David Walliams reveals he’s ‘probably non-binary’ and life ‘might have been easier’ if he were gay as he discusses gender identity and sexuality in a new interview

David Walliams reveals he's 'probably non-binary' and life 'might have been easier' if he were gay as he discusses gender identity and sexuality in a new interview

I find it incredibly moving to witness David Walliams openly share his personal struggles and triumphs. His story is a powerful reminder of the complexities of human emotions and the resilience of the human spirit. It’s heartwarming to see how he’s turned his darkest moments into a beacon of hope for others, encouraging open conversations about mental health.


In a recent interview, David Walliams expressed that he identifies as likely non-binary, candidly discussing his sexuality and gender identity.

53-year-old humorist and writer candidly shared that he muses over the possibility of his life being less complex had he identified as gay.

On the Australian podcast titled Uncomfortable Conversations with Josh Szeps, he shared some personal insights about himself.

David shared that had everyone spoken the language we use today when he was younger, it’s likely he would have defined himself as non-binary.

He told the host: ‘I think in a way I’d probably say I am non-binary I think. I don’t know exactly.’

The comedian reminisced: It was intriguing since I had a girlfriend towards the end of my university days, and we would frequently spend time together socially.

David Walliams reveals he's 'probably non-binary' and life 'might have been easier' if he were gay as he discusses gender identity and sexuality in a new interview

David Walliams reveals he's 'probably non-binary' and life 'might have been easier' if he were gay as he discusses gender identity and sexuality in a new interview

In the past, I would frequently visit nightclubs catering to the LGBTQ+ community, where I’d dance for approximately six hours. On such occasions, I often wore skirts and other similar attire.

He added: ‘I think it’s interesting. I mean, I find change interesting. And I mean, you know, I wrote a book called The Boy in the Dress 15 years ago, which was sort of seen as a bit more daring then.

Moreover, I’ve always found delight in embracing diversity, finding it an exciting prospect.

Pondering over my current and past self, I find myself wondering: If I were turning 19 or 20 today, where might I strategically place myself in life’s grand scheme?

‘Given my experience at Bristol University where I studied drama, it seems likely that individuals who might show the greatest interest or inclination towards this field would primarily be drama majors.’

In the latter part of the podcast, Josh Szeps inquired, “Regarding your sexuality, there has been a lot said about you as Britain’s most famous bi-curious comedian. Was this an accurate portrayal of your youth, or were there explorations with males in your past?

As a committed follower, I can affirm that this resonates deeply with me. Indeed, I often find myself identifying with such sentiments. Growing up, I too found solace within the confines of my home. At times, I ponder if life might have been simpler had I identified as gay. You see, I’ve always been drawn to elements of the gay community and its culture that truly captivate me.

Delving into the distinctions between him and his fellow BBC star Matt Lucas, he went on to say: ‘What’s intriguing is that Matt Lucas identifies as gay. He’s also a football enthusiast and has a passion for musicals too.’

David Walliams reveals he's 'probably non-binary' and life 'might have been easier' if he were gay as he discusses gender identity and sexuality in a new interview
David Walliams reveals he's 'probably non-binary' and life 'might have been easier' if he were gay as he discusses gender identity and sexuality in a new interview
David Walliams reveals he's 'probably non-binary' and life 'might have been easier' if he were gay as he discusses gender identity and sexuality in a new interview

‘But yeah I’d say I’m probably sort of camper than him. It’s hard, I don’t know.’

Following the incident where David disclosed that his mother discovered him unconscious on the bed, a suicide attempt during his college years.

During his younger years, the comedian struggled with depression and, upon returning home from college during Christmas, made a suicide attempt.

In a conversation with The Times, David shared that it was his mother, Kathleen, who discovered him and attributed much of his recovery from depression to her assistance.

He said: ‘The weight of my depression had become unbearable. I’d known something was wrong from an early age — a feeling of unbearable loneliness I could never escape.

That first Christmas after leaving university, a heavy sense of despair enshrouded me. Unable to bear it anymore, I found myself in a desperate situation. My mother unexpectedly found me unconscious on my bed, having unfortunately overdosed.

“It shattered her into pieces, causing her to weep for weeks on end. The realization of my self-centered actions left me filled with regret, but her unending love carried me through the hardship.

David has consistently shared a strong bond with his mom, expressing that he has always been able to be entirely authentic in her presence.

David Walliams reveals he's 'probably non-binary' and life 'might have been easier' if he were gay as he discusses gender identity and sexuality in a new interview
David Walliams reveals he's 'probably non-binary' and life 'might have been easier' if he were gay as he discusses gender identity and sexuality in a new interview

As a devoted admirer, I can share that during my time at an all-boys senior school, Kathleen played a significant role in bringing out my more expressive self by casting me as the queen in All the King’s Men. In preparation for the part, she even arranged for me to wear a wedding dress, which was quite extraordinary and memorable.

He mentioned that his mom had consistently been an advocate for his comedy path, whereas his dad, Peter, tended to harbor doubts about him achieving a career in this field.

In the past, David has openly discussed his battles with depression, as seen in his 2012 memoir titled “Camp David.

He wrote: ‘Many people who suffer from depression confirm early morning is the worst time. At 4am you are totally alone.

In this situation, it seems as if there’s nobody to reach out to. What I experienced wasn’t merely an overwhelming sense of sorrow, but a pervasive fear. A fear that encompassed the possibility of death, the uncertainties of life, the complexities of love, and everything else in between.

In 2019, during an episode of Bear Grylls’ ITV program “Bear’s Mission”, David expressed that having a son named Alfred significantly improved his life.

He mentioned that he feels significantly improved now. A wonderful aspect of parenthood, he explained, is that your entire world centers around the child, leaving less room for self-absorption and personal issues since there’s no time for them.

As someone deeply moved by this narrative, I encourage you to reach out to the Samaritans at 116 123, a service that is accessible for free from any phone.

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