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Contributor: ‘Cheers’ was fiction, but Norm was for real

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I’ve never been fond of small talk, as it often feels like a time-consuming ritual before we get to the genuine exchanges. Over time, it seems that our conversations have become increasingly filled with such formalities. What people say less frequently nowadays are genuine sentiments; instead, it appears more about how they want to project themselves or advance their own interests.

One factor that consistently endeared the character of Norm Peterson from the sitcom “Cheers,” portrayed by George Wendt, was his charm. Now, at the age of 76, he’s closed out his tab in this worldly tavern and moved on to a place where I hope the drinks never stop flowing.

From the moment I stepped foot into that establishment, there was something about Norm that felt universally appealing – much like Diane Chambers might’ve described a fellow student or server who wasn’t exactly cutting it in the job department.

In the annals of American television, none surpassed the clever entrances of Norm, a feat so impressive that each episode of the series provided us with a new instance.

You recognize the classic joke: Upon entering, Norm grabs a cold beer, someone enquires about his well-being, to which he usually responds.

There seems to be something deeper, doesn’t it? I find myself reluctant to label this as mere humor, for it exudes an attribute that is becoming scarce – genuine sincerity.

Instead of considering “How’s the world treating you, Norm?” a routine politeness, Norm takes it genuinely seriously. This is not usually how we handle such questions.

In one instance, he says, “Life can be ruthless, but I’m dressed in dog treat undergarments.” Responding to “What’s up?”, he replies, “Everything is wiggling, from my backside to my jawline.

In reality, when someone queries about our well-being with the phrase “How are you?”, we often respond reflexively, saying “Good, and you?” Most times, we might not truly consider our response, nor pay close attention to their reply that follows.

It’s truly remarkable to express concern for someone by asking about their well-being sincerely, dropping the usual formalities, and showing genuine interest in their response. Such an approach can be quite disruptive yet empowering, encouraging everyone to give heed and care more deeply.

Norm was always truthful in his responses, often adding a touch of wit that both his conversation partner and the bar’s patrons appreciated. However, he didn’t shy away from vulnerability. In fact, he was open to discussing his challenges, which meant going to a place where humility resides.

Currently, it may appear as if Norm’s life was easy-going. He possessed a home and a wife who remained loyal to him despite his frequent nights spent with the group at Cheers – usually avoiding her phone calls. His work schedule was not very demanding, as he seldom put in significant hours.

Amidst a modern era filled with solitude, one might find themselves looking at the character Norm and thinking, “I envy his social life.” Norm is surrounded by companionship; he’s admired and cherished by many.

Times evolve, and it seems unlikely to find a bar like “Cheers” in today’s world, but perhaps such a place could never exist without the enchantment of sitcoms. Shows often present idealized versions, yet there is a grain of truth and wisdom in both the show “Cheers” and its character Norm. He was integral to the show’s charm. Despite the changing times, we can still yearn for such a place. We should.

In “Crime and Punishment,” Dostoevsky penned the idea that everyone requires a sense of belonging, which may manifest as another person. This sense of belonging allows us to truly express who we are – emotionally, spiritually, and in all other ways.

In their own words, Norm never felt compelled to exaggerate or fabricate. Instead, he openly acknowledged his challenges – possibly his periods of sadness, or what some might call depression. He embraced his mistakes. Entering a room was like a thirsty Blaise Pascal settling his bar tab with witty remarks, making him an inspiring figure.

This version preserves the essence of the original while using more conversational language and providing additional context for readers who may not be familiar with the reference to Pascal paying for drinks in pensées (phrases or thoughts).

As a movie enthusiast, I’ve always found that classic trick of guessing people based on subtle clues – it never fails to impress! Just like how Sherlock Holmes would leave Dr. Watson in awe with his uncanny ability to deduce details about someone from their walking cane, the same magic is woven into some sitcoms where characters seem to know everything about others without much explanation.

When I was eight years old, I vividly recall watching Norm and finding him incredibly admirable. Unlike a popular sports figure, Norm could’ve been my neighbor. His ability to make me chuckle was captivating, but it wasn’t just his humor that astounded me. What truly impressed me was his bravery in openly sharing his truth about himself.

As a cinephile, every day with Norm wasn’t just an ordinary day. Much like how every game in baseball matters, regardless of the month, they all hold equal importance. So even though people might say it’s early in the season, each moment counts just as much as any other.

Norm’s life was portrayed exceptionally well by George Wendt, making it hard to imagine anyone else in that role. As for how Norm perceived the world, I believe his priorities offer a clue to this. This insight earns you a free round.

Colin Fleming is the author, most recently, of “Sam Cooke: Live at the Harlem Square Club, 1963.”

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2025-05-22 00:32

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