Safiyya Vorajee reveals how her late daughter Azaylia who died from a rare form of leukemia at eight months old may have saved a stranger’s life

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Safiyya Vorajee recently posted a heartening note about how she’s been able to assist others due to sharing information on the health issue that took her baby girl’s life.

In April 2021, Azaylia sadly passed away at her residence in Warwickshire due to an uncommon and aggressive type of childhood cancer known as acute myeloid leukemia (AML), when she was eight months old.

Following Safiyya’s heartbreaking death, at the age of 37, she has devoted her efforts towards increasing public understanding about the disease and working tirelessly to support research aimed at finding a cure for AML.

Recently, Safiyya discussed the indicators and symptoms of the disease on a podcast. Her guidance could potentially have been life-saving for one of her followers.

Following Safiyya’s description of the moment she realized that baby Azaylia, co-welcomed by ex Ashley Cain, showed signs of being ill, it sparked a recognition in her of her own symptoms as well.

The concerned fan’s message reads: “I’ve been noticing frequent bruises on my legs. At first, I thought it was due to my hectic five-year-old and work in childcare. However, your recent mention of noticing a lump under Azaylia’s bruise has piqued my curiosity.

As a die-hard fan, hearing your insight really struck a chord with me. When similar symptoms appeared in my own life, I couldn’t help but be reminded of the discussion we had. By Monday, I was already at the lab getting tested, and by Wednesday, the diagnosis came back – Acute Myeloid Leukemia (AML). It’s a tough road ahead, but your wisdom has been my guiding light through this unexpected journey.

I’m astonished! I’m genuinely scared about what lies ahead, yet I felt compelled to express my gratitude. I wouldn’t have been so worried if I hadn’t received your message.

Upon reviewing my messages, Safiyya noted that she often makes an effort to respond but recently, while checking her comments section on YouTube, she came across a message from one of her followers.

…and here’s another way to put it: “I was taken aback when I read this, realizing that by sharing Azaylia’s story on these podcasts and using my voice for those who can’t be heard has such a profound impact. It makes me understand the importance of continuing to share my own experiences.

“I’ve decided to disclose all these indicators to aid others, as she might not have been aware otherwise. I wish her well, both in my thoughts and prayers. Let’s move forward, buddy.”

By using more common and conversational language, this paraphrase aims to make the sentence easier for a wider audience to understand while maintaining the original’s intended meaning.

In her caption, she mentioned that she received a message which unexpectedly caught her attention. She’s been using this platform to share her baby Azaylia’s story with the aim of raising awareness. This statement serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of such endeavors.

Appearing as merely a ‘bruise’, it could occasionally signal something more serious. Always remember, when you sense discomfort or uncertainty about your condition, it’s advisable to consult with a healthcare professional.

For those facing health challenges, or for those who’ve experienced the loss of a loved one, understand that your journey touches my heart deeply. Rest assured, you are in my thoughts and my hopes for peace and healing.

‘You are brave, you are strong, and I walk this path beside you. Raising awareness saves lives.’

The woman, whom Safiyya had been discussing earlier, subsequently expressed gratitude in a comment on the post, having been mentioned by Safiyya for sharing Azaylia’s story.

The message implied: ‘I was the one who sent that message. If you hadn’t spread awareness about Azaylia or kept discussing her, I might not have sought medical attention because my symptoms were quite subtle.’

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The message suggested: ‘It was me who sent that message. Had it not been for your sharing of Azaylia’s story and ongoing conversation about her, I wouldn’t have consulted a doctor as the symptoms I had were very unobtrusive.’

Sadly, five years ago, during my pregnancy, I was diagnosed with breast cancer. Remarkably, I managed to survive those difficult times and enjoy five cancer-free years with my wonderful family. We also made a significant life change by moving from the United Kingdom to Australia.

Receiving a diagnosis of AML came as an unexpected blow, and it appears that this may have been due to the chemotherapy treatment for breast cancer earlier, making it seem almost unfair or ironic.

Given the rapid progression of AML that I now understand, your intervention has undoubtedly been a lifesaver for me. I’m genuinely petrified about embarking on this journey, but with Azaylia’s tenacious fight in mind, it seems unfathomable not to attempt it.

