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Paulina Porizkova is engaged! Model, 60, accepts proposal from boyfriend Jeff Greenstein, 61, after claiming late husband Ric Ocasek was ‘obsessed with her and controlled her life’

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Paulina Porizkova announced that she is now engaged to her partner, Jeff Greenstein, following more than two years together.

On Wednesday, the model, aged 60, posted a touching video on Instagram, which she had recorded together with the Will & Grace scriptwriter, also 61, following his proposal.

The pair were spotted in a vehicle, where Paulina was clinging to Jeff’s hand and bringing it close to her face, clearly displaying her fresh engagement ring.

Following the passing of her spouse Ric Ocasek in 2019, it is now reported that Paulina has become engaged. During their marriage, Ric was said to be ‘infatuated’ with Paulina and exerted a significant influence over her daily life.

Paulina and Jeff, who connected through the exclusive celebrity dating app Raya, flashed bright smiles for the camera. In her post’s caption, the former judge on America’s Next Top Model expressed: “He proposed.

Paulina received an abundance of congratulatory messages, among them was a heartfelt one from Kyle Richards, a star on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, which read: “Congratulations!!! 💕💕

‘Your smile speaks volumes of joy 💖… What an outstanding achievement! Kudos to you both! Lots of love as you continue your beautiful journey together!’

Jeff’s professional roles encompass that of a television writer, producer, and director. In his past, he held the position of showrunner for both Will & Grace and the popular 1990s sitcom, Dream On.

In November, Paulina expressed a heartfelt homage to Jeff, acknowledging that she was grateful for having found the love she had spent her entire life seeking.

‘After almost six decades, I finally found him. This discovery came about through reflecting on my identity and understanding my values.’

In my quest for self-discovery, I delved deep within to uncover my recurring tendencies and flaws, striving tirelessly to transform them. I realized my inherent value, and subsequently, I meticulously fine-tuned my preferences, or as I like to call it, my “picker.

In addition to the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Issue model, her boyfriend also needed to put in some effort.

She added, “He too needed to complete certain tasks prior to becoming my ideal match. Our paths crossed perfectly.

In a later conversation, the supermodel shared her viewpoint that, even though they met relatively late in their lives, it was the personal growth and development they had achieved prior to their encounter that attracted them to each other.

I think further education for us should be a joint effort, much like a journey around the globe taken by two individuals who gradually discover each other along the way.

In May 2023, exactly three months into a new romantic relationship, Paulina made it public. This was approximately two years following the conclusion of her relationship with writer Aaron Sorkin, who is 63 years old.

In the past, she was wedded to the late frontman of Cars, Ric Ocasek, from 1989 until 2019. Together they have two sons, Jonathan (aged 31) and Oliver (aged 27).

On September 15, 2019, Paulina discovered Ric already deceased. The Chief Medical Examiner’s office later confirmed that his death was due to natural causes.

Previously, Paulina shared insights about Ric’s intense preoccupation with her, explaining how he exerted control over her life during their marriage. This control extended to dictating what she wore and what activities she engaged in.

On “The Conversation with Amanda de Cadenet” podcast, she reminisced about her romantic feelings for The Cars’ lead singer, which blossomed during his peak popularity.

She explained to De Cadenet that she initially perceived his feelings as love, but in reality, they seemed to be more of an intense fixation on her part. To him, this fixation might have appeared as deep affection, but to her, it felt akin to the intensity often associated with obsession.

It seemed like he expected me to be always by his side and had no desire for me to engage in any activities or travel. He made it clear he wanted me confined within his sphere of influence. I mistakenly thought this constant emotional support was a sign of affection, which I now realize was not the case.

She clarified, “I understood love to be something akin to a cherished possession that one doesn’t want to lose sight of.

Paulina likened Ocasek to the ancient Greek sculptor Pygmalion, who developed feelings for a statue he had crafted himself.

She remembered that he guided and advised her, telling her what clothing to wear and what actions to take. At the time, she followed his desires, as the thought of losing his affection was greater than any professional ambition, friendships, or personal interests she had.

Absolutely, he held a significant place in my life, guiding me for countless years through his wishes. However, once I stopped following his desires, that’s when things began to take a turn for the worse.

Paulina mentioned that since she was just 19 years old when they first met, she knew she would eventually grow up and forge her own path. Unfortunately, this independent spirit seemed to bother her husband.

She expressed, ‘For a prolonged period, I didn’t understand that being considered a prized possession rather than someone who is cherished, you don’t undergo change, you don’t age, and you don’t evolve. Instead, your usefulness is quite restricted. You need to remain the object of their fixation.’

A model, originally from what is now Czechia, shared insights about how the power dynamics in her relationship contrasted starkly with her experiences growing up in Sweden, a place where it was indisputable that men and women held equal status.

