Jennifer Lopez’s fans think she sent Ben Affleck a secret message in her latest Instagram post

Jennifer Lopez's fans think she sent Ben Affleck a secret message in her latest Instagram post

As a die-hard JLo fan who has been following her journey since the “Jenny from the Block” era, I can’t help but feel a mix of emotions while reading this latest news about Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck. The way Jennifer uses her music to express her feelings is always captivating, and this time, it seems like she sent a heartfelt message to Ben through her Instagram post and song choice.


Fans of Jennifer Lopez speculate that she may have subtly communicated with her rumored ex-husband, Ben Affleck, through a coded message in her recent Instagram upload.

On Sunday the 55-year-old Hustlers star appeared in a video to promote Delola.

In a striking yellow-and-white striped tank top, she exuded beauty as she lounged by the pristine swimming pool of her LA mansion valued at approximately $65 million – a property she’s currently trying to sell. Notably, she wore her wedding rings from Ben on her fingers.

‘Slush summer crush,’ her caption read. 

But her choice of music for the post was suspect.

Lopez employed a reworked version of her earlier popular track, “If You Had My Love.” Some fans speculate that this track is directed towards Ben, given its themes of past love and betrayal. One fan even wondered, “Is this song about Ben?”

Jennifer Lopez's fans think she sent Ben Affleck a secret message in her latest Instagram post

In the tune she sings: ‘Suppose you possessed my affection, And I bestowed upon you all my faith, Would you console me? And imagine if you were aware, That your affection was false, Would you deceive me? And still endearingly address me as ‘honey’?

Having lived through my fair share of heartbreaks and deceit, I believe that trust is the foundation of any relationship, be it personal or professional. So, if we are to embark on this journey together, here’s what I expect:

Based on my personal experiences, I believe that genuine love is not just about fulfilling another person’s dreams; it’s about sharing a journey and creating shared memories together. If you truly want me, babe, be someone who supports, encourages, and grows with me, and we can make each other’s dreams come true.

 Last week it was claimed JLo’s inner circle doesn’t like Ben.

That includes Jennifer’s longtime manager Benny Medina, a source told Page Six.

According to them, these two individuals have a deep-rooted dislike for each other. Their relationship is strained, and there’s lingering tension between them.

During numerous stages of Jennifer’s initial triumphs, Benny was a collaborator. However, their professional partnership concluded in the year 2003.

Jennifer Lopez's fans think she sent Ben Affleck a secret message in her latest Instagram post

Multiple sources reportedly said that Affleck played a role in Lopez’s decision to ditch Medina.

A few years following their split in 2004, when they ended their engagement, she once again made Benny her manager, welcoming him back to her professional team.

From that point onwards, he has consistently maintained a position as one of her most trusted confidants. Notably, they have often been spotted together during their getaways in the Hamptons, while Ben has stayed behind in Los Angeles.

According to another informant, Benny strategically remained silent for a more tactful way of dealing with Jennifer’s renewed relationship with Ben.

They stated that his demeanor conveyed a sense of silence, implying he wouldn’t speak up. However, it was neither encouraging nor critical, according to them.

According to the source, it seemed unnecessary to demonstrate, as he supposedly believed that Jennifer would end up marrying Ben no matter what anyone else thought or did.

Leah Remini, a close friend of Jennifer, experienced a temporary break in their friendship during Jennifer’s relationship with Ben. However, it seems that Jennifer herself did not play a significant role in the termination of this friendship.

Jennifer Lopez's fans think she sent Ben Affleck a secret message in her latest Instagram post

In my expert opinion, I’ve shared before that there seemed to be a rift between Jennifer and Leah, with Jennifer choosing not to extend an invitation to her wedding after the King of Queens star advised Jennifer to reconsider certain aspects of her relationship with Ben, which were rumored to have been the cause of their initial separation.

However, they had put aside their past dispute earlier in the year, and it seems that Leah had recently spent time with Jennifer, offering her support during the reported troubles in Jennifer’s marriage with Ben.

Based on the information from the second source, it seems that only Lopez’s mother appears to have a fondness for Ben Affleck. The source characterizes him as having an extremely unpleasant personality, often using the term ‘triple-A jerk’.

They indicated that recent news articles suggest Affleck may be postponing a divorce filing with the intention of not losing Jennifer.

Jennifer Lopez's fans think she sent Ben Affleck a secret message in her latest Instagram post

However, a source had earlier informed the media that the timing was off, as Jennifer had already been embarrassed by Ben’s proposal to rekindle their brief relationship.

The second source stated, ‘That wasn’t something she had anticipated happening,’ she added emphatically. ‘If anyone had told her they were separating less than two years into their relationship, she would have been so shocked that it might have led to a heated response.’

On Thursday, I was seen putting in work here in sunny Los Angeles. According to a piece published by In Touch, it’s been suggested that I’ve been holding off on filing for divorce for a tactful reason – to spare Jennifer any potential embarrassment. This is because I’m currently producing the upcoming film “Unstoppable,” where she plays a key role.

Ben and his long-standing friend Matt Damon, acting as a producer alongside him, seem deeply involved in ensuring the movie’s success. As a result, it is rumored that he has postponed his divorce to avoid any potential negative impact on the film’s ticket sales or Jennifer’s public reputation.

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2024-08-12 17:51

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