Azaylia received a diagnosis of acute myeloid leukemia and developed tumors in her lungs, stomach, and kidneys.

Unfortunately, she underwent multiple sessions of chemotherapy and a bone marrow transplant at Birmingham Children’s Hospital, however, she passed away on April 24th.

Safiyya mentioned that she and the previous contestant on Ex On The Beach, Ashley, both faced challenges coping with their sorrow. Unfortunately, his heavy drinking led to their separation.

In an episode of the “We Need To Talk” podcast featuring Paul C. Brunson, she expressed that she had patiently allowed time for him to work through his grief, but eventually found it too overwhelming for her to continue.

Safiyya expressed: ‘Let’s journey side by side, but he seemed to encase himself in a shield, and the emotions and agony he was experiencing, prevented him from finding his way through.’

‘I kind of waited for him but he ended up drinking quite a lot and going down that road. 

‘I’m not someone who really drinks and I needed him but he needed to be by himself. 

‘There is no right and wrong with grief.’

Back in our heart-to-heart chats, the fabulous Safiyya shared that she offered Ashley a three-month break from booze when we ignited our romantic spark. I’m all in for her journey, cheering her on every step of the way!

In my scene, I was gracing various clubs and spinning beats, but my significant other, Safiyya, wisely suggested that our relationship could thrive only if I returned home post-event, rather than extending my nights with late-hour parties.

She clarified that she instructed him to introduce her to the man she desired, and for a period of 90 days, she evaluated their relationship. This involved reducing social activities and parties, as previously they would continue partying after work. In simpler terms, she asked to meet the person she wanted, gave him a 90-day trial, and asked him to cut back on going out and partying so that he could focus more on work and returning home instead.

I asked him to demonstrate, but it’s okay if he doesn’t want to. Regardless, he aced the test.”

This version maintains the same meaning and conveys a similar tone while using more natural and conversational language.

Daily Mail contacted Ashley’s representatives for comment at the time.

In another instance, Safiyya found herself tearful as she shared details of a former partner who subjected her to physical abuse, damaging her vehicle, isolating her from her dearest friends and relatives.

In my journey as a lifestyle expert, I’ve learned that some relationships can take you by surprise, even those you least expect. For instance, when I was in my twenties, I found myself entangled in a domestic relationship – an unexpected turn of events given my self-perceived strength. However, before Ashley, there was another mystery partner who I shared moments with prior to this experience, but I’ve chosen not to disclose their identity. The lessons learned from these relationships have undoubtedly shaped my perspective on love and life.

In the throes of a longing heart, I found myself yearning for companionship. Despite thriving in my career and work, I couldn’t shake off an emptiness that had crept into my life. Love bombing, as it were, seemed to offer a solution to fill this void, a partner who would complete me.

It felt as though he planned to treat me to expensive hotels, meals, shopping sprees, vacations, and so on. Initially, I agreed, but the expectations came gradually. I remember thinking, “I assumed we were on the same page regarding my attire.” Over time, his comments subtly eroded my self-confidence, making me question my actions, and I felt myself adapting to fit his mold instead of being myself.

Reflecting on a harrowing experience, Safiyya shared: “While driving in the car, I can’t clearly recall the argument we were having, but suddenly, he struck me right across the face.

I pulled over, got myself out of the car, then jumped into the driver’s seat. He left me there and drove off with my car. I had to borrow someone’s phone to call my mom to come pick me up and take me home.

My mom had strongly advised against my return, but I disregarded her advice and went back. I couldn’t help but feel responsible for my decision and thought it was irrational. My mom put forth great efforts to deter me, yet I persisted. He expressed deep regret for his actions, which were out of character, and swore his love for me abundantly. I remained there for a period of four years.

Paul asked if the abuse happened again and without hesitation she replied ‘repeatedly’. 

If you have been affected by this story please contact Samaritans on 116 123; Alcohol Anonymous on 0800 917 7650 / help@aamail.org; The Lullaby Trust on: 0808 802 6868 / support@lullabytrust.org.uk

If you have been affected by this story please contact The Lullaby Trust on: 0808 802 6868 / support@lullabytrust.org.uk

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2025-08-19 11:09