A recently revealed film details a deeply personal message from director Rob Reiner to his son, Nick, about his battles with addiction and the difficulties in their relationship.
Los Angeles police confirmed on Monday that Nick, age 32, caused the deaths of his parents, 78-year-old Rob and 70-year-old Michele Singer.
Actor and director Rob and his wife, Michele, were found dead at their home, a $13.5 million property, with injuries from knives, including cuts to their throats, according to reports.
Records from the LA Sheriff’s Office show that Nick, who has struggled with drug addiction and mental health issues in the past, was arrested Monday morning and charged with federal murder.
In 2015, during the Toronto International Film Festival, LA Times journalist Steven Zeitchik had dinner with Rob and his wife, Michele, along with Nick. They were all there to promote their collaborative film, Being Charlie.
Rob directed a play based on his son Nick’s real-life struggles with heroin addiction and living on the streets.
Journalist Steven spoke with Nick’s family about the project, and the conversation helped him understand the difficult relationship between Nick and his parents.
After the devastating loss, he wrote in The Hollywood Reporter that meeting with the family was deeply upsetting. He noted Nick appeared uneasy discussing the film, while Rob enthusiastically expressed how proud he was of his son.
During dinner, the conversation shifted to a specific line from the film. Rob felt strongly that it should be included, but Nick wasn’t convinced.
Nick Robinson was chosen to play the character of Charlie, who was inspired by Nick himself, and Carey Elwes played David, a character based on Reiner.
The movie, which critics had varying opinions on, shows Charlie feeling angry about how his parents deal with his addiction – they force him to go to rehab repeatedly.
Rob was determined to include a specific line from the movie, spoken by the father, David, to his son, Charlie: ‘I’d rather you be alive and hate me than dead on the streets.’
According to journalist Steven, Nick wasn’t pleased that Rob had pushed to include the line in question.
He recalls the conversation about that specific line, explaining that Rob was insistent on including it. The line captured Rob’s feelings and, at the time, made him feel justified, even though he was now apologizing for those past thoughts and for being so critical of his son.
I glanced at Nick, and he didn’t seem pleased about the line being included in the movie. It felt like it justified the overbearing parenting he disliked and didn’t want to appear to condone.
Steven noted that Nick appeared hesitant about the film’s release, likely because it drew from his personal challenges.
Steven observed that Rob seemed desperately eager for a resolution and reconciliation with his son. He worried that Rob was pushing too hard, trying to force a connection that might not be possible, and attempting to mold his son into someone he wasn’t.
Nick is currently in jail and not eligible for bail, as police believe he caused the deaths of his parents.
Nick’s battle with addiction started young, and he first sought treatment in rehab at just 15 years old.
By age 19, he had gone to rehab 17 times, repeatedly entering treatment only to relapse shortly after.
Even while struggling with addiction, Nick found an outlet in writing. He eventually wrote the screenplay for Being Charlie, a film inspired by his own experiences.
In an interview with PEOPLE, Nick explained that while the film isn’t based on his personal experiences, he visited many of the locations depicted and contributed stories from his own travels.
Nick shared that his real-life experiences matched what was shown on screen, explaining, ‘I experienced homelessness in Maine, New Jersey, and Texas.’
‘I spent nights on the street. I spent weeks on the street. It was not fun.’
He shared that he became homeless because he didn’t want to return to rehab. He explained, ‘If I wanted to handle things my own way and avoid the treatment programs they recommended, I had to live on the streets…’
‘When I was out there, I could’ve died. It’s all luck. You roll the dice and you hope you make it.
I met some amazing people during that time, and it was a completely new experience for me. I’ve been back in L.A. for a while now and have adjusted to being home with my family, but I went through a difficult period for several years.
The movie concludes with Charlie’s father offering an apology for his behavior while Charlie struggled with addiction – a scene the director, Rob Reiner, shared was inspired by a personal experience.
He shared with the L.A. Times that they often ignored their son, Nick, when he said something wasn’t right. They were so focused on the opinions of professionals – people with degrees and experience – that they didn’t prioritize listening to what their son actually needed.
Michele explained that they were heavily swayed by others who constantly told them this person was dishonest and trying to control them, and they readily believed these accusations.
In a post-screening Q&A amid the film’s release, the pair were asked about their relationship now.
Reiner explained that they hadn’t intentionally tried to make the experience emotional or healing, but it unexpectedly became both.
He explained that they had disagreements and faced difficult moments while working to honestly portray their relationship in the film.
To which Nick confessed: ‘Sometimes it would get overwhelming for me.’
Yet Reiner noted that their relationship had changed for the better.
He admitted that by the time they started filming, the movie itself wasn’t the most important thing. Their relationship had become much stronger, and that was what really mattered.
In 2015, when the movie came out, Nick explained that his main goal was to stay sober and avoid homelessness again.
He also thought about how distant he’d been from his father as a child, explaining that they simply didn’t share many of the same hobbies or passions.
Nick remembered that the other person was a big baseball fan, while he preferred basketball. Seeing him confidently express himself – something Nick admired – impressed him. It made Nick feel a connection with him, realizing how knowledgeable he was.
Reiner spoke highly of his son, calling him the emotional center of the movie and describing the project as his most personal work yet.
Rob Reiner directed some of the most popular films from the 1980s and 90s, such as Stand By Me (1987), the legal thriller A Few Good Men (1992), and the romantic comedy When Harry Met Sally (1989).
A representative for the Reiner family announced on Sunday that director Rob Reiner and his wife, Michele, have passed away. The family expressed deep sadness over the loss.
We’re deeply saddened by this unexpected loss and ask for privacy as we cope with this incredibly difficult time.
Their daughter, Romy, who lives nearby, reportedly found the unsettling scene when she went to visit their large, six-bedroom home.
According to TMZ, Reiner’s 28-year-old son—his youngest child—told police they believe a family member should be considered a suspect, describing them as ‘dangerous’.
This heartbreaking news follows Romy’s previous expressions of a strong bond with her brother, Nick, whom she considered her ‘best friend.’ She had also shared that she stood by him while he struggled with drug addiction.
Nick recently returned to live with his parents, according to Deadline. He’d been battling drug addiction and homelessness since his teenage years, and unfortunately, things were getting worse again.
I’ve been following Rob and Michele’s situation closely, and it’s heartbreaking. A family friend told TMZ they were completely desperate about their son’s struggles. Apparently, things came to a head Saturday night – there was a huge fight between him and his dad at Conan O’Brien’s holiday party. It sounds like they were really at the end of their rope.
Other guests overheard the commotion, but brushed it off.
Romy is one of Reiner’s four children. He shares sons Jake and Nick with Michele, and adopted his daughter Tracy with his former wife, Penny Marshall.
Daily Mail have contacted the Reiner’s representative for comment.
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