Adam Peaty and Holly Ramsay are facing accusations of ‘body shaming’ from his family, who claim his mother was excluded from their wedding because of her appearance and not fitting their desired aesthetic.
The Olympic swimming champion, age 30, and his 27-year-old fiancée are planning a Christmas wedding at Bath Abbey. However, a long-standing family disagreement means that currently, only one of the groom’s family members is expected to be there.
After criticism that Adam’s mother, Caroline, doesn’t seem to connect with the Ramsays, the Peatys have claimed the Ramsays are judging her appearance and age.
They also criticized him for seemingly going against his Christian faith by excluding his family from the wedding, and claimed Adam even asked his mother for alternative outfit choices because they disliked her initial selections.
According to someone familiar with the Ramsays, the issues between the families stem from significant, ongoing problems within the Peaty family itself.
According to a source close to the situation, Holly and Adam have received serious threats of violence, and the police are now investigating.
Adam was visibly upset when he returned to the UK on Wednesday and was met by armed police. This followed threats he received while celebrating his bachelor party in Budapest, Hungary.
Adam’s family reacted angrily online after learning why they were uninvited to the wedding, according to someone familiar with the situation.
According to a source who attended the party and spoke with The Mail’s Katie Hind, the photograph clearly shows a particular kind of person was present.
Everyone blends together, and you find yourself wondering if Caroline seemed a little different. She’s just a regular person, not someone famous. When you see Holly’s Instagram, everything looks carefully arranged, overly glamorous, and quite flashy. That’s not at all like Caroline.
You can find more details about why Holly and Adam didn’t allow Adam’s mother to attend their wedding or pre-wedding celebrations in this Mail+ article.
After the comments came to light, Adam’s family responded on social media, accusing the commenter of body shaming.
Adam’s aunt, Louise Williams, questioned how Adam and Holly could claim Caroline wasn’t invited because of her appearance. She found the explanation offensive.
Seriously? Criticizing someone’s appearance is never okay, especially when it’s a 60-year-old woman. That’s completely unacceptable and amounts to body shaming!
She continued, ‘Yes, Adam identifies as a born-again Christian, but his actions don’t seem to reflect Christian values. For example, he hasn’t shown respect for his parents or offered forgiveness.’
According to Louise McCallum, a source familiar with the events, the individual was attempting to change his mother’s clothes because she was wearing something they didn’t like. McCallum suggested he seemed to have lost touch with his values and should perhaps revisit the religious texts he often quotes.
The family was criticized for sharing their private conflicts publicly. One person commented that their behavior was inappropriate and explained it as the reason they weren’t invited to the wedding.
Louise Williams wrote: ‘Decorum? What century are we in?’
Adam and Holly’s wedding invitations should have marked a joyful occasion, but Adam’s family was secretly worried about the expense of traveling to the fancy wedding in Bath. They feared Adam would be embarrassed by their more modest backgrounds if they attended.
The family’s worries surfaced during a difficult dispute between Adam and his mother. His working-class relatives criticized him, claiming he’d been changed by the wealth and celebrity of the Ramsay family.
People close to Adam have said they won’t be able to come to his wedding due to financial hardship, and they’ve also criticized him for how he’s been treating his mother, Caroline.
News came out on Monday that Adam had disinvited Caroline from the wedding. This followed a disagreement sparked when Holly, the bride, didn’t include Caroline, her future mother-in-law, in her hen party at the exclusive Soho Farmhouse, which was attended by celebrities like Victoria Beckham.
Caroline’s family is devastated and has publicly criticized Adam. Her sister stated that his words to his mother were incredibly hurtful and shocking.
Adam reportedly became attracted to Holly because of her wealth and celebrity, and now regrets feeling embarrassed about his family, who worked hard and spent a lot of money on his swimming lessons when he was a child.
According to a family insider, the relationship with his mother deteriorated over time. They explained this week that Adam feels his current partner’s family is superior to his own.
Honestly, I’m a big fan of the Peatys, and I was really surprised to hear them speak out about their wedding plans. They received a ‘save the date’ notice, and it seems like everything is geared towards really expensive country house venues. They’ve been really open about the fact that they’re on Universal Credit, and rightly so, they just can’t afford that kind of extravagance! It’s good they’re being realistic about what’s possible.
‘Adam has been changed by money, fame and fortune. He seems to have forgotten where he came from.’
Adam’s mother was a nursery manager and his father a supermarket caretaker.
As a lifestyle expert, I’m thrilled to share that Adam and Holly are starting their forever at the stunning Bath Abbey! Afterwards, they’re whisking their guests away to the beautiful Kin House, a gorgeous country estate, for what I’m sure will be a truly lavish celebration.
