Ben Affleck is seen for the first time since ex Jennifer Lopez was pictured holding hands with his BFF Matt Damon – as he enjoys a ride in LA

Ben Affleck is seen for the first time since ex Jennifer Lopez was pictured holding hands with his BFF Matt Damon - as he enjoys a ride in LA

As a seasoned observer of Hollywood’s tumultuous relationships, I must say, the saga of Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck is nothing short of captivating. The rollercoaster ride they’ve been on since their initial engagement in the early 2000s is reminiscent of a blockbuster movie script – full of drama, love, heartbreak, and ultimately, a second chance at happiness.


On Tuesday, Ben Affleck was observed taking a drive through Beverly Hills, just four days following the sighting of his former spouse, Jennifer Lopez, walking hand-in-hand with Ben’s friend, Matt Damon.

52-year-old actor from Batman, wore dark aviator shades and had a bit of facial hair during his travel.

Affleck, allegedly feeling humiliated after his divorce from Lopez at 55 years old, appeared cheerful as he drove wearing a grey coat over a purple shirt.

A stir was caused when Lopez and Damon, both aged 53, were seen holding hands during a secluded instance at the post-screening event for Unstoppable, which took place at the Toronto International Film Festival on Friday evening.

Jennifer Lopez, known for her song “Jenny From the Block,” and Matt Damon, famous for his role in “The Bourne Identity,” were seen with their faces very near each other and appeared quite focused during what was said to be a 20-minute discussion.

Ben Affleck is seen for the first time since ex Jennifer Lopez was pictured holding hands with his BFF Matt Damon - as he enjoys a ride in LA

Ben Affleck is seen for the first time since ex Jennifer Lopez was pictured holding hands with his BFF Matt Damon - as he enjoys a ride in LA

It was later disclosed that Matt didn’t discuss Ben with Jennifer during the party, as insiders stated that the actor had signaled his unwavering support for Ben by saying he would ‘stand by Ben regardless.’

In the aftermath of their divorce, Lopez seemed eager to discuss her former spouse with Damon. However, according to reports, Damon showed no interest in this topic.

According to a source, Matt effectively ended any conversation about Ben that JLo tried to initiate during the movie premiere. (DailyMail.com)

At the event, it turned out poorly for her when she chose to privately discuss something with Matt, as it was likely that this private conversation would become public knowledge and spread rapidly.

The source added: ‘Placing her entire hand on his was a sweet gesture, yet he showed no interest.’

He expressed his happiness about her success and gratitude for her involvement in the movie, yet he firmly conveyed that the conversation was not intended to discuss Ben.

At a certain moment, they found themselves seated in a corner during the gathering, with Lopez placing her hand on Damon’s, as he seemed to lower his head, almost like a gesture of prayer.

As a die-hard admirer, I must clarify a misunderstanding that seems to be circulating. Contrary to the speculations, I was informed directly that Damon wasn’t engaging in a prayer with her, but rather, he emphasized his unwavering loyalty towards Ben, stating unequivocally that he stands by him through thick and thin.

Ben Affleck is seen for the first time since ex Jennifer Lopez was pictured holding hands with his BFF Matt Damon - as he enjoys a ride in LA
Ben Affleck is seen for the first time since ex Jennifer Lopez was pictured holding hands with his BFF Matt Damon - as he enjoys a ride in LA
Ben Affleck is seen for the first time since ex Jennifer Lopez was pictured holding hands with his BFF Matt Damon - as he enjoys a ride in LA

At the recent event, Lopez made quite an impression in a dress reminiscent of a disco ball, symbolizing her vengeance. This was her first appearance on the red carpet since filing for divorce from Affleck on August 20. The date held significance as it marked exactly two years since their marriage at his mansion in Georgia.

In the movie production of “Unstoppable,” a sports drama based on Anthony Robles, a one-legged college wrestling champion, both Damon and Affleck serve as producers. However, Affleck chose to stay away from the premiers rather than potentially encounter his ex in a high-profile event on the red carpet.

