Lauren Goodger left heartbroken as she reveals family and friends ‘vanished’ from her life following the tragic death of baby daughter Lorena: ‘I’ve never felt loneliness like this’

Lauren Goodger left heartbroken as she reveals family and friends 'vanished' from her life following the tragic death of baby daughter Lorena: 'I've never felt loneliness like this'

As someone who has gone through the unimaginable pain of losing a child, I can only begin to empathize with Lauren Goodger’s heartache and loneliness. It’s a sorrow that transcends words and time, a void that no one but another parent who has experienced such loss can truly understand.


As a devoted admirer, I can’t help but empathize with Lauren Goodger’s heart-wrenching revelation. She has bravely shared her feelings of being deserted by loved ones after the devastating loss of her precious daughter Lorena. It appears as if everyone simply vanished from her life following this unimaginable tragedy.

In a heart-wrenching turn of events, as an ardent admirer, I find myself compelled to share the tragic news: The TOWIE star, aged 37, welcomed her second daughter into this world in July 2022, only for her life to be cut shockingly short just minutes later, with her umbilical cord tragically entangled around her neck.

She’s shared that she’s gone through a devastating loss, describing it as the “most distressing event” or “the hardest moment” she’s ever encountered.

Lauren, a mom to two-year-old Larose, shared that over time her network of support has diminished significantly, leaving her with an unprecedented sense of isolation.

Over time, as the days pass since I lost Lorena, people might assume, “Ah, it’s been two years, he must be doing better.” However, the reality is quite different. The loneliness I feel now is unlike anything I have ever known before in my life.

Lauren Goodger left heartbroken as she reveals family and friends 'vanished' from her life following the tragic death of baby daughter Lorena: 'I've never felt loneliness like this'

Lauren Goodger left heartbroken as she reveals family and friends 'vanished' from her life following the tragic death of baby daughter Lorena: 'I've never felt loneliness like this'
Lauren Goodger left heartbroken as she reveals family and friends 'vanished' from her life following the tragic death of baby daughter Lorena: 'I've never felt loneliness like this'

Lauren mentioned that she has fallen out of touch with some of her closest friends, and added that although her parents don’t get to spend as much time with Larose as she’d prefer, it’s her elder sibling Nicola who is consistently there for her when needed.

As a lifestyle expert, I find myself compelled to share an unfortunate observation. It seems that when someone experiences the profound loss of a baby, I’ve noticed a troubling trend: friends and acquaintances often disappear from their lives. I’ve had individuals reach out to me on Instagram, sharing their stories, saying ‘This exact situation happened to me, but as soon as I experienced this loss, everyone seemed to vanish.’ The human response to such situations is a mystery to me, but it appears that in times of grief and need, people tend to retreat rather than offer support.

Apart from that, she mentioned that her ex-partner, Charles Drury (age 27), who is the father of her two daughters, offers assistance. Despite living about three and a half hours away from her residence in Essex, they manage to co-parent effectively.

Whenever there’s a crisis, he’s nowhere to be found. Yet, our paths cross twice weekly – not as a driver, but as a fellow enthusiast. We rendezvous midway each time to transport Larose, sharing this common passion that binds us.

Last month Lauren slammed her ‘fake friends’ for not contacting her on the second anniversary of her Lorena’s tragic death.

On this solemn day marking a year since my precious daughter left us, I find it necessary to address certain individuals who chose silence over support. In an open and heartfelt post shared yesterday, I labelled their actions as a regrettable ‘disgrace.’ As a lifestyle expert, I urge everyone to remember the importance of empathy and compassion in times of grief.

As a lifestyle expert, I’d rephrase it this way: “In a post that has since been removed from Instagram, I expressed my feelings by saying, ‘For those who didn’t reach out today, whether through call or even a simple visit, I must say I find it disappointing. It seems there is a lack of respect for Lorena and me, as well as Larose.’ “

‘Some of you are family and some are friends! But really your not genuine family of friends…

Lauren Goodger left heartbroken as she reveals family and friends 'vanished' from her life following the tragic death of baby daughter Lorena: 'I've never felt loneliness like this'
Lauren Goodger left heartbroken as she reveals family and friends 'vanished' from her life following the tragic death of baby daughter Lorena: 'I've never felt loneliness like this'
Lauren Goodger left heartbroken as she reveals family and friends 'vanished' from her life following the tragic death of baby daughter Lorena: 'I've never felt loneliness like this'
Lauren Goodger left heartbroken as she reveals family and friends 'vanished' from her life following the tragic death of baby daughter Lorena: 'I've never felt loneliness like this'

‘Some of you a re family and some are friends! But really your not genuine family of friends…

I’ll put up with you, mainly for Larose’s sake, but as she grows older, she’ll be able to see things clearly and make her own decisions about our relationship.

1. In addition, Lorena is keeping an eye on things, and if you didn’t take the slightest effort to send a “thinking of you” message, it’s disappointing as you’ve let Lorena down too. By the way, thanks for reaching out to Larose today.

Lauren and her two-year-old daughter, Larose, celebrated the day with a birthday cake and releasing a balloon towards the sky, close to a memorial plaque dedicated to Lorena. The inscription on the plaque reads ‘Forever in our hearts.’

The area was decorated with a white rose, a lit pink candle and a birthday card addressed to Lorena, as well as a picture frame.

Lauren posted a video detailing their day’s activities, accompanied by a message that said: “2nd Birthday in Heaven, Happy Lorena! Makes me appreciate even more every year the blessing of having my big sister, Larose!”

‘She is one in am million and I couldn’t have got through today without her. She is my rock! So so so proud of both my girls love you both always mummy.’ 

As someone who values a life dedicated to wellness and support, I urge you: If any information in this piece resonates with your experiences, kindly reach out to the UK Child Bereavement line at 0800 02 888 40 or The Lullaby Trust at 0808 8026868. They are here to offer you comfort and guidance during this challenging time.

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2024-08-19 16:34

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