Love Island’s Dejon Noel-Williams defiantly hits back at being branded a ‘narcissist’ – revealing he wanted to QUIT the show with girlfriend Megan Moore after feeling ‘lost’ and ‘confused’

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On the contrary, Love Island participant Dejon Noel-Williams has boldly refuted accusations of being a narcissist, instead emphasizing that he possesses a compassionate and empathetic nature following scrutiny of his personality during the ITV2 program.

The ex-semi-pro soccer player, aged 26, disclosed the magnitude of the criticism he received online following his peers’ decision to eliminate him and his partner Megan Moore (also 25) from the villa, a move made only a few days before the final on Monday night.

In a initial conversation with The Daily Mail, Dejon shared that he’s been subjected to countless intimidating, offensive, and racially charged messages, including direct threats, on both Instagram and TikTok. As a result, he decided to disable comments on his social media profile.

The viewers grew suspicious of the personal trainer as they suspected he had a strategic approach to winning the £50,000 prize with Megan, his partner during the entire show, while simultaneously showing interest in new arrivals. This flirtatious behavior created some tension among viewers.

As a lifestyle authority, I find it crucial to address situations with honesty and clarity. In this scenario, he allegedly insinuated that Megan was intentionally portraying him negatively on camera, which followed us 24/7 on the Island. Moreover, during another disagreement, he demanded we remain quiet, casting a shadow of doubt over the authenticity of his emotions.

However, Dejon firmly believes that his connection with Megan is genuine, and he was willing to leave the show after experiencing feelings of disorientation and perplexity due to criticism about their relationship, which seemed to have been misrepresented by both new and returning Islanders who had observed its poor depiction.

Dejon mentioned that he had been absent for approximately 10 full weeks, starting from the very beginning until almost the end. During this time, he found himself in a secluded space without access to a phone, leaving him clueless about the happenings in the outer world.

Upon regaining access to my device once again, one of the initial actions I took was reaching out to loved ones for a heartfelt catch-up. However, what ensued was an unexpected onslaught of criticism and hurtful comments that left me taken aback.

Due to the escalating negativity, Meg and I have mutually agreed to disable the comment section. The messages we’ve been receiving are detrimental to our mental well-being.

It seems like everyone is attacking me on the internet. I’ve faced a wide range of threats, including those that are racially charged and filled with hatred. I’ve experienced just about every form of abuse one can imagine.

The crowd labeled Dejon as someone with a high degree of self-centeredness, alleging that he had manipulated his girlfriend Megan, along with the female Islanders Malisha Jordan, Billykiss Azeez, and finalist Yasmin Pettet on certain occasions. Furthermore, they claimed that he declined to respond to any questions regarding these women.

Some people argue that Dejon didn’t openly disclose his actions as he carried on dating and getting acquainted with other women, frequently praising their appearances, all the while maintaining a close relationship with Meg, who claimed to be unaware of his flirtatious behavior.

On the show, Dejon further embarrassed Meg by passionately kissing Yasmin, his love rival, and favoring her during the challenges. This led to heated arguments between them during their last date, a tradition where Islanders usually express their romantic feelings towards one another, creating a significant historical tension.

Some viewers criticized Dejon when his friend Harry Cooksley appeared to be emotionally distressed amidst his love triangle with Shakira Khan and Helena Ford. However, according to Dejon, these claims of leaving Harry without comfort are entirely untrue.

He said: ‘I do take full accountability for how I communicated at times in the villa.

The females who appeared alongside me on the program assert that I’m neither a narcissist nor a gaslighter. These characterizations, which they’ve only encountered online, hold significant weight for me since they were in close proximity to me for 24 hours straight each day.

Although I could have managed situations more effectively, I do possess empathy, a quality that was evident towards Meg, Harry, and during times when Meg was upset, I offered support. Similarly, when Harry was upset, it deeply affected me.”

This version maintains the original meaning but presents it in a more natural and easy-to-read manner.

In our unique bond, Harry and I dubbed it Fitness and Feelings – an escape into the gym where I’d whisper, “Don’t fret, old friend, we’re liberated here. Our emotions, others might mistake them for sweat droplets.

Dejon, who came close but didn’t quite make it to the finale of this year’s Love Island, a competition won by Toni Laites and Cach Mercer, confesses that he struggles with showing vulnerability. This was particularly challenging for him in the villa, given that his every action was under scrutiny, not just by the public, but also by his fellow contestants.

As the performance continued, I became increasingly disoriented and bewildered. On numerous occasions, particularly when Meg and I were performing exceptionally well, and I was certain that our relationship would thrive beyond the stage, I found myself yearning to leave.

In simpler terms, while the audience might’ve noticed me being playful, they likely didn’t catch a glimpse of my emotional side. The truth is, I harbor many emotions, but expressing them isn’t always easy for me.