Previously on Tuesday, it was reported that Affleck felt deeply embarrassed when his brief marriage to Lopez ended, however, Matt provided comfort during a difficult emotional period for him.

According to reports, Affleck emotionally confided in Damon, expressing feelings of envy towards his lifestyle, particularly since he had managed to quit smoking, and admiration for his harmonious marriage to Luciana Barroso, a union that has resulted in three beautiful daughters.

A source revealed to DailyMail.com on an exclusive basis that Ben, due to the failure of his marriage with JLo, is experiencing deep emotional vulnerability and a sense of humiliation. This source also shared that upon speaking with Matt, Ben could not hold back tears as he admitted feelings of jealousy towards Matt’s lifestyle.

‘He told Matt he has everything he wants – a nearly 20-year happy marriage and children who live with him. He admitted he’s chosen the wrong path in life so many times while he’s seen Matt take the right road over and over again.’

The source added: ‘He told Matt if he could hibernate right now he would.’

Earlier this year, whispers about issues in Affleck’s marriage arose as he was absent from public view alongside Lopez for a period of 47 days.

Ben Affleck is seen for the first time since ex Jennifer Lopez was pictured holding hands with his BFF Matt Damon - as he enjoys a ride in LA
Ben Affleck is seen for the first time since ex Jennifer Lopez was pictured holding hands with his BFF Matt Damon - as he enjoys a ride in LA
Ben Affleck is seen for the first time since ex Jennifer Lopez was pictured holding hands with his BFF Matt Damon - as he enjoys a ride in LA

The speculation grew even stronger when she attended the premiere of her movie Atlas alone, subsequently deciding to cancel her tour in order to focus on her family.

During that summer, the pair found themselves separated, as Affleck was absent from his wife’s extravagant Bridgerton-inspired birthday celebration held in August.

News of their divorce finally broke last month when Lopez filed for divorce.

In the early 2000s, Lopez and Affleck became well-known for their engagement, but they eventually split up. However, they rekindled their relationship in July 2022 and ended up getting married. A second wedding ceremony followed a month later.

At first, their two-year love affair attracted a great deal of attention, and the constant examination of their relationship proved challenging for the pair to manage.

In the music documentary titled “The Greatest Love Story Never Told,” she shared her thoughts, saying, ‘Three days prior to our wedding, Ben and I split up. We struggled under the weight of it all, pretending everything was fine.’

During the process of reconciling, the two-time Academy Award winner, Affleck, openly stated that he held no desire to frequently appear on his wife’s social media platforms.

In recalling the conversation, the actor mentioned, “Upon reunion, I stated, ‘One aspect I wish to avoid in our relationship is its presence on social media.’

Later on, I came to understand that it wasn’t right to make such a request. It’s somewhat analogous to proposing to a boat captain and saying, “However, I dislike being near water.

He continued: ‘We’re just two people with different kinds of approaches trying to learn to compromise.’

Ben Affleck is seen for the first time since ex Jennifer Lopez was pictured holding hands with his BFF Matt Damon - as he enjoys a ride in LA

Lopez admitted that Affleck seemed uneasy about the situation, explaining to the audience: “I believe Ben isn’t particularly at ease with everything I’m doing. Nevertheless, he adores me, understands my artistic nature, and will back me up in any way possible.

Earlier reports on DailyMail.com revealed that Damon expressed concerns about their renewed relationship, cautioning Affleck that a separation might occur in the future.

According to the source, Matt was present to assist Ben in getting his life back on track following their initial separation, and they believed a similar situation might occur again.

For more than four decades, Affleck and Damon have been close friends, first gaining widespread recognition together in 1997 when they won an Oscar for Best Original Screenplay for their movie “Good Will Hunting.

In the upcoming months, these longtime friends will work together again on a new project featuring Jennifer Lopez – it’s a movie musical called “Kiss of the Spider Woman,” and she is not only acting but also serving as one of its producers.

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2024-09-11 05:48

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