Ben Ofoedu Exposes Vanessa Feltz’s Alleged Affairs, Calls Her a Psychopath Post-Split

In a recent interview, Ben Ofoedu, former fiancé of Vanessa Feltz, alleged that she had been unfaithful to him not once but twice throughout their 16-year relationship, labeling her as a ‘psychopath’.

The presenter, aged 63, was in a 16-year relationship with ex-singer Ben Ofoedu from Phats & Small, until allegations of Ben’s infidelity became public knowledge through media outlets in 2023.

In a recent conversation on The Dozen with Liam Tuffs podcast, Ben asserted that he learned from friends and relatives that Vanessa may have been unfaithful while they were together.

In a podcast episode that airs every Sunday, he mentions: ‘For the initial six years, she was fantastic. There’s something about her that makes men feel less masculine.’

If she’s had something to drink, she becomes quite confrontational. The volume of her voice, the harsh words she used towards me, and the tone she took when speaking with me—it’s hard to fathom what she might be like in private settings.

Ben asserted that his entire character underwent a transformation during his relationship with Vanessa, and he labeled her as a ‘person exhibiting psychopathic traits.’

He commented: ‘I allowed some matters to pass unnoticed. I was informed on two occasions that she had been untrue to me, this information came from members of her family as well as her closest confidante.’

Ben similarly refuted allegations of infidelity towards Vanessa, expressing, “I couldn’t be more different from the image people have of me as a serial cheater.

TopMob has contacted a representative for Vanessa Feltz for comment. 

In February, it was revealed that Vanessa’s former partner, aged 52, disclosed their engagement to his new girlfriend, Vanessa Brown, who is 29 years old, following a brief relationship of only one month.

He proposed to her unexpectedly while they were on vacation in New York, getting down on one knee in Central Park right before Valentine’s Day as a sweet surprise.

In my personal life, I was previously married to Michael from 1983 until our divorce in 2000. Together, we have two beautiful daughters, Allegra who is now 38 years old, and Saskia, aged 35.

After approximately two years since the end of his long-standing relationship with broadcaster Vanessa, who was deeply affected when she learned about the infidelity of the singer, Ben has entered a new romantic connection.

I couldn’t help but throw myself from a speeding taxi the instant Ben admitted to his infidelity, unable to endure another syllable of it. Vanessa shared this tale.

In a recent conversation, I shared an experience that left me shaken. You see, during an unfortunate incident, my coat was ripped and there was blood streaming from a wound on my arm. I expected the taxi driver to pull over so we could check if I was still alive after jumping. However, he chose not to do so.

Following the split, Ben shared with TopMob his belief that the author didn’t seem keen on formalizing their relationship, hinting that their decade-long age difference may have fostered insecurities.

Last February, Ben expressed: “For a fourth of my life, I committed myself to someone, but in the end, I gained nothing; it’s truly devastating.

‘I met Vanessa when I was 34 and I lived 17 years in her life and it was all what she wanted.’  

Previously, the two were planning to wed, but Ben claimed that Vanessa, who later appeared on E4’s Celebs Go Dating after their split, had remained with him primarily to feel rejuvenated.

He shared that he had been deeply in love, yet he felt as though he was being used more for companionship rather than genuine affection. In contrast to this temporary attachment, he yearned for a lifelong commitment like marriage and children, accompanied by true affection.

In my eyes, I seemed like merely a convenient option for her. To the outside world, I was the hip, more youthful companion she could flaunt.

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2025-04-06 19:07

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