Kin House is located near the pretty town of Chippenham, a 40-minute drive from the centre of Bath.
This popular wedding venue can host up to 200 guests and offers on-site lodging with 12 bedrooms that sleep up to 24 people.
As a wedding planner, I often get asked about costs, and for a full weekend celebration, you’re generally looking at around £32,750 as a starting point – we always tailor the menus to each couple, of course! One thing to factor in is travel; if your guests are coming from somewhere like the East Midlands, a return train ticket to Bath will likely be around £100 per person.
With only 12 rooms available, it’s unlikely his entire immediate family could be accommodated if they were to visit the country house.
Okay, so he has twelve bedrooms at the place, which is amazing, but if his whole family needs a place to stay, it might not be enough. Apparently, there are other super fancy hotels nearby, like Babington House, but they’re seriously expensive. Honestly, anything to keep him and his family comfortable, right?
This beautiful property is part of the Soho House collection, the same group that hosted Holly’s bachelorette party at their private Farmhouse location in the Cotswolds.
Rooms there start at £300 a night.
Adam’s aunt has revealed that he reportedly said extremely hurtful things to his mother and lashed out at a group of people he considers bullies in a series of angry posts on Tuesday.
Adam’s aunt, Louise Williams, has been sharing her thoughts on the family conflict online. On Tuesday, she responded to a commenter who criticized her for publicly discussing their personal issues on social media.
She angrily accused Adam of saying incredibly hurtful things to her, and then emphasized the importance of family love and loyalty, making the situation even more painful.
Louise responded to @nikkkith on Threads, calling them a “bootlicker” and telling them to leave. She explained that while others may prioritize fame and wealth, her family and friends value love, friendship, loyalty, and mutual support.
I’ve always been against unfairness, and I will continue to challenge it, no matter who is involved. I understand all perspectives, unlike you, and I’ve witnessed truly awful things – the heartbreaking words a son can say to his mother.
Unless you can honestly say you’ve experienced the same things I have, I suggest you reconsider your position. That being said, I do respect your right to share your thoughts, even if I strongly disagree with them, as I firmly believe in freedom of speech.
I don’t appreciate people jumping to conclusions without knowing all the facts. I doubt Holly or Adam would be pleased to hear you insult his mother or criticize me, so please, just leave us alone.
Louise recently suggested on Threads that Adam and Holly were acting like bullies. She shared a puzzling message explaining that a group of bullies is often made up of a few actual bullies and many people who support them just to get ahead, and the bullies can’t operate without those supporters.
Swimming star Adam is rumored to be embarrassed by his family’s background after becoming engaged to Holly, who is wealthy and famous. He apparently now prioritizes her status and fortune.
The couple has decided not to invite his mother, Caroline, to their wedding, and family members believe this stems from him becoming overly infatuated with someone else.
Someone close to Caroline, age 59, has shared her perspective for the first time, revealing her pain and belief that her son feels she doesn’t fit in with the Ramsay family’s social circle.
Sources told the Daily Mail that Adam has become quite different since starting a relationship with Holly. Because she moves in celebrity circles – a world his parents aren’t part of – his ego has grown considerably. They say he’s no longer the down-to-earth, friendly person everyone used to know.
Adam’s behavior has changed dramatically, and he’s become unkind, even bullying at times. He’s been really hurtful to his mother and is now distancing himself from her, which is causing her a lot of worry and distress. She’s heartbroken and struggling to understand what’s happening.
‘We think Holly has triggered all this, and her parents – the power of the rich and famous.’
I’ve always been so inspired by the incredible bond this athlete had with his mother. She was his rock, getting up at the crack of dawn – 4am, I heard! – to drive him to competitions all over the UK as he was building his swimming career. It’s amazing to think about, considering he eventually won three Olympic gold medals. She truly sacrificed so much to help him achieve his dreams, and I always admired that dedication.
However, things reportedly shifted once he began dating, and later became engaged to, Holly, a well-known media personality. Meeting her father, celebrity chef Gordon Ramsay, and being introduced to their world of famous friends, like the Beckhams, apparently led to a change in his behavior.
According to a source, Caroline isn’t considered a good match for his family because she doesn’t seem to fit their glamorous, public lifestyle – she doesn’t share their image or style.
On Monday, The Daily Mail reported that Caroline, who has fibromyalgia, was very upset after not being invited to Holly’s bachelorette party last weekend at the popular Soho Farmhouse.
While Holly celebrated her upcoming wedding with her mother, sisters, and Victoria Beckham – and shared photos on Instagram – she left Adam’s five-year-old son, George, in the care of a babysitter at their home in Uttoxeter, Staffordshire.