As a die-hard fan, I’d normally retreat into solitude to process my emotions, shedding tears in the confines of my room or seclusion. But when you’re on screen, and my heart aches with distress, knowing millions are witnessing your pain, it’s an entirely different ball game. To make matters more challenging, I was surrounded by housemates, leaving me with no private sanctuary to vent and regain composure.

Meg, Harry truly assisted me with that matter, and learning about Helena’s hardships really tugged at my heartstrings. I must admit, I have a lot of understanding and compassion, and it’s safe to say I am quite empathetic. I can genuinely feel others’ distress.

In the current season, Megan Forte Clarke and Blu Chegini, who were previously eliminated from the villa, came back with an understanding of how the show’s producers had portrayed the cast to the audience.

Fresh competitors, often referred to as bombshells, frequently joined the villa. As per Dejon, feedback from the public about him and Megan, who was labeled a ‘mean girl,’ had been shared, causing discomfort and anxiety.

He mentioned that he found it confusing since they were enclosed in a secluded environment (the bubble), but some Islanders who had previously been in the villa returned, along with unexpected surprises (bombshells). However, these individuals are supposed to keep information about the outside world secret, yet they disclosed hints and used certain phrases.

As a lifestyle expert, I found myself pondering a curious observation while watching the reality show. The Islanders, from their vantage point on the outside, would often remark about Meg and me sharing lighthearted moments, engaging in activities together, and exchanging laughter. However, these instances were seldom depicted on screen. This discrepancy sparked my curiosity – what was truly unfolding behind the scenes? It seemed that the Islanders had a different perspective of our interactions off-camera.

As a devoted fan, I found myself caught in the midst of Dejon’s playful charm unfolding during key episodes. Specifically, during the ‘Sleepover’ and ‘Movie Night’ episodes of the show, his affectionate comments towards Billykiss, who he asserted had not been romantically pursued by him, were displayed on a grand cinema screen for all to see.

However, Dejon asserts that his current regret for playing the field stems from his belief that he didn’t fully grasp the purpose of the program. On this reality show, contestants are frequently motivated by producers to pursue relationships, engage in numerous dates, and participate in kissing competitions.

In my own words, I’d say: “Indeed, I acknowledge that I did engage in some flirtatious behavior as depicted on the show. However, it’s important to note that the program is designed for entertainment purposes and the content might have been edited to emphasize certain aspects.

I can confidently assert that I’ve managed to resolve all issues I’ve ever encountered, and there’s no lingering tension with any of the Islanders. During my exploration phase, Meg and I always maintained open communication.

‘I thought on Love Island you needed to find who you have the strongest connections with.

While interacting, I unintentionally caused pain to others’ feelings, which wasn’t my intention. Navigating relationships with multiple individuals in one setting was challenging for me since I hadn’t encountered such a situation before.

‘I acknowledge I’ve made numerous errors, but the strength of my bond with Meg is something for which I am deeply grateful. Despite my past flirtations with other women while we were both single and open, she chose to stay by my side. Now that we are in a romantic relationship, Meg has been and will continue to be the only one.’

2021’s show drama witnessed a split among the women islanders, as they divided into two factions, and it seems like host Maya Jama has made her loyalty clear as well.

Maya, the presenter, has been keeping track of Toni, the show’s winner, along with her top three companions and fellow competitors Shakira and Yasmin, via Instagram. However, she has opted not to engage with any of the male contestants at this point.

When someone inquired about Dejon’s feelings regarding the Instagram account Maya chose to follow, he responded: “That doesn’t particularly affect my emotions.

In my world, there’s this extraordinary lady I’m eager to keep a bond with, and for the foreseeable future, she’s none other than my beloved girlfriend, whom I fondly dubbed “My Meg” during our time together.

In his own words, Dejon, who played for both Watford Academy and Oxford United during his semi-professional football career, shared that he and his girlfriend, Meg, have started making plans to live together. Last Thursday evening, he had the pleasure of meeting Meg’s entire family in her hometown, Southampton.

He shared: “I didn’t have a strategy when entering Love Island; my goal was to find love, which I did. In the latter part of my stay, I mentioned that I was prepared to depart whenever I achieved what I set out for. I found a girlfriend, and I exited the villa with two dear friends, Harry and Helena. I was absolutely content.

From the very beginning, Meg and I lived together in the villa. She was the sole partner I formed a relationship with, the one who shared my bed, and the person I spent every minute of every day with. Our connection and bond are incredibly strong, as we have only been separated for one day since our first encounter.

On the day she was absent, I yearned for her greatly. Since we regularly talk on the phone and video chat, our future plans involve cohabiting in London.

Is Dejon certain he can resist the possible allure of a new fanbase, celebrity events, and free bar access – experiences that led to Tommy Bradley’s downfall when he kissed Dani Imbert from TOWIE while his partner was away, at his initial high-profile event?

I’m completely at ease about attending events… My feelings for Meg were quite unusual and developed rather swiftly.

‘How I feel about Meg is different to how I’ve felt about any other girl,’ he said.

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2025-08-08 02:50