The taboo reason Bear chose Sunny on The Golden Bachelor: I heard the whispers weeks ago – now it’s time I said something. Poor Janette never stood a chance: AMANDA GOFF

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Well, the secret’s out.

After nine challenging episodes of The Golden Bachelor, Barry Myrden – affectionately known as ‘Bear’ – chose Sunny Long as his final match. She’s known for being bubbly, beautiful, and charming.

Quite an upset, really: the hot favourite all along was Pilates teacher Janette Bendle.

Janette didn’t get the happy ending she expected with Bear. He left her heartbroken and without an engagement ring, and she tearfully admitted she hadn’t seen his decision coming.

They always are. I never am.

I predicted Sunny would win all along, even before Bear made his final choice. She’s a remarkable CEO, a mother of two, and originally from South Korea – she’s 58 years old and incredibly driven.

Sunny let Bear know she was attracted to him. She didn’t announce it publicly – she’s a private person – but she made her feelings clear.

As soon as Sunny mentioned she had a very active sex life, I realized she’d definitely win. It was a done deal, and honestly, I knew it weeks ago.

She hinted at attraction in a subtle and playful way – never being crude, but giving just enough of a signal – and Bear clearly responded. That’s when she knew she had him hooked.

Even though Janette seemed responsible, poised, and attractive, it didn’t change the fact that men are generally more attracted to someone they perceive as sexy rather than practical.

Every. Single Time.

Sunny was no pushover. She was intelligent, perceptive, and understood exactly what Bear hoped to hear.

Everyone says the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but let’s be real – a direct approach is much faster.

Looking back on my past as Samantha X, I learned one thing for sure: men become completely irrational when sex is involved. They just can’t control themselves.

In my book, Hooked, I explained that men often behave playfully when it comes to sex and attraction, making it difficult to truly get upset with them.

Men often demonstrate strong self-control in many areas of life, but when it comes to sexual attraction, they frequently lose that control.

I understand what motivates men, regardless of age – even someone like Bear. They don’t want comfort or to slow down; they crave adventure, intimacy, and reassurance of their vitality.

I absolutely love Sunny! She really lives up to her name – she’s adorable, always laughing, incredibly intelligent, and doing so well in life. She has endless energy, always bouncing around, and she definitely hinted that things would be just as lively between the sheets with Bear.

Sunny decided to figure out if she and Bear were sexually compatible during their last dinner party. Bear was incredibly excited and overwhelmed with joy.

She said she asked all the questions she needed to, wanting to get to know him thoroughly. She explained, ‘I wanted to see if we had a connection, so I even asked him about his views on sex.’

Ultimately, Bear chose her, and it was driven by pure attraction. That’s not necessarily a bad thing, but let’s be honest, it was the deciding factor.

Sunny genuinely enjoys sex, and she wasn’t pretending for Bear’s sake. In an interview with Refinery29, she emphasized that there’s no reason to be ashamed or avoid intimacy simply because of age – even after turning 50.

Many people have fulfilling sex lives, and it’s important to feel comfortable talking about it openly. This is especially true for older women, as society often makes it a taboo subject. Age doesn’t diminish a person’s sexuality or overall enjoyment of life – life continues to be vibrant and full in your 50s, 60s, and beyond.

So, will it last? A look in the rearview tells us it could go either way.

Do you remember Richie Strahan’s season of The Bachelor in 2016? Everyone thought he’d end up with Nikki, who seemed like a perfect match. But surprisingly, he chose Alex, a single mother who was a bit of a wildcard.

Did that work out? It did not.

Then again, leaving the sexy one heartbroken isn’t always the right path either.

Consider Dr. Matt Agnew, the astrophysicist with glasses, who sought a meaningful connection and found it with Chelsie, a genuinely kind chemist.

He notably ignored Abbie Chatfield, who, then as now, used her attractiveness in a very obvious way.

Despite all the hope, Matt and Chelsie’s relationship didn’t last, ending after just a few months. It seems like no matter what you do, it’s impossible to win.

Men often say they’re looking for a wife who is kind, practical, and reliable. While many do marry women with those qualities, they frequently find themselves attracted to those who are exciting, intriguing, and offer a strong connection.

As men get older, they often find themselves attracted to women who help them feel young at heart. This doesn’t necessarily mean a younger woman; it’s more about a revitalizing connection.

And Sunny the sparkplug ticked all the boxes for a randy silver fox like Bear.

The truth is, women now have the freedom to express themselves through fashion, build careers, and pursue their own goals. However, when it comes to what attracts men, many still prefer a traditionally feminine and glamorous style – and Sunny naturally embodied that quality.

She was intelligent and accomplished, but importantly, she was open about her desire for intimacy. He was, after all, only human.

Let me be clear: I’m not denying Janette was attractive. She was truly beautiful and had a sensual quality, but she also kept people at a distance. She presented as someone who wouldn’t be easily won over, and surprisingly, that isn’t always what men are looking for.

Oh my gosh, Sunny… she just has this thing about her, you know? It’s like she doesn’t even try to be alluring, but all the guys are totally captivated. Honestly, it’s a little intimidating as a woman – she just exudes this confidence and… magnetism that’s almost unreal. I can’t look away!

Honestly, even her final kiss with him was perfect. It was playful – she lifted her leg just a little, a subtle touch against his thigh – but still classy enough for everyone to see. It wasn’t over the top, just…perfectly suggestive, you know? As a fan, I really appreciated that balance.

If Janette whispered comfort, Sunny shouted chemistry. And let’s be real -chemistry wins.

That’s why Sunny is the one with the ring – Janette was completely surprised.

As far as I’m aware, they are still together after dating in secret for seven months.

Bear has revealed he was always the frontrunner, and I completely believe him. I know the reason why.

I’m not being cynical when I say their relationship was based on strong physical attraction. Honestly, I think it’s lovely to see two people over 50 still focused on passion and desire.

With any luck, my own sixties will be half as fun.

Let’s be real – the upset over Bear choosing Sunny instead of Janette is unnecessary. Anyone who casually watched the show can easily see why he made that choice.

He probably exaggerated how difficult his final choice was, but I suspect he wasn’t genuinely conflicted. Honestly, I believe it was an easy decision for him.

The moment sex entered the equation, the game was over.

Despite how TV portrays him, Bear is ultimately just a regular man – a quiet Canadian widower who deeply cares for his sons.

And what do men do? They choose the sexy pocket rocket, every time.

So here’s to Bear and Sunny – may the spark last long after the cameras stop rolling.

 

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