She mentioned that an experience, shared by many, left a lasting impression on her and continues to do so, which is quite surprising given my personal stance as a feminist. However, I ended up marrying a man who instructs me on what to wear.

When questioned about her choice to remain in that kind of marriage, she confessed it wasn’t too challenging for her to find harmony with it, as it was her desire at the moment.

She expressed that she deeply desired it. She yearned for the affection he showed her. She longed for the love he offered. She craved all the things he provided over countless years, as she put it.

During a certain phase of existence, it’s true that I couldn’t realize my dream movie roles or build the career I aspired to. However, what mattered most to me, the essence of life itself, was the love that I experienced.

Porizkova highlighted that Ocasek demonstrated exceptional fatherhood towards their sons, Jonathan (age 28) and Oliver (age 23), contrasting the relationship he had with his offspring from his earlier two marriages.

Looking back, by the time we became parents, he had already fathered four children before us. Some might argue his parenting skills weren’t top-notch with those initial four. However, when our own kids came along, I believe he saw them as an extension of himself and me – a chance to get it right this time. And in my eyes, he succeeded.

In her own words, Porizkova emphasized that she had poured all her efforts into their marriage and would not have let it go if there had been more open communication between them.

She firmly maintained that she was determined to remain with her husband for all time, despite the fact that things were less than ideal, he preferred separate beds, and he seemed preoccupied and paid little heed to her.

In my role as a lifestyle advisor, I find myself often yearning for that heartfelt connection with someone. Specifically, I longed for open communication and a simple acknowledgement of his feelings – something along the lines of, “You know, our bond remains strong.” I found myself inquiring about his wellbeing, wondering if perhaps it was health concerns causing this distance: “Is there some reason you no longer feel the same way towards me?

The former Sports Illustrated employee mentioned that when she expressed feelings, Ocasek often replied by suggesting she was too downhearted, questioning instead: “Why can’t you simply find happiness?

She pointed out that what he was doing wasn’t about communication or conversation, but rather a simple request for her to smile and let him handle things on his own.

Paulina Porizkova expressed that despite their quiet separation in 2017, which marked nearly three decades of marriage, she never ceased to cherish Ric Ocasek and couldn’t imagine a life without him, even during those times.

She shared, “I frequently expressed, ‘You see, I value our closeness and wish to assist you whenever needed. How about we live in adjacent apartments so the children don’t have to decide? Let’s continue with annual family vacations, Christmas, and Easter celebrations. Essentially, let’s keep sharing everything.’

Paulina Porizkova shared that the reason for their separation was due to her struggle with feelings of loneliness and unattractiveness as a woman, which left her deeply saddened.

It seemed to me that he agreed with the idea. To be honest, I genuinely believed he shared the same goal. However, it appears I may have been a bit optimistic about his intentions since he did not explicitly express them.

In September 2019, when they were already separated and undergoing a divorce, she discovered his lifeless body in their Manhattan townhouse valued at $10 million. He was 75 years old at the time.

The following day, I discovered that he had excluded me from his will mere weeks prior, citing that I had abandoned him as the reason. Leaving me penniless, he took away not only his assets but also my hard-earned income.

As a die-hard admirer, I can’t help but feel a tinge of sadness when I reflect on the fact that the legendary musician, whose music has been an integral part of my life, excluded his oldest sons, Chris and Adam Otcasek, from his last will and testament. They are sons from his first marriage to Constance Campbell, a connection that binds them with his rich musical legacy, yet they were left out of this final act. It’s a bittersweet reminder of the complexities of family dynamics even in the lives of our cherished idols.

She expressed to De Cadenet that she believed him to be an exceptional man, albeit complex, but a good man nonetheless. She also conveyed that she felt deeply certain he reciprocated her affection. However, she admitted that perhaps it was her mistaken assumption where things went awry.

In the process of their divorce, Porizkova mentioned that she believed she should have received at least half of her former partner’s assets, as she hadn’t anticipated him keeping it all for himself.

She expressed that it was both shocking and devastating when he wished for her to receive nothing. It shattered her world and everything she believed in.

This is an act of treachery. It’s a violation of the trust, affection, and all the dedication I’ve invested in him over so many years. Unfortunately, I can’t fathom what could have driven him to commit such an action.

Three weeks prior to his passing, Ocasek amended his will, a situation Porizkova suspects was instigated by his legal advisors. In her thoughts, she imagines that, had he survived, he would have made the necessary adjustments himself.

Paulina disclosed that she had negotiated a deal with her late spouse’s estate, stating that according to New York state law, she would receive one-third of Ocasek’s possessions, as he owed her this amount.

She expressed doubt, saying about the will, ‘I wish it wasn’t something he deliberately decided on. Perhaps he was compelled to act in a way that unintentionally caused me harm, but I can’t be sure.’

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2025-07-10 13:05

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