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Rylan Clark reveals he felt like a ‘failure’ following the breakdown of his marriage as he reflects on split with ex-husband Dan Neal

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Rylan Clark has pondered over the emotional upheaval he went through after parting ways with his ex-husband, Dan Neal.

In 2021, after six years of shared vows, I found myself single again when my heartthrob, Rylan, confessed to his infidelities. As a devoted fan, it’s been an emotional rollercoaster ever since.

Now, four years on, he has spoken candidly about the devastating period that followed.

In the recent installment of his podcast “How to Be…” featuring Tasha Ghouri from Strictly Come Dancing, Rylan shared that he experienced feelings of failure when his romantic relationship concluded.

He said: ‘When I went through my divorce, I had a full-on breakdown because it wasn’t just us. 

It seemed as if there were more people present, although it was only my ex and I. I had the sense that others would view me in a certain way.

He acknowledged, “People will likely think, ‘Ah, see, his life isn’t flawless. Ah, see, he’s stumbled in this way.’ It made me feel like a failure.

In contemplation of our heartrending separation, I came to realize that moving apart was indeed the proper course of events.

After Rylan delved deeper into his relationship with Dan during his podcast conversation with Stephen Fry, he continued discussing it.

In 2015, we tied the knot. This year would have marked our 10th wedding anniversary.

After that, Stephen inquired whether Rylan perceived any sense of obligation to portray same-sex marriages, given his status as one of the notable LGBTQ+ personalities.

He questioned whether you too experienced a sense of disappointment or failure when your relationship ended, considering that you were potentially undermining the concept of same-sex marriage. We owe it to demonstrate that our unions are just as resilient and enduring as those of heterosexuals.

Rylan expressed: “A part of me was overwhelmed with feelings of utter failure. It wasn’t just about my personal letdown, but also a sense of failure on behalf of the LGBTQ+ community, which I feel deeply connected to. However, I want to make clear that I don’t see myself as a representative or leader for everyone within this community.

Stephen reassured: ‘No, you’re not, exactly. You’re not a poster child for gayness.’

Rylan added: “Indeed, it feels as though marriage is within my reach, something I truly desire, and a possibility that I can certainly achieve.

As a supportive observer, I recognize that not every attempt at marriage will have a fairytale ending. However, I wouldn’t wish for others to draw hasty conclusions like, “That’s why they shouldn’t tie the knot.” Instead, I believe in learning and growing from experiences, whether they lead to a successful union or not.

As a supportive friend, I swiftly expressed: “Feel free to remarry should you wish, but let’s ensure a solid prenuptial agreement this time around to avoid past difficulties.” This hinted at Rylan’s personal experiences with divorce.

In the past, Rylan openly admitted that his unfaithfulness during his marriage to Dan was the primary reason for their breakup.

In the spirit of honesty, when I discovered his infidelity, I found myself compelled to bring it to an end – a decision that was as difficult as it was necessary, following our painful disclosure.

After experiencing a painful divorce and battling with suicidal feelings, Rylan’s weight plummeted to only 57 kilograms.

Or:

Post-divorce and struggling with thoughts of suicide, Rylan’s weight sank to a mere 9 stone.

Both versions convey the same information but use slightly different wording for clarity and natural flow.

In his second autobiography titled “TEN: The Decade That Shaped My Destiny,” he candidly discussed the tough periods we’ve been experiencing together.

In the book, he wrote an open revelation about his past experiences: ‘I entered into a relationship at a young age without much thought. Now I realize my individuality. I won’t accept anything less than what feels right for me. Looking back, it could be considered a blessing in disguise.’

1. “I’m open to having intimate relationships, and there’s no issue with that. However, do I yearn for something deeper? Absolutely. Will I find pleasure in the journey? Definitely.” (More formal and polite)

2. “I’m down for getting intimate, but don’t get me wrong – I want more than just that. Of course I will enjoy myself while at it? You bet!” (Casual and straightforward)

3. “I’m game for physical intimacy, but let me be clear – there’s always a desire for something more. And yes, I’ll relish the experience?” (More formal and polite)

4. “I’m cool with getting intimate, but it’s not all I want. Of course, I’ll have a good time? You can count on it!” (Casual and straightforward)

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2025-07-12 11:48

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