Ben Affleck, 51, unveils midlife crisis makeover as he emerges amid Jennifer Lopez divorce drama with faux hawk, rocker tee and NO ring

As a seasoned observer of high-profile relationships, I must say that the saga of Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck is a tale as old as time – or at least Hollywood. Having followed their journey for many years, it seems their union was doomed from the start by clashing personalities, differing priorities, and an overzealous real estate agent with a penchant for massive houses.

During the weekend, Ben Affleck underwent a surprising transformation in the middle of his life, as he was spotted in Los Angeles, which came amidst his personal issues with Jennifer Lopez concerning their marriage.

Jennifer Lopez, aged 55, and Ben Affleck, also 55, have been absent from each other for approximately two months now. Reports received by DailyMail.com indicate that they have drafted separation papers, planning to submit them at a future point in time, which could potentially signal an upcoming divorce.

On Thursday night, Jennifer Lopez was observed leaving without her wedding ring, and instead wearing her engagement ring on her other hand.

Currently, Ben unveiled an astonishing fresh appearance, featuring a miniaturized fake mohawk and a T-shirt from Red Hot Chili Peppers.

To complete the look, he added a pair of slim-fit denim jeans, sunglasses reminiscent of aviators, and a seemingly small black leather jacket. Interestingly, he was not wearing his wedding ring on this occasion.

Almost all of his head was bald, save for a tiny hint of stubble, as he attempted a punk rock style look by cutting it very short.

He leisurely walked through a parking area, then climbed onto his electric motorbike, put on his safety helmet, and rode away.

During his divorce proceedings with Jennifer Garner, who is the mother of his three kids, Ben underwent a significant transformation in his appearance as well.

After social media users started commenting on his large, phoenix-themed back tattoo, he initially said it was a fake prop for a role. However, it turned out to be real.

Yet, following a number of years, and after being ridiculed for his large, vivid tattoo in the New Yorker, he eventually confessed that the tattoo was indeed genuine.

In a different phraseology, the article published in The New Yorker titled “The Great Sadness of Ben Affleck” led him to respond on Twitter with this comment: “I’m holding up well. A tough exterior fortified by vibrant tattoos.”

Ben’s recent transformation occurred following a confidant revealing to Dailymail.com that Jennifer Lopez’s alcohol business was one of the factors that pushed him over the edge, so to speak.

In my perspective, I must clarify that the beverage company was launched before the band reunited, a fact I was fully cognizant of and wholeheartedly supported by me, being an ardent follower of both entities.

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In fact, some people claim that it was Ben who made the decision to end their marriage, with rumors suggesting that their union has reached its conclusion. This action is attributed to Ben due to his role in the dissolution of their relationship.

As a devoted supporter, let me share my perspective: What caused Ben’s intense anger towards this prominent business venture? His friends claim that, being a recovering alcoholic, he found it disrespectful that his wife was selling vodka and tequila drinks. After all, he had spent years fighting against his alcohol addiction.

When the label was first launched last year, he was said to be devastated.

His pain intensified due to the suspicion that her primary reason for starting her drinks company was solely driven by financial gain, rather than any other motive.

First seeking help for his alcoholism in 2001, Ben has since been in rehab multiple times. 

Additionally complicating the situation, Jennifer Lopez proceeded with a high-profile promotional spree, openly expressing her affection for drinking as a means of unwinding and having fun.

As someone who has spent years working in fashion advertising, I can confidently say that the strategy of using celebrities or influencers to promote new products is a tried-and-true method. It’s all about tapping into their followers’ admiration and trust for these individuals, as well as leveraging their unique personal brand to create an authentic connection with potential customers. In this specific instance, the use of a celebrity lounging on a sunbed in a swimming costume to advertise a new product is a classic example of this tactic.

A friend of the actor shared with The Mail: ‘Ben struggled greatly to regain his life following his battle against alcohol addiction. After seeing him lose everything, including the support of his family, and fearing he might slip up again, Jen chose to establish her own spritzer brand for additional income. Given her current wealth, one might wonder why she felt this was necessary.’

‘This was one of the things that broke the camel’s back. But Ben saved his sobriety.’

As a longtime fan of Jen and Ben’s work, I find it quite surprising to learn that they have prepared divorce papers and plan to file at the end of summer. Over the years, their on-screen chemistry and collaborations have been a source of inspiration for me. Their separation is certainly a reminder that even the strongest bonds can fray over time. However, as someone who has witnessed the ups and downs of my own relationships, I understand that life takes unexpected turns and people change. I wish them both the best in their future endeavors, and hope they find peace and happiness in their personal lives.

In May 2023, Ben vacated his expansive Beverly Hills estate, a property he acquired not long after his wedding in July 2022.

