Kelsey Parker reveals she is taking ‘each day as it comes’ as she speaks out on losing her third child

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Kelsey Parker shared that she’s dealing with each new day following the sad passing of her child, Phoenix, in a first public discussion on the subject.

34-year-old podcast host experienced a devastating loss in June when her first child with partner Will Lindsay, Phoenix, was stillborn.

Previously, Kelsey was married to Tom Parker, a member of the band The Wanted, who tragically passed away in March 2022 at the age of 33 due to glioblastoma.

After the unfortunate incident, Kelsey shared her thoughts for the first time with The Mirror, saying: “I never imagined I’d be going through this ordeal again, having lost Tom and now Phoenix. However, I believe that when dealing with grief and loss, one must face each day as it comes and gradually find a way to cope.

Kelsey, the mom of Aurelia (age 6) and Bodhi (age 4), along with their late father Tom, has mentioned that they have talked about the passing of their brother Phoenix.

She shared the same approach with them as she had done with Tom, simply telling them the truth. Her belief is that honesty is key when dealing with children, especially during challenging times.

Kelsey thought that, since the children had already experienced the loss of their father, accepting Phoenix’s passing might be less difficult for them due to prior hardship.

She remarked that our family is somewhat similar to the Addams Family, as we’ve faced a lot of loss and gloom. Our kids are particularly attentive to these experiences.

Kelsey acknowledged that Noreen and Nige, Tom’s parents, were there for her during her difficult time dealing with the passing of Phoenix.

The influencer expressed that she remains incredibly fond of Noreen, and when Kelsey shared the news about her pregnancy with Phoenix, she wholeheartedly approved.

Kelsey immersed herself in a daily regimen as a means of handling her sorrow, ensuring that she was consistently present at the school entrance to collect Aurelia and Bodhi. This served as a way for her to demonstrate resilience and reassurance: ‘It’s important to be strong and face each day.’

Kelsey tragically discovered that she would be losing her third child, whom she intended to call Phoenix, just a week before he was scheduled to be born.

Breaking the news in a poem, she announced the news on Instagram in June. 

In a beautiful and heartfelt manner, she wrote: ‘As you came, the world fell silent, yearning for your presence though you were not yet living. Our cherished son, our beacon of divine grace, was born with wings and flew away silently.’

We gave you the name Phoenix, symbolizing bravery and brilliance. Your spirit embodies love, comfort, and illumination. Despite not hearing your cries, you will be cherished within hearts that won’t question your existence.

Even though you don’t breathe or have eyes, you continue to hold immense significance for me. You’ll accompany us gently, present in every deep breath, every tear we shed.

Sharing on her Instagram stories, she expressed: “I’d like to preemptively thank everyone for the kind words and heartfelt messages they might send my way. Your support means a lot to me.

However, considering the news is still quite fresh, it’s crucial for us as a family to have some privacy to absorb and deal with this heartbreaking and life-altering information at our own pace.

As a devoted admirer, I wanted to express my heartfelt gratitude and affection towards each and every one of you. Your patience and understanding mean the world to us. From the bottom of our hearts, we are eternally grateful. Sending endless love, Kelsey, Will, and the entire Parker Family.

Last year, Kelsey encountered arborist Will during a nighttime excursion, and it was in September that they made their romantic involvement public.

On a Sunday, Kelsey posted a video of her at the beach during the trip, accompanied by an emotional letter addressed to Phoenix.

The podcast host penned: ‘A Letter to My Angel. It’s hard to find the words.

Experiencing a heartache like this can’t be anticipated. I held hopes for you, cherished moments such as your initial laugh, your first steps, and the comforting embrace you would offer during overwhelming times.

Kelsey added: “Now, those scenarios I had envisioned are woven into a new type of narrative – one I hadn’t anticipated needing to share with you.

However, it’s not solely about physical pain; it’s also about the subtle yet profound love that you infused into our world.

‘About how you changed me — made me softer, more grounded, and somehow even more grateful.

It’s perfectly normal to feel both sorrow and appreciation at the same time. I mourn the loss, yet I am deeply grateful that I got to nurture you for nine precious months, showering you with unconditional love every day. I made sure to express my love for you frequently.

‘You will always be mine. My son. My light. My why.

‘I share this not because I have answers, but because silence can be lonely. 

If you’re experiencing something similar to grief, remember that you don’t have to go through it alone. There’s a silent community of shared pain, and I can truly empathize with what you’re feeling.

For the time being, I’m adapting to the pain, taking deep breaths during turbulent times, and discovering small sanctuaries of tranquility amidst chaos.

‘And I know that even though I can’t hold you in my arms, I carry you in my heart, always.’

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2025-08-07 04:05