House of the Dragon finally confirmed Rhaenyra Targaryen is queer

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As a long-time fan of George R.R. Martin’s “Fire & Blood,” I’ve had the pleasure of observing Rhaenyra Targaryen’s character development through the pages of this intricately woven narrative. Her complexities and nuances have always fascinated me, and I’ve spent countless hours pondering her motivations and relationships.

In the latest episode of “House of the Dragon” titled “Smallfolk,” we were surprised by an intense kiss between Queen Rhaenyra Targaryen and her confidante, Lady Mysaria. This is the first instance where the show has hinted at Rhaenyra’s possible romantic interest in women. Although it’s essential to remember that applying our contemporary notions of gender and sexuality to characters in Westeros may be misleading, the inclusion of a queer Targaryen character warrants intriguing exploration from this dedicated “ASOIAF” expert.

In my opinion, Rhaenyra Targaryen is a character whose queer identity has been present since the source material for the show, “Fire & Blood” by George R.R. Martin. This aspect of her character was eagerly anticipated by fans in “House of the Dragon.” Rhaenyra’s tale revolves around gender and sexuality; if she had been born a man, the Dance of Dragons might not have transpired. Her sexual liberation before and during her marriage significantly impacted history. Overlooking the role of queerness in her narrative diminishes its complexity.

Rhaenyra is known for boldly pursuing what she desires without apology, whether it be with men or women. This trait is evident in her relationships, so it’s not shocking that she would deny herself nothing based on societal expectations. Her unconventional marriage to her uncle, whom she deeply admired growing up, should not raise eyebrows more than her attraction to other women. Alicent’s unfortunate comment from season 1 was “You Targaryens have strange traditions.” Rhaenyra expresses her longing for the freedom and lack of consequences that men possess in this episode when she tells Mysaria, “[Daemon] was everything I wanted to be – carefree, dangerous… a man.”

What’s the relationship like between Rhaenyra and Mysaria? There’s definitely chemistry and trust there. When Rhaenyra feels undervalued by her council, she turns to Mysaria. Unfortunately, even though they have a female ruler, her advisors still exhibit misogyny. Mysaria understands the common people’s perspective since she isn’t part of the nobility on the council. Rhaenyra opens up to Mysaria, sharing her frustrations, which establishes an intriguing dynamic where Rhaenyra depends on Mysaria more than Mysaria relies on her. In this way, Mysaria serves as a stabilizing force and sounding board for the queen’s plans and thoughts.

Above all, Mysaria goes beyond political concerns and is now Rhaenyra’s closest confidante. They share personal matters that Rhaenyra keeps hidden from others. This may be because of Mysaria’s past loyalty or their shared history as lovers of Daemon. After their argument, Rhaenyra speaks to Mysaria about Daemon, dismissing anyone who dares mention his name. When Mysaria reveals her traumatic past, Rhaenyra offers comfort and security in return. It is then that Mysaria makes her move, sensing Rhaenyra’s acceptance and intent to stay close. Their kiss arises not only from passion but also from a deep connection and an increasing need between them.

As a fan, I ponder if their relationship will deepen between Mysaria and Rhaenyra beyond a single encounter on the show. Based on the books, it’s mentioned multiple times that Mysaria remains Daemon’s mistress during the Dance of Dragons, with Rhaenyra’s apparent approval. Could this dynamic shift? Or is it possible for both Rhaenyra and Daemon to have a shared lover in Mysaria? “Let Daemon satisfy his desires wherever he chooses,” Rhaenyra reportedly said in “Fire & Blood.” “And we shall do the same.” An intriguing alternative, polyamory, could also be an option for their relationship as suggested by some book readers.

Later in the novel, Mysaria plays a pivotal role for Rhaenyra during her most vulnerable times, as portrayed in the series. With their strong bond, Mysaria passes crucial information to Rhaenyra, influencing significant decisions that shape history. Some argue that from her position beside her, Mysaria subtly manipulates Rhaenyra, resulting in far-reaching consequences.

Is Rhaenyra Targaryen queer in Fire & Blood?

In simpler terms, people often wonder if Rhaenyra from “Fire & Blood” is queer based on the text. The answer isn’t straightforward as the book hints at her preference for both men and women but never confirms it explicitly. From my interpretation, and that of many others, the answer is yes. These suggestions are made subtly to allow those who choose not to acknowledge it to do so easily. Additionally, the text is written from a maester’s perspective who might not have access to all information, leading to potential omissions or exclusions.

As a gamer, I’ve noticed that Rhaenyra has a special affinity for certain female characters in the game. Out of all, my cousin Lady Laena Velaryon stands out as her most favored one.

In “Fire & Blood,” it’s mentioned that Rhaenyra developed a deep affinity and strong bond with her sister-in-law, Lady Laena. This term is used repeatedly by the author. Some readers might view their relationship as being incredibly close friends or even more than that.

Martin writes that Rhaenyra and Laena frequently spent quality time with each other despite living in different locations, as they took turns flying on their dragons with Daemon, Rhaenyra’s uncle and Laena’s husband, accompanying them. During this period, Rhaenyra’s dragon Syrax laid multiple batches of eggs. The children of Rhaenyra and Laena were betrothed to one another, and when Laena was giving birth to her child, Rhaenyra stayed by her side continually for three days following Laena’s passing. This situation strongly suggests a deep emotional bond between the two women.

The Hightower-shaped elephant in the room

In the TV series “House of the Dragon,” Alicent takes over as Rhaenyra’s closest friend instead of Laena. This change leads to several discrepancies between the original source material and the show. Some viewers have accused the show of queer-baiting due to the potentially romantic relationship between young Rhaenyra and Alicent, which some find ambiguous. Although I don’t share this viewpoint, many fans are disappointed that the show introduced a seemingly queer-coded dynamic between Rhaenyra and Alicent only to deny any resolution. Producers have been questioned about the relationship’s nature for the past three years, with varying responses. Was the kiss between Rhaenyra and Mysaria included to cater to those who desired a romantic connection between Rhaenyra and a woman? Or is it merely an aspect of Rhaenyra’s character that was previously unexplored until now?

 No double standards, please

Rhaenyra Targaryen, a character from the books and show, defies traditional norms and expectations for women in her time and context. Her identity as queer is inherent to who she is, not limiting or defining her other relationships. Just as her husband may be with other women, Rhaenyra’s choices remain true to her character.

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2024-07-22 05:44