Following an unsuccessful effort at reconciling recently, it has been alleged by several sources that the couple’s divorce papers are prepared and pending submission, but not yet officially filed.

In my professional opinion, I find myself holding off on making a move until the perfect moment arrives. When that moment comes, you can expect a heartfelt announcement from us, expressing our deep affection for one another and detailing our valiant efforts to sustain our relationship. However, despite these efforts, we’ve come to the difficult realization that it simply isn’t meant to be.

To put it simply, after much effort, they failed to reach an agreement. Whatever relationship they once shared no longer exists, and they’ve each acknowledged that fact.

It’s a sorry end to what looked like being an inspiring tale of rekindled lost love.

The pair got together in 2002, became engaged, but split in 2004 before they got married.

In the year 2005, Ben tied the knot with Jennifer Garner. Together, they welcomed three kids into the world. However, after spending ten years as a couple, they decided to part ways in 2015. Their official separation was finalized three more years down the line.

After marrying singer-songwriter Marc Anthony, Jo-Lo welcomed twin children who were 16 years old at the time. Unfortunately, their union endured for just a decade.

In 2021, after Jennifer Lopez’s unsuccessful engagement to baseball player Alex Rodriguez, Ben Affleck and J-Lo rekindled their relationship, captivating fans and generating equal intrigue among global media outlets.

In the subsequent year, they got married in Las Vegas first, followed by a grand reception at Ben’s sprawling $9 million (£7) estate in Georgia.

Yet, for several weeks now, there’s been no sighting of the pair together. Last month, Ben opted to miss Jennifer Lopez’s Bridgerton-themed 55th birthday celebration.

In place of that, he acquired a 20 million dollar (approximately 16 million pound) bachelor residence in Los Angeles, following the decision to sell their 68 million dollar (around 53 million pound) property in Beverly Hills.

Since at least the previous year, problems had arisen. For Ben, when Jennifer Lopez introduced her drinks brand Delola in April 2023, it served as a red flag, suggesting to him that her career held greater importance over their relationship.

In my personal experience, I have noticed that individuals often have contrasting preferences when it comes to their public and private lives. For instance, some crave a secluded existence, cherishing their privacy above all else, while others thrive on exposure and seek out opportunities for maximum visibility. This year, I observed this dynamic play out in the lives of two people I know.

Although he tried to meet her publicity demands, their contrasting approaches to their professions strained the very core of their marriage.

A friend mentioned: ‘Ben ended their marriage, and Jennifer tricked him into thinking she hadn’t changed from the woman he fell in love with initially. This made him feel like they were picking up where they left off. He isn’t fond of the glamorous red carpet events, but he attended because she enjoyed it.’

His tolerance for her fixation on fame waned significantly. She yearned for constant attention through photography and admiration, leaving him feeling that their private moments were no longer intimate but public property. It seemed as though she felt compelled to expose every aspect of herself, stripping away any sense of sanctity in their relationship. This was not just a desire or hobby, it had become an integral part of her identity — fame.

For her, the work was more than just a profession; it embodied her lifestyle. In the end, she couldn’t let go of it. She made a choice between stardom and him, much like she had in her past three marriages.

It seems that J-Lo has been shaping a significant portion of her latest commercial ventures around their rekindled relationship. Some even speculate that he was upset about her new album focusing on him, and he was completely against her recent TV documentary titled “This Is Me… Now: A Love Story”.

Having had my fair share of watching documentaries, I must say that this one stood out for me as it chronicled Jen’s personal journey towards love, offering a unique perspective through her own eyes. However, it was unfortunate to see how mercilessly it was ridiculed by audiences and ultimately flopped, costing millions in losses. As someone who has dabbled in filmmaking myself, I can only imagine the hard work and passion that went into creating this piece, making its failure all the more disheartening.

A reliable insider shares that Ben expressed strong displeasure over the matter. He firmly objected to her taking part in it, as she had requested his financial backing and active participation in a venture that he strongly opposed.

‘In the end, he was glad it flopped. It too destroyed their marriage.

‘Ben didn’t want it [their love story] to be told. Only she did.

1. “Losing 18 million pounds severely damaged Ben’s faith in her. The moment she publicly displayed their love letters for all to see, his anger boiled over. It was then that he realized she prioritized her career over their relationship.”

According to friends, it’s reported that J-Lo made a profit by selling the project to Amazon, as she had initially financed it herself.

In the documentary, J-Lo displayed a book to the camera, mentioning, “This book was a gift from Ben during our first Christmas back as a couple. Inside are all the letters and emails we exchanged twenty years ago, as well as some from today.”