Caroline’s distress came to light when her sister, Louise Williams, publicly criticized influencer Holly online. Louise accused Holly of being unkind and creating conflict after Holly excluded Caroline’s future mother-in-law – a woman who had warmly welcomed her into her life.
Louise shared on Instagram that Caroline was deeply hurt by not being invited to the hen party, especially because Holly’s father, Gordon, was asked to attend Adam’s stag do. Louise believes this will take a very long time for her sister to recover from, if she ever does.
According to a source, the swimmer deeply upset his mother after his aunt shared a post about the situation. He contacted her to say she wasn’t welcome at his wedding and that she would no longer have a relationship with his son, George, or any future grandchildren.
As the row deepened, Adam is even said to have threatened to disown his family.
Caroline shared her feelings on Instagram, posting, ‘Sometimes you cry because your heart is so broken, words just aren’t enough.’
Adam first met social media personality Holly in October 2021 while he was competing on Strictly Come Dancing. Her sister, Tilly, age 24, was also a contestant on the show. Tilly is known for hosting the children’s cooking program, Matilda and the Ramsay Bunch.
He ended his three-year relationship with Eirianedd Munro, the mother of his son George, in August 2022. He announced the split on Instagram, expressing his regret for hurting both her and their son.
Eirianedd and her partner began dating in 2019 after they met at Loughborough University, and she soon became pregnant.
People noticed a strong connection between Adam and his dance partner, Katya Jones, while on the show, especially during their passionate tango performance to Fleetwood Mac’s “Tango in the Night” in week four.
Adam and Holly started dating in May 2023 and publicly confirmed their romance the next month with a romantic getaway to Rome. They shared photos and videos from their trip with their fans on Instagram.
It also came to light that Adam had visited her family’s £5 million vacation home in Rock, Cornwall.
Adam and his partner began dating soon after he stopped competitive swimming. He had been struggling with depression and alcoholism and had previously said he didn’t want to swim anymore, feeling emotionally damaged by the pressure of the sport.
He resumed training, and said his new relationship with Holly, spending time with his son, his faith, and a nudge from his coach – who simply encouraged him to start paddling again – were all key factors in his decision.
Although he rediscovered his passion and success in swimming by April of last year – winning the British men’s breaststroke title with his fastest time in two years – his personal life, specifically his relationship with his family, was facing difficulties.
As someone who often advises on family dynamics, I’ve been hearing about a really sad situation with my client, Adam. Apparently, his relationship with his mother has been strained over time, and a big part of it stems from him feeling a disconnect between his original family and the one he’s building now. It’s a tough spot to be in – feeling like you’ve outgrown where you came from, but it’s causing a real rift.
She wears a size 20, and while some people might criticize her appearance, she doesn’t fit the typical image of the very thin attendees at the wedding.
Caroline is dealing with fibromyalgia, a condition that causes widespread pain, and this has sometimes led to weight gain.
Adam cruelly told her that her health problems weren’t real and that she could improve simply by returning to work, exercising, and eating better. He’s been incredibly unkind, even resorting to awful insults – he called her a terrible mother and said deeply offensive things. It’s especially hurtful considering she dedicated her life to supporting his ambitions.
According to a source, Adam’s parents made significant sacrifices for him, even going into debt to support his pursuit of an Olympic medal.
They added: ‘Caroline is devastated by the rift and doesn’t know what she has done wrong.
Oh my god, you won’t BELIEVE this. Adam and his parents, Mark and… well, his mum, they’re barely speaking right now. It’s awful! And the worst part? She’s not coming to the wedding! Can you imagine? It’s absolutely heartbreaking, honestly. I’m so worried for him, this is a disaster!
She was eager to help and had volunteered to create personalized place cards, since she’s very crafty, but she was informed her assistance wasn’t required.
Over time, their relationship has become difficult, marked by arguments and a lot of stress. Caroline is devastated and deeply saddened that things have fallen apart.
It’s really sad to hear that Caroline and Mark’s relationship fell apart, especially since they always prioritized Adam’s career and were there for him through everything.
From what I’ve observed, it seems like Adam’s relationship with his family shifted once things got serious with Holly. It’s creating some distance, and honestly, I’m getting the sense that financial matters might be playing a role in the tension. It’s a common issue – when new relationships develop, and especially when finances come into play, family dynamics can definitely change.
Adam’s family comes from a working-class background and they’re proud of it. This is quite different from the Ramsay family, and some family members feel Adam seems embarrassed by his roots.
