating life isn’t always smooth sailing, and I’m right there with you! I’m constantly working on self-compassion, because honestly, we all have moments where we second-guess past choices. I’ve definitely had times where I’ve wondered if I made the right career move, and felt like it was impacting my overall happiness. It’s a learning process, and it’s okay to admit you’re figuring things out as you go.

The singer of ‘The Giver’ explained that she finds it necessary to take breaks from the music industry to protect her well-being. She believes the industry itself isn’t very supportive or kind, describing it as deeply flawed.

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2026-03-11 11:04