She emphasized a point written as: ‘The Untold Love Saga of Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck from 2001 to 2010… and continuing…’

However, a friend of Ben’s mentioned: ‘He requested her not to make the documentary as he wished to keep personal matters hidden and due to financial constraints, but she proceeded regardless. He advised her to reduce appearances at red carpets and events, yet she disregarded his advice. Instead, she persisted in taking him along. It was never about him; it was always about her.’

Without a doubt, as far back as May, their body language at the premiere of Jennifer Lopez’s Netflix film The Mother suggested tension. Later on, she disclosed that they had disagreed over her outfit selections, remarking playfully, “He sometimes teases me… he’d say things like, ‘Where’s the rest of your top?'”

‘I’m like, ‘Oh, this one doesn’t have anything else’.’

Unexpectedly, J-Lo decided to postpone her planned summer tour, explaining to fans that she needed time to spend with her kids, relatives, and close companions.

A short while later, Photos emerged showing Ben and his former spouse, Jennifer Garner, out together in Santa Monica, as they escorted their 12-year-old son, Samuel, to a basketball training session.

On the following day, Jennifer Lopez (J-Lo) visited to catch Samuel performing, and she exchanged a seemingly uncomfortable kiss with her spouse. Notably, Ben Affleck (the Batman actor) has been spotted without his wedding band, whereas J-Lo continues to wear hers.

In my perspective, I’d have to admit, that stunning abode in Beverly Hills with its hefty price tag of £53 million wasn’t quite my cup of tea either. Ben, as it turns out, felt the same way about the cost.

According to friends, J-Lo believed that this decision would bring joy to her family, which includes her twins Emme and Max (aged 16) and Ben’s children Violet (19), Fin (15), and Samuel (12). However, it seemed to have the opposite effect.

One confidant noted, “Purchasing such a large house was another clear warning sign,” referring to Ben. “He hadn’t wanted that house due to its exorbitant price tag. The house never felt like home for him, and he still can’t believe he moved into it.”

Instead of desiring a cozy family home where they could age gracefully, she yearned for an extravagant mansion, one that exceeded the value of all other homes, as a symbol of her affluence and marital success. She believed that such opulence would bring happiness to everyone. However, their disagreements over this matter were unrelenting.

Her professional setback, a field she had worked tirelessly to excel in, seemed to have strained relationships as well, following the unsuccessful release of her documentary, a claim supported by a reliable source.

Over time, her audience diminished, fewer people were interested in watching her performances. This situation infuriated her and she expressed her anger towards Ben. Gradually, she came to understand that her popularity was waning, and Ben accused her of bringing it upon herself by being overly visible.

She shared her disappointment about her documentary and album not succeeding with Ben, her husband, since he was the most accessible person to her. He suggested she should retreat, but she chose not to. He wasn’t particularly fond of her new album focusing on him, yet she found it charming.

Reports indicate that the five offspring are eager to maintain contact, even though the turbulent feelings stemming from their parents’ high-profile breakup may persist.

A confidant stated: ‘It’s tough on the children, yet they have matured significantly. Mature enough to recognize that their parents’ relationship wasn’t successful. The kids will manage and remain close. For a brief while, they formed a family, an experience that will forever hold a special place in their hearts.’

At the age of 55, J-Lo finds herself unattached once more, having been through four marriages. Concerned friends speculate that perhaps she may inadvertently be damaging her relationships.

‘She acknowledged her actions had caused irreparable damage and expressed deep regret, yet it was already past repair,’ one remarked. ‘He persisted for several weeks, granting her leniency and even continued wearing the ring as she requested, to keep a distance from the persistent media, but he’s decided to move on.’

As a devoted admirer, I must confess that I’ve uncovered a place truly mine – a humble abode that currently stands vacant. Its deeds bear my name, a fact she’s well aware of. The time has come for us, dear reader, to part ways from this shared past and embark on new beginnings.

Ben, apparently, is giving his estranged wife ‘time to rebrand’.

Friends of the singer say she has changed the way she dresses and the way she presents herself.

In a public setting, I maintain an approachable demeanor, eschewing the airs of a diva. My digital presence radiates warmth and positivity, reflecting my genuine emotions that are as delicate as blooming flowers.

As someone who has had my fair share of heartbreaks, I can empathize with Ben’s feelings. Jennifer was once a mystery to me too, and it wasn’t until later that I realized she kept her life private as a way to maintain an image. When I fell for her, I believed in that image, but I learned the hard way that it was just a facade. I understand Ben’s reluctance to take another chance on someone who has deceived him twice before. It takes time and effort to build trust again, and two strikes are often too many. In the end, it seems like they have both moved on from their relationship.

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