Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA – as it’s revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was ‘planned’ by couple before she filed

Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed

As a seasoned observer of celebrity dynamics and someone who has navigated my own fair share of romantic entanglements, I find myself deeply moved by the story of Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck. It’s a tale of love, loss, and the complexities that come with balancing personal desires and family obligations.


On a delightful Friday afternoon in the Brentwood district of LA, I indulged myself with a scrumptious scoop of ice cream while spending quality time with my cherished sons, Fin and Samuel.

Actor Matt Damon, aged 52, who had a pre-arranged separation from Jennifer Lopez, was spotted taking a leisurely walk outdoors as he spent some precious moments with his children, during his ongoing separation from the actress playing Athena in Atlas.

As a seasoned divorce lawyer with over two decades of experience under my belt, I have seen countless couples come and go through the arduous process of dissolving their marriage. However, the recent news about Lopez filing for divorce on their second wedding anniversary, without an attorney, caught my attention due to its unusual nature.

Affleck walked casually, offering a brief smile, toward the ice cream shop, dressed in a dark green button-up and a gray undershirt.

As a devoted follower, I donned a pair of khaki-toned trousers and black-and-white Nike athletic shoes for added style.

Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed

Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed

Affleck was accompanied by his two kids, Fin (age 15) and Samuel (age 12), who are from his former marriage with Jennifer Garner.

The former couple are also parents to daughter Violet, 18, who they dropped off at college in Connecticut over the past weekend.  

According to a recent source, Ben has shared his feelings with Garner following his divorce from Lopez. It seems that they have developed a strong friendship and maintain an excellent co-parenting dynamic.

As a lifestyle expert, I’d say it this way: In my experience, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner prioritize their children above all else, fostering a harmonious coexistence. It’s evident that they share a profound level of trust and respect for each other, which is the foundation of their amicable relationship post-separation.

As a lifestyle advisor, I can share that I’ve noticed Ben has leaned on Jennifer quite extensively, particularly in the past few months, as things with Jennifer Lopez haven’t been going smoothly.

Jen was optimistic that their situation would resolve positively, but ultimately, her wish is for their happiness. Therefore, she endorses the direction they’ve chosen in life.

A threesome was spotted walking along a tranquil road, eventually stopping for a delightful dessert. At some point during their journey, Ben sported a smile while engaging in a jovial chat with Fin and Samuel; incidentally, Samuel carried a camera as well.

Later on, the actor was seen enjoying an ice cream scoop nestled in a classic waffle cone by taking a bite.

In my recent update, it has been disclosed that my separation from Jennifer occurred following preliminary discussions we’d had prior to her formal divorce filing – a move that many may find surprising.

Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed
Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed
Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed
Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed
Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed
Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed
Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed
Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed
Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed

In the past two years, she chose to initiate a divorce process by herself, sans legal representation or a prenuptial agreement.

Nevertheless, according to a source, as reported by Us Weekly on Friday, they had already discussed and worked out the specifics of their separation beforehand.

‘They had already agreed to these terms before she filed,’ the insider continued to the outlet.

Jennifer decided to go ahead with filing, as it was an arrangement between them, and it was her call to make in the end.

The expensive $60 million mansion they bought in Beverly Hills last year, which pertains to their separation, represents a financial concern for them.

After undergoing renovations, the expansive property was put up for sale in July, priced at $68 million.

As a devoted follower, I can attest that there was no disagreement over resources. Neither party sought excess; they both arrived equipped with substantial personal assets.

In her divorce filing, Lopez stated that there were insurmountable disagreements between them, and she specifically asked that he would not be eligible for alimony, given his reported net worth of approximately $150 million.

Two years following her enthusiastic discussion on the romantic aspect of adopting the name Mrs. Affleck, she decided to reclaim her original family surname once more.

According to our sources, the divorce papers filed by DailyMail.com indicate that the official separation date is April 26, 2024.

Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed
Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed
Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed
Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed
Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed
Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed

Prior to their wedding in July 2022, it appears that the pair chose not to draft a prenuptial agreement, according to sources. This development signifies Jennifer’s fourth unsuccessful marriage and Ben’s second.

If they don’t have a prenuptial agreement, any income they earned over the past two years from movies, TV shows, or significant endorsement deals would collectively belong to both of them, not just one individual.

Jennifer, with an estimated net worth of $400 million, has released four movies since her marriage to Ben. Among these is a self-financed production titled “This Is Me… Now: A Love Story,” valued at $20 million, which chronicles their revitalized relationship.

In the year 2023, she debuted her Delola cocktail line, and she had planned a global tour to promote her newest album titled ‘This Is Me… Now’. However, just weeks prior to its commencement, the tour was called off so she could devote herself more fully to her family.

Oscar-winner Ben, who has a reported net worth of $150million, has recently starred in the films Air (2023) and Hypnotic (2023). He also recently wrapped production of a sequel to 2016’s The Accountant.

Additionally, Jennifer and Ben found themselves collaborating on the forthcoming movie titled “Unstoppable.” Interestingly, Affleck is involved in the production of this project along with Matt Damon. However, Lopez has been cast as one of the main actors for the film.

On September 6th next month, Jennifer is planned to attend the premiere of the film “Unstoppable”. Unfortunately, Ben Affleck won’t be there for this event.

As per a recent report by People, there are claims suggesting that Lopez played a role in helping Affleck prioritize his children more.

The site claimed that the Atlas actress motivated the Argo director to be more ‘family oriented.’

Over the course of their two-year union, it’s been revealed that the children held significant importance for them, as shared by an informed source. Months prior, Ben hinted at this fact.

Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed

But the way they spent their time with the kids divided them, it was claimed.

Jennifer Lopez enjoyed taking her kids shopping and attending fun outings, but Ben Affleck tended to prefer staying at home instead.

The source commented, “Affleck and Lopez are distinct individuals. She enjoys being in the limelight and going out, whereas he prefers a quieter lifestyle, content with staying at home.”

Currently, it appears that Lopez is said to be experiencing feelings of disappointment and sadness following the divorce filing with Affleck. However, she understood that it was necessary to take a step forward and move on with her life.

In the early 2000s, a prominent figure in showbiz was betrothed to an actor from Hollywood named Ben. Notably, they rekindled their relationship in 2021 and, later, exchanged vows in two ceremonies during 2022.

According to a source speaking to People, Jennifer appears to believe that the moment has come for her to embark on a fresh chapter in her life, citing multiple factors as the reason.

She feels deeply disheartened and sorrowful, yet there’s no indication from Ben that he wishes to carry on with their marital journey.

The source mentioned, ‘He appears unwilling to invest effort and care into their relationship. At this stage, she feels it’s essential to prioritize her own well-being.’

Two years ago today, I found myself filing for divorce, a step that was marked by the anniversary of our lavish wedding held in Georgia on August 20, 2022. To me, it wasn’t just another date; its significance was not lost on me.

Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed
Ben Affleck treats himself to ice cream with his kids in LA - as it's revealed Jennifer Lopez divorce was 'planned' by couple before she filed

They said: ‘She was done waiting and the date she did it speaks a ton… [The divorce filing] gives her control of the process … It’s good that she did it …

‘She tried really hard to make things work and is heartbroken.’

Continuing emphatically, it was stressed that their combined family unit holds the utmost importance, with this emphasis: ‘The children remain our highest priority, just as they always have.’

As a committed partner, I can share that whispers of marital troubles started circulating a couple of months back in May, when we hadn’t spent time together for more than a month. It seems our challenges might have originated during our honeymoon in Italy last year, 2022.

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