Adam and Holly Ramsay are planning a Christmas wedding at Bath Abbey. Among the guests will be Sir David Beckham and his wife, a fashion designer, who have been close friends with the Ramsays for years.
According to a family insider, Bethany is now the only member of Adam’s family expected to attend the wedding, as the hotel costs are too high for the rest of them.
Bethany was the only family member to attend Holly’s bridal shower, which was held at Soho Farmhouse, a beautiful estate covering 100 acres in the Oxfordshire countryside.
Holly and Adam have been sharing their relationship online through Instagram, giving fans a glimpse into their glamorous life. This includes photos from their fancy vacations, appearances at events like Wimbledon, and updates on Adam’s success as a swimmer.
Yesterday, the Daily Mail reported that a post on his mother’s Instagram, where she wrote about being heartbroken, received many supportive comments from friends. One friend wrote, ‘Caroline, don’t let anyone get you down. Adam and the Ramsays aren’t worth it.’
Someone else commented, pointing out that despite both individuals claiming to support mental health, their actions didn’t seem very considerate of others’ well-being.
The comment alluded to Adam’s previously shared mental health challenges and Holly’s experiences with PTSD, anxiety, and depression, which she has openly discussed following two sexual assaults at age 18.
In a 2021 episode of her podcast, 21 & Over, she shared that she had been going to therapy as often as three times a week, spent three months in a mental health facility, and stopped drinking alcohol.
Caroline expanded on a previous Instagram comment with a new post late last night. She wrote: ‘If you truly love someone, you shield them from hurt, rather than being the one who causes it.’
She shared a sad post, writing, ‘The people I love the most also cause me the most pain,’ and included a crying emoji.
As a lifestyle expert, I’ve seen so many supportive communities blossom online, and I was really touched by a recent comment I read. Someone wrote to a woman who’d shared her story, saying they’d never forget the sacrifices she made to help her partner succeed. It was especially sweet because the commenter was also a ‘swim mom’ – someone who understands the dedication and commitment involved in supporting a swimmer! It’s a beautiful reminder that even small gestures of recognition can mean the world, and that shared experiences create such strong bonds.
Someone else shared their support, saying they were sending hugs and understood the pain. They explained they’ve been separated from their own daughter and son-in-law for seven months and feel it’s a sadly common situation these days.
Throughout Adam’s swimming career, his mother was his biggest cheerleader. She famously woke up at 4 a.m. to drive him the 40-minute trip to practice with the City of Derby swimming club when he was growing up.
For over three years, she maintained a difficult schedule. She would wait with him for as long as two hours before taking him home, then heading to her job as a nursery manager. Meanwhile, her husband, Adam’s father Mark, worked as a caretaker at a Lidl supermarket.
Adam first won Olympic gold in the 100-meter breaststroke in 2016. He then won the same event again at the 2020 Tokyo Olympics, which were delayed until 2021 because of the Covid-19 pandemic. He also earned a gold medal as part of the mixed relay team in Tokyo.
He dramatically returned to Olympic competition in Paris last year, winning a silver medal in the breaststroke. He narrowly missed the gold, finishing just 0.02 seconds behind the winner.
Last Friday, Holly shared photos on Instagram of herself, her friends, and family arriving at Soho Farmhouse for her chic bachelorette party.
She looked beautiful in a white outfit and announced to her 400,000 followers that her bachelorette weekend had begun, expressing her love for her sisters and mother.
One photo showed her in a long wool coat, a long-sleeved shirt, and wide-leg jeans, paired with cream sneakers and a sweet white bow in her hair. Another picture captured her walking hand-in-hand with Tana.
Another photo revealed a lovely table setup with a custom champagne bottle and mugs marked ‘Bride’ and ‘Team Bride’.
Later photos from the weekend revealed Holly wearing a short white dress, heels, and a bridal headpiece. Some pictures also showed Holly and her guests wearing face masks featuring Adam Peaty’s image.
She shared a photo of herself with her guests, including Victoria Beckham, and wrote, ‘My girls gave me the best weekend, my heart is so full,’ along with a heart emoji.
Last September, Holly and Adam announced their engagement with heartwarming posts on Instagram. The swimmer shared that he appreciated Holly’s support during difficult periods in his life.
I’ve noticed something truly beautiful in my friend’s journey. She really connected with the amazing community I’ve found through my faith, and wholeheartedly joined my church. It was wonderful to see her embrace it so naturally and without hesitation.
Holly expressed her gratitude, saying she felt deeply loved, understood, and happier than she’d ever been. She shared her love and excitement about becoming his wife.
After Adam shared that faith helped him overcome addiction, he and his partner supported each other online by adding relevant bible verses to their posts.
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