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Stacey Solomon & Joe Swash’s Big Argument Revealed! What They Fight About Most Will Surprise You!

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Stacey Solomon has revealed she and Joe argue of his use of the phrase ‘for you’ around the house. 

On her BBC reality series, “Stacey & Joe,” the 35-year-old TV personality disclosed a common point of contention in their marriage: her husband often claims he’s performed household chores “for” her, which they frequently argue about.

Speaking to the camera, Stacey said: ‘I’ll tell you what we argue over the most, ‘for you’.

I’m taking care of the kids for now. By the way, I started the dishwasher for you.” Or simply, “Kids are with me now, and I ran the dishwasher for you.” Avoiding overly romantic or formal language can help maintain a casual and comfortable tone in conversation.

Joe said: “In all honesty, ‘I can watch over the kids for you while you go out for dinner. They’re staying with me.’

Afterward, Stacey firmly stated that nothing on the list was exclusively for her, since those tasks were equally Joe’s responsibilities too.

She expressed: “Absolutely, they’re your children as well! The house needs your care too! I don’t understand why it seems like only my responsibility?!

Joe playfully replied: ‘Well, I’m not doing it for myself am I? Only joking.’

The couple invited cameras into their cherished residence, known as Pickle Cottage, to record a reality TV series, named Stacey & Joe, which highlights their household activities, similar to the Kardashians’ show.

In my perspective as a lifestyle expert, this series chronicles the lives of a pair who skillfully manage their professional pursuits alongside the upbringing of their blended family. This dynamic duo includes Rex, aged five, Rose, three years old, and Belle, two, who are their biological children, along with Zachary, 17, and Leighton, 12, from Stacey’s past relationships.

Instead, it’s said that Stacey has expressed second thoughts about joining the reality series following the negative reception.

Stacey and Joe, who got married in 2022, have been adamant about sharing both their highs and lows, stating that they don’t want to give off the impression of living a glitzy life.

Consequently, as reported by The Sun, the television host appears to be expressing remorse over his candidness, due to unfavorable responses from spectators.

According to a source, Stacey is expressing remorse over her decision to join the show. Typically, whatever she gets involved with tends to be successful, but this time, it seems the criticism they’re receiving is beyond her expectations.

It’s said that Stacey is worried about the impression they both make during their disputes, as Joe’s difficulties with time management and ADHD often conflict with Stacey’s strong preference for being extremely organized.

A friend shared with the media that ‘She finds herself appearing overly authoritative due to his inability to handle tasks independently. This situation often leaves her as the one taking charge, which has led to some tension.’

In one instance, Stacey finds herself distraught when Joe fails to attend a crucial gathering, forcing her to manage the infants’ care while simultaneously arranging the debut of her own signature scent.

Although he was asked earlier not to disappoint her, the EastEnders actor arrived five hours past due following a fishing trip with his companions.

In a chat with OK! before the show, Stacey and Joe shared they’d be showing genuine disagreements onscreen. They felt it was crucial for their authenticity, as many other couples might consider editing out such arguments.

Joe stated, ‘Instagram often portrays lives as flawless and ideal. We should strive to reveal both the good times and the bad – it’s not always a rose-filled path. There are moments when disagreements occur.’

Stacey commented: ‘As you can see, we’re not an ideal pair. However, we’ve never claimed to be perfect. What makes our relationship unique is the opportunity to observe ourselves reflected in each other, a chance that doesn’t come along frequently.’

As a lifestyle expert, I’d say, “In my experience, I’ve found that observing the occasional disagreements between two people in a relationship can be incredibly enlightening. It provides a unique perspective into their individual flaws and helps understand where they are coming from. Interestingly, I’ve noticed that this approach has been more effective than traditional couples’ therapy for some.

In the therapy session held on Tuesday, Joe confided that he perceives himself as an issue in Stacey’s flawless life because of his ADHD, which they attended at the Henry Centre in Westcliff, Essex.

During a chat with counselor Natalie Corbett, Stacey expressed empathy for Joe’s annoyance, as he is exerting considerable energy.

I might say to Joe, ‘Joe, I genuinely need your assistance with these three tasks, I’m finding them quite challenging.’ However, despite his intention to help, he often engages in activities that are not related to the tasks I asked him for.

He becomes agitated as he’s invested a lot of time and energy, but it seems like you’re not addressing the specific tasks I’ve asked you to do.

It seems I have to handle things independently in most cases. You’re truly a fantastic father and individual, yet there are times when I feel that you might not fully grasp the numerous blazes I need to extinguish here and there.

With a downcast expression, Joe responded: “I’m at a loss for words. It’s infuriating because I’m giving my all to support my family, striving to accomplish as much as I can, moment after moment.

‘And then to sit here and listen to the fact that I’m a huge problem…’

‘But nobody is saying that. Is that what you hear?’ therapist Natalie asked. 

Joe interjected, saying, “It seems like I’m just seen as a massive issue in Stacey’s ideal world. I’m not picking up on any encouraging comments about me as an individual.

Stacey expressed, “This seems to be the most significant challenge we face in our relationship. It’s because I find it difficult to express thoughts without them being perceived as personal attacks on you as an individual.

Joe said, “What I always aim to do is take care of my family. When I see or hear things suggesting otherwise, it’s not the message I receive. It’s really upsetting for me.

Afterward, Stacey made it clear: “Joe, you might be catching more than what’s explicitly stated. I’ve added a positive note to almost every point I’ve made so far. The aim is for us to collaborate in addressing this issue.

‘That’s what I’m here for. I’m not here to change you. I’m here to support who we are.’

However, some viewers expressed disapproval towards the couple’s performance on their show, voicing their opinions on social media platforms last week.

‘I’m a fan of Sort Your Life Out and like Stacey Solomon, but Joe Swash? Eh, not so much. Initially, I wasn’t going to watch #staceyandjoe, but I decided to give it a shot. Nope, no chance, and absolutely not.’

‘Who on earth approved this content? I’m confused by #Stacey&Joe.’ or simply ‘This doesn’t make sense to me. What’s with #Stacey&Joe?’

Stacey and Joe, can’t you believe that BBC One keeps producing such terrible programming? It’s an outrageous squandering of our TV licence fees.” or “It’s unbelievable how @BBCOne continues to produce this utter rubbish. It’s a shameful waste of public funds.

Nevertheless, numerous individuals expressed fondness for both the pair and the program, showering praise with comments like: ‘I truly enjoyed Stacey and Joe, our modern-day Essex Kardashians! I cherished every single moment!’

I’m really enjoying everything related to Stacey and Joe – they radiate warmth and appear to be a wonderful family. The Pickle cottage looks stunning too; I imagine it’s captivating in every season.

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2025-05-08 11:04

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