Louise Thompson breaks down in tears over fears son Leo, three, is lonely without siblings –  after she vowed ‘never to carry another child’ following near-fatal labour and devastating miscarriage

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Louise Thompson cried tearfully due to concern that her son Leo might feel lonely as he doesn’t have any siblings, even though she had previously decided not to have more children.

Originally a cast member of Made In Chelsea, now aged 35, came perilously close to death during childbirth and endured a month in intensive care due to ‘significant complications.’ Subsequent years saw frequent hospital visits before she experienced a heartbreaking miscarriage.

On their “He Said She Said” podcast, Louise wept when she observed fiancé Ryan Libbey’s three-year-old son, Leo, apparently talking to someone unseen by her, which she believed was a figment of his imagination.

With tears in her eyes, she reminisced about the time when she saw Leo leaning against a wall on his bicycle, engaged in what seemed like a conversation with an invisible companion. This sight was so touching that it deeply endearing him to her.

Another possibility for its emotional impact might be that for a moment I wondered, ‘Could this be because he doesn’t have any brothers or sisters?’

In the attempt to comfort a worried Louise who was experiencing emotions as a first-time mom, she confided her concerns about Leo’s behavior seeming unusual. Later on, a fan reached out to console her, explaining that a child having an imaginary friend is often a sign of high intelligence.

She messaged, saying a follower claimed that having an imaginary friend as a child might indicate a sign of high intellect.

Her actions were incredibly thoughtful, considering the anxiety I often feel as a new mother, constantly concerned as each developmental milestone approaches, knowing that we haven’t been able to expand our family by giving Leo a brother or sister.

Those who grow up as only children are known for being intelligent, having excellent interpersonal skills across all age groups, and showing strong independent thinking abilities.

I used to have an imaginary friend named Katie, and I’m deeply fond of her. Additionally, I have a real sister whom I cherish immensely. However, in a more personal way, I could say that I have a grown daughter who is remarkable and grounded, and I’m incredibly proud of her.

Regarding her intentions to expand her family at some point, Louise has discussed the challenges involved and openly stated that she will not be able to bear another child in the future.

Instead of stating it directly, she shared with Grazia that for quite some time, the sight of babies and related announcements such as pregnancy or baby pictures would greatly affect her emotionally.

The challenging aspect here is that traditional methods don’t seem applicable because I can’t conceive another child. However, I had planned to preserve my eggs and embryos last year, but I found myself undergoing stoma surgery for an extended period and later recovering from it when I started to feel better.

I somewhat feel as though I’ve fallen behind, yet it’s hard for me to criticize myself since there didn’t seem to be a suitable moment for me to regain my footing earlier.

Louise endured an agonising labour that culminated in an emergency caesarean.

In the throes of my unyielding fandom, I can still vividly recall that harrowing ordeal when they battled to halt a relentless bleed for an excruciating three hours straight. During this grueling stretch, it was revealed that she had shed an alarming amount – approximately three and a half liters – of her precious life force, exceeding three-quarters of her bodily volume. It wasn’t until later that we discovered the heart-wrenching cause: her womb had tragically torn apart.

As a die-hard fanatic, I can’t help but share my heartfelt journey with you all. After five triumphant days in the hospital, filled with hope and anticipation, we – mother and son – were finally released. The joy was palpable, like the promise of a beautiful sunrise after a stormy night. However, our celebration was short-lived as fate had other plans. Two days later, in the comfort of our home, my dear mother, Louise, began to bleed once more. It was a shocking turn of events that left us all stunned and worried. But as they say, strength lies within adversity, and we continue to stand strong in the face of this new challenge.

In this instance, it took a total of four hours to control the bleeding, resulting in her losing approximately five liters of blood, necessitating multiple blood transfusions.

Following the incident, she experienced intense post-traumatic stress, making it difficult for her even to glance at Leo, and nearly impossible to interact with him. Desperate, she pleaded with her partner Ryan Libbey for a solution that would alleviate her suffering, asking for something akin to an end to her distress.

In April, Louise disclosed that she endured a heartbreaking miscarriage the previous year. She also shared this experience in her recently published book titled “Lucky: Learning to live again,” as well as through her Daily Mail column.

In a heartfelt post from me, your lifestyle guru, I couldn’t help but share the delightful news that I discovered back in January – a beautiful pregnancy! Some may find this surprising as I recently unveiled a picture of a positive test. However, to clarify, the snapshot is actually from my past, taken before I embarked on a flight last month. Life has a way of adding unexpected layers, and this revelation certainly does just that!

As a die-hard enthusiast bursting with excitement, I’ve kept this secret close to my heart, revealing it only to a select few. However, with the release of my magnum opus, I can no longer contain my eagerness! The cat is out of the bag, and I find it more open and honest to discuss this passion here, rather than dealing with whispered doubts in private circles.

As a dedicated writer, I frequently find penning my thoughts and ideas more comfortable compared to verbal expression. This act of committing words to paper serves as a means for me to sort through and comprehend them better. Sharing these reflections brings about a sense of liberation, making the process all the more rewarding.

In the last three years, there have been numerous events, as we’re all aware, that seem to have transpired at an incredibly fast pace. This period feels exceptionally packed and intense in terms of personal experiences for me.

‘According to what my life coach frequently mentions, I’ve enrolled in a “quick study program.” Living life at full speed. My time on Earth thus far hasn’t been lacking in excitement or adventure.’

In looking back at the challenging past few years, she commented: “Constantly (in fact, always), I find myself too preoccupied or lacking the space to contemplate the hardships my body has endured. I appreciate working with my coach as she encourages me to focus on the future. Our conversations encompass exciting ventures, work, relationships, and even the everyday tasks that contribute to the rollercoaster ride we refer to as life.

I’ve been absent from therapy sessions for more than a year, as I believed I had resolved all the issues I sought help for.

I haven’t had to reflect on the past, but six months ago I needed another surgery, and more recently, I’ve been in the hospital discussing future surgical plans, which has made me think about everything again.

The news has hit me unexpectedly hard, causing me to exhibit unusual evasive actions, as well as allowing trivial matters to intrude upon my attention. Moreover, I’ve been struggling significantly with maintaining a clear focus.

I’ve experienced moments of confusion about the past and present, and I’ve occasionally encountered strange recollections. Also, I’ve shed a few tears almost daily, which seems unusual (despite my nickname ‘Tears Thompson’) given how content I usually am.

Admittedly, I feel that additional reflection or support might be beneficial as I haven’t sought counsel from a therapist post-stoma surgery.

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2025-08